The Misfits Thread

[mbb308]

Nice to meet you mbb308!! It's funny how we see things in our kids that we wish we were more like.....but in reality...they are a part of us...it just shows up when we take the time to look.

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Thank you....I've tried to parent in reverse of the way I was raised - not entirely, but some things I wanted to do differently....and it seems to have worked out....he and I get along too well not to be the same....he's just happier than I was at his age.

 

[Ukin]

Just adding my two cents worth to this......there are those on this very thread that haven't really been acknowleged at all....perhaps it might make one feel like an invisible misfit...We all make mistakes in posting, sometimes by not being clear on the intent or content...ignoring a potential friend....sometimes, by even being friendly to one not willing to make any responding effort.....Lord knows, I've tried to answer all posts and messages and I'm sure I've been guilty on all above counts...not intentionally though. I've responded to numerous pm's here only to have that person completely do a 360 when I did not answer the correct way in their thinking...Well, I'm trying to grow a thicker skin....but it's hard...I'm naturally a friendly person and just like in so called r/l, it hurts a bit....I wonder why no one can actually say that posting here is real life too? In a way, it is real.Oh well,I will end this ramble for now....but I wonder how many still feel like a misfit, or misplaced soul even here.

And AA, thank you hon!! Such a sweetie!!

A nice 2 cents worth too CB. Like you, in R/L I too hate upsetting people, and here is no different either...sometimes though, one HAS to ignore some posts...for if we didn't, all sorts of arguments could break out..and that is not for me. I come on here to relax, have fun, flirt a little (well, okay, more than a little) and of course to drool over real photo's used as AV's.

Off the soapbox I jump

 

[Arden]

A nice 2 cents worth too CB. Like you, in R/L I too hate upsetting people, and here is no different either...sometimes though, one HAS to ignore some posts...for if we didn't, all sorts of arguments could break out..and that is not for me. I come on here to relax, have fun, flirt a little (well, okay, more than a little) and of course to drool over real photo's used as AV's.

Off the soapbox I jump

Fancy seeing your name associated with a thread about Misfits... Hi Ukin.

OK if we drool over your Av too?

 

[Ukin]

Fancy seeing your name associated with a thread about Misfits... Hi Ukin.

OK if we drool over your Av too?

Depending on where you intend to drool

 

[spankableBelle]

Belle, Ur soo cute!!! i just wanna....well..nevermind..LoL

For you Lady Belle!!!

you just wanna...???? might as well finish your thought, my dark angel

thank you for the rose...and the kiss... back at ya...<giggles>

 

[Arden]

Depending on where you intend to drool

Oh my...

 

[spankableBelle]

Belle! Congratulations on becoming Guru! I do believe we've posted quite a few times on the BDSM forum, as well as the Author's Hangout, so it's nice to meet another "roamer"!

i have yet to find a 'home', Chele...hugssss...and thank you...

 

[Ukin]

Oh my...

If you want....

 

[CarolinaBabe]

A nice 2 cents worth too CB. Like you, in R/L I too hate upsetting people, and here is no different either...sometimes though, one HAS to ignore some posts...for if we didn't, all sorts of arguments could break out..and that is not for me. I come on here to relax, have fun, flirt a little (well, okay, more than a little) and of course to drool over real photo's used as AV's.

Off the soapbox I jump

You know Ukin, I've been watching those avs of yours ever since I first started posting!! It's one of the enjoyable things here at Lit!!

 

[CarolinaBabe]

Thank you....I've tried to parent in reverse of the way I was raised - not entirely, but some things I wanted to do differently....and it seems to have worked out....he and I get along too well not to be the same....he's just happier than I was at his age.

Lord hon, I hope I'm more open with my kids than my parents were with me!! Sounds like you have a great relationship going there....that's great!

 

[Ukin]

You know Ukin, I've been watching those avs of yours ever since I first started posting!! It's one of the enjoyable things here at Lit!!

OMG...you make me blush young lady! But thank you, I am happy to help your enjoyment..now tell me...is that you? If it is you on your Av......damn..it looks so spankable and kissable..may I?

 

[CarolinaBabe]

OMG...you make me blush young lady! But thank you, I am happy to help your enjoyment..now tell me...is that you? If it is you on your Av......damn..it looks so spankable and kissable..may I?

Mmmmm, I don't see you blushing.....looking closer....nope, that's tan I see!! And yes, the av is me(keeps wondering why I keep getting asked that)........spankings and kisses....now that sounds very enticing!!

 

[Ukin]

Mmmmm, I don't see you blushing.....looking closer....nope, that's tan I see!! And yes, the av is me(keeps wondering why I keep getting asked that)........spankings and kisses....now that sounds very enticing!!

I am glad it does sound enticing..it was meant to be that way..and I had a feeling it was yours...it is cute

 

[CarolinaBabe]

I am glad it does sound enticing..it was meant to be that way..and I had a feeling it was yours...it is cute

Thank you hon......yours is looking rather spankable and cute too!! I don't recall ever seeing this side of you sweetie!!

 

[Ukin]

Thank you hon......yours is looking rather spankable and cute too!! I don't recall ever seeing this side of you sweetie!!

Some say it's the better side of me...that way I am a total ass hahahaha.

I do like to change the Av's on a regular basis..especially now I have got a little braver on here..less shy.

