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The Multi-Orgasmic Man
by Mantak Chia and Douglas Arava
HarperSanFrancisco, 1997
REVIEW
The basic approach that The Multi-Orgasmic Man takes is to teach that orgasm and ejaculation are, for men, two separate physiological processes. Thus men may experience orgasm, and in fact experience several orgasms, either before ejaculation or completely in lieu of ejaculation. This is solid information, and male multiple orgasms of this nature have been observed time and time again by sex researchers.
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THE BASIC APPROACH
This book's basic approach for male multiple orgasms is that men stop or change the stimulation they are creating/receiving just prior to reaching the point of ejaculatory inevitability. If done close enough to ejaculation, one may experience the muscular contractions that accompany what the authors call "contractile phase orgasms" without moving into "expulsion phase orgasm." Expulsion-phase orgasm is accompanied by ejaculation and erection loss, while contractile-phase orgasm is accompanied by the normal feelings of "coming" (including the 3-5 sec. "fluttering" muscular contractions in the pelvis) without ejaculation and without erection loss.
http://www.sexuality.org/mantak.html
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The link is for the review that I quoted from, excerpts only, to provide the basis for a thread, there is more if you care to pursue.
I found the site on a continuing search for the ‘Sybian’ machine, trying to understand more about the phenomena or phenomenon , which ever is correct grammar, about sexual gratification.
I have not offered much to the forum in terms of erotica, hence Literotica, other than some stories that I doubt many have read and they are mild in content and comparison with most; more, ‘romantica’, than erotica, but the personal side of erotic thoughts, I have not felt the need to share, as most anything personal I mention is jumped on and used in a political manner and I have refrained from doing so.
But when I scanned this review, and double blinked and went back and read it, I had a quick, small epiphany, a sudden learning experience, and then another one, close behind that. So, perhaps as a need to write it out, more than the need to post it, I began this.
The first realization was closely tied to how I write stories. I pace and walk and think and compose in my mind the scenes and the dialogue, sometimes saying the words out loud to see how the might read and look; if there is action, movement in the scenario, I might even mime the gestures or expressions that I create for the characters. The plot and the theme are always uppermost, having been sensed but not grasped beforehand, but needful of being continuously in the background for continuity, but this is an author’s forum, so I need not explain all that.
From here on this gets a bit personal and intimate, so you should boldface this and snicker so you can copy and paste, I don’t mind, I expect it.
When I begin to mentally compose the sexual scenes, the flirting, the first encounters, the pre foreplay, foreplay exchanges of glances and smiles and body posture and positions, I find myself slipping my left hand down and touching the top of my penis to begin a little self arousal for the coming scenes, this is while still walking or pacing; and the right hand either has a cigarette or a beer in it, it doesn't work for me in a sitting or reclining position. It seems to be a requirement for me to be a little aroused when I write that portion of the story.
Not bragging and surely not complaining, but my usual flaccid five inches expands a wee tad to more firm, but far from erect and rigid, but still firm enough to give a sense of arousal, if you gentlemen writers can relate.
And as the scene becomes more intense, I continue to expand somewhat and do, actually, experience a mild orgasm and what is crudely called ‘pre-cum’ leakage that I become aware of…that usually means the scene is going well. (chuckles)
As I read the review quoted above, I suddenly became aware that multiple male orgasms were indeed a reality, one which I was not aware of before. This is of some import to me as a writer as in some of my stories, the multi-orgasmic lady is curious to know when her male counterpart might be ready and able to perform again.
Which then led to the second epiphany which was coincidental to the first.
I know it didn’t occur in my teens or twenties, maybe in my mid thirties, but somewhere along the way, I found I was able to control the ‘expulsion’ orgasm, to extend my time of full erection so as to please the lady beneath me, or above me, and try again to bring her to a climax. But not until I read the review did I realize that even in delaying the final burst, I got close enough to experience a milder but still, enjoyable orgasm along the way.
The purpose behind this thread is multi-faceted, I needed to write it to get my thoughts in order. I thought perhaps to counter recent unintended comments that demeaned male performance in the ‘missionary’ position, (hi Quince), and since I have noted several male forum members mention they have classes and studies and I assume to be rather young men, I thought perhaps the above information might be of some small value to them.
So there it is. Other than the spell check that happens, I ain’t gonna edit it; it is what it is.