 

[Lady_Sam]

Hi all...mind if this Misfit sorta squeezes in? I'm not quite sure where I belong anymore. No longer part of an ldr, and not so much of a regular poster to feel comfortable posting in every thread. I think I'll go lurk in that other corner

 

[Ukin]

Hi all...mind if this Misfit sorta squeezes in? I'm not quite sure where I belong anymore. No longer part of an ldr, and not so much of a regular poster to feel comfortable posting in every thread. I think I'll go lurk in that other corner

Lady Sam...you are more than welcome and I am sure that I speak on all of the Misfits on Lit..do have a seat, have a drink and above all...do have fun. Welcome.

 

[Cipher]

Hi all...mind if this Misfit sorta squeezes in? I'm not quite sure where I belong anymore. No longer part of an ldr, and not so much of a regular poster to feel comfortable posting in every thread. I think I'll go lurk in that other corner

Hi LadySam!!! Wow!!! Where ya been??? i used to see your posts around quite often, well actually i remember your av..LoL
glad you dropped by tho, it's always nice to see pleasant people stop in and say "Hello"





If anyone is lurking or if ya'll see this later "Hi everyone"!!!

 

[chromefreak]

Lady_sam...

Great to meet you.

Felt like a Misfit myself when I joined Lit, after also being in a LDR that ended myself. I remember seeing you from that thread.

Started by hitting the Personals and the AmPic board, put pics of myself there and watched the download count rise to boost my self confidance and start a-flirtin' again

Later progressed to the PG and the GB. The PG is great when I'm in an obnoxious mood, since I usually don't bother the other people in a "Playground" sort of mood.

And if any of you are ever in a misfit sort of mood due to a broken heart, I'll certainly make an effort to make you feel not-ignored. I'll always be in my corner sitting in the orange velour lazy-boy, ready to listen, or add my $.02 if asked for it. I'm healing pretty well, finally, but I'm in a good state of mind to empathize with fellow misfits.

 

[Lady_Sam]

Re: Lady_sam...

Great to meet you.

Felt like a Misfit myself when I joined Lit, after also being in a LDR that ended myself. I remember seeing you from that thread.

Started by hitting the Personals and the AmPic board, put pics of myself there and watched the download count rise to boost my self confidance and start a-flirtin' again

Later progressed to the PG and the GB. The PG is great when I'm in an obnoxious mood, since I usually don't bother the other people in a "Playground" sort of mood.

And if any of you are ever in a misfit sort of mood due to a broken heart, I'll certainly make an effort to make you feel not-ignored. I'll always be in my corner sitting in the orange velour lazy-boy, ready to listen, or add my $.02 if asked for it. I'm healing pretty well, finally, but I'm in a good state of mind to empathize with fellow misfits.

I'm trying to heal. The break wasn't completely unexpected as the signs had been there. But it still hurts. I'm trying to get back into the midst of postiing again, but still feel sort of lost.

 

[Lady_Sam]

Hi LadySam!!! Wow!!! Where ya been??? i used to see your posts around quite often, well actually i remember your av..LoL
glad you dropped by tho, it's always nice to see pleasant people stop in and say "Hello"





If anyone is lurking or if ya'll see this later "Hi everyone"!!!

Hi Cipher, long time no see. I've been lurking mostly for the last month or so. Posting occasionally. Trying to center myself again.

 

[Cipher]

Hi Cipher, long time no see. I've been lurking mostly for the last month or so. Posting occasionally. Trying to center myself again.

Oh, i see, and i just read your post to Chrome, your hurting
Break ups can be hard, and i'm sorry your heart feels pain
I hope that you find yourself in peace LadySam, and i hope that by posting again you meet some new and wonderful people, or get to know those you haven't spoken to in awhile. Maybe posting here can be a comfort to you in your time of pain.

 

[chromefreak]

Re: Re: Lady_sam...

I'm trying to heal. The break wasn't completely unexpected as the signs had been there. But it still hurts. I'm trying to get back into the midst of postiing again, but still feel sort of lost.

Yeah, never completely heal from a broken heart, but time does dull the ache. This song made a big difference for me, gave me the courage to think, "It's over, I need to move on for my own sanity." Recorded by my all time favorite, Johnny Cash.

I DON'T THINK I COULD TAKE YOU BACK AGAIN
(Jerry Hensley - Earl Ball - Joel Sonier)
« © '77 House Of Cash »

Now you don't have to worry about me babe
Just hook 'em up and head on out to the places where you've been
Go ahead and fly like an eagle in the sky
And when you land you'll find I'm still your friend
But I don't think I could take you back again
Ain't no need to bother about me babe
Someone will come along and she will take me by the hand
Together we will walk where the grass is green and new
And I'll even think about you now and then
But I don't think I could take you back again
Hey where you going you can get there without me so goodbye go on goodbye
And remember though I'm setting you free I won't cry cry cry
I've seen you toss and turning in your sleep babe
Now your dreambags're packed you've got your ticket in your hand
When you love someone you want what's best for them
That's how it is and that's how it's always been
And I don't think I could take you back again
Hey where you going...

 

[Lady_Sam]

Chrome,

Reminds me of a Social Distortion song I've always listened to when I'm in this kind of pain, It's always helped before

Making Believe
Social Distortion "Somewhere between heaven and hell"

Making Believe


Making believe,
That you still love me.
It's leaving me,
Alone and so blue.
I'll always dream,
But I'll never own you.
Making believe,
Is all I can do.

I can't hold you close,
Darling when you're not with me.
You're somebody's love,
You'll never be mine.
Making believe,
I'll spend my lifetime,
Loving you,
And making believe.

 

[Devil_d0ll]

peeks her head in the door

hey everyone... love the idea of this thread.. with me i just dont like threads that take forever to catch up on or ppl on those threads that dont talk to everyone.. so here i am let the fun begin LOL

hey cipher girly big