Amicus…
by Mantak Chia and Douglas Arava
HarperSanFrancisco, 1997
REVIEW
The basic approach that The Multi-Orgasmic Man takes is to teach that orgasm and ejaculation are, for men, two separate physiological processes. Thus men may experience orgasm, and in fact experience several orgasms, either before ejaculation or completely in lieu of ejaculation. This is solid information, and male multiple orgasms of this nature have been observed time and time again by sex researchers.
…
THE BASIC APPROACH
This book's basic approach for male multiple orgasms is that men stop or change the stimulation they are creating/receiving just prior to reaching the point of ejaculatory inevitability. If done close enough to ejaculation, one may experience the muscular contractions that accompany what the authors call "contractile phase orgasms" without moving into "expulsion phase orgasm." Expulsion-phase orgasm is accompanied by ejaculation and erection loss, while contractile-phase orgasm is accompanied by the normal feelings of "coming" (including the 3-5 sec. "fluttering" muscular contractions in the pelvis) without ejaculation and without erection loss.
http://www.sexuality.org/mantak.html
~~~~~~~~~
The link is for the review that I quoted from, excerpts only, to provide the basis for a thread, there is more if you care to pursue.
I found the site on a continuing search for the ‘Sybian’ machine, trying to understand more about the phenomena or phenomenon , which ever is correct grammar, about sexual gratification.
I have not offered much to the forum in terms of erotica, hence Literotica, other than some stories that I doubt many have read and they are mild in content and comparison with most; more, ‘romantica’, than erotica, but the personal side of erotic thoughts, I have not felt the need to share, as most anything personal I mention is jumped on and used in a political manner and I have refrained from doing so.
But when I scanned this review, and double blinked and went back and read it, I had a quick, small epiphany, a sudden learning experience, and then another one, close behind that. So, perhaps as a need to write it out, more than the need to post it, I began this.
The first realization was closely tied to how I write stories. I pace and walk and think and compose in my mind the scenes and the dialogue, sometimes saying the words out loud to see how the might read and look; if there is action, movement in the scenario, I might even mime the gestures or expressions that I create for the characters. The plot and the theme are always uppermost, having been sensed but not grasped beforehand, but needful of being continuously in the background for continuity, but this is an author’s forum, so I need not explain all that.
From here on this gets a bit personal and intimate, so you should boldface this and snicker so you can copy and paste, I don’t mind, I expect it.
When I begin to mentally compose the sexual scenes, the flirting, the first encounters, the pre foreplay, foreplay exchanges of glances and smiles and body posture and positions, I find myself slipping my left hand down and touching the top of my penis to begin a little self arousal for the coming scenes, this is while still walking or pacing; and the right hand either has a cigarette or a beer in it, it doesn't work for me in a sitting or reclining position. It seems to be a requirement for me to be a little aroused when I write that portion of the story.
Not bragging and surely not complaining, but my usual flaccid five inches expands a wee tad to more firm, but far from erect and rigid, but still firm enough to give a sense of arousal, if you gentlemen writers can relate.
And as the scene becomes more intense, I continue to expand somewhat and do, actually, experience a mild orgasm and what is crudely called ‘pre-cum’ leakage that I become aware of…that usually means the scene is going well. (chuckles)
As I read the review quoted above, I suddenly became aware that multiple male orgasms were indeed a reality, one which I was not aware of before. This is of some import to me as a writer as in some of my stories, the multi-orgasmic lady is curious to know when her male counterpart might be ready and able to perform again.
Which then led to the second epiphany which was coincidental to the first.
I know it didn’t occur in my teens or twenties, maybe in my mid thirties, but somewhere along the way, I found I was able to control the ‘expulsion’ orgasm, to extend my time of full erection so as to please the lady beneath me, or above me, and try again to bring her to a climax. But not until I read the review did I realize that even in delaying the final burst, I got close enough to experience a milder but still, enjoyable orgasm along the way.
The purpose behind this thread is multi-faceted, I needed to write it to get my thoughts in order. I thought perhaps to counter recent unintended comments that demeaned male performance in the ‘missionary’ position, (hi Quince), and since I have noted several male forum members mention they have classes and studies and I assume to be rather young men, I thought perhaps the above information might be of some small value to them.
So there it is. Other than the spell check that happens, I ain’t gonna edit it; it is what it is.
Amicus…
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Boy, was I shocked (but so very glad! *grin*) Strange thing is, for the most part, I'm a one-orgasm girl... I love the long, drawn out tease, the build up, and I can hold out FOREVER, but after one, I'm just done. He, however, can go and go and go... and usually does... makes sex interesting! 
