The Isolated Blurt Thread VII: 7th Heaven

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Who the fuck sends you a phone meeting invite without contact or notification? I dunno any of the people on the list or the originator. I suppose we'll see.
 
If a lover doesn't want you to know his other interests it's none of your business. Unless you're in a monogamous relationship you have no right to expect to know all of someone's secrets. Invading privacy is an invasion. Period.
 
You know I was going to say that in my way which would probably have not come out like that.:)

I'm nice today.:cool:

I'm PMSing and I don't even have those hormones. I'm just pissy.

So aren't you people lucky?
 
If a lover doesn't want you to know his other interests it's none of your business. Unless you're in a monogamous relationship you have no right to expect to know all of someone's secrets. Invading privacy is an invasion. Period.

I have not invaded privacy. I was informed that he sleeps with men by someone who knows this for sure. I would have appreciated knowing that when we were together. I certainly asked if he ever had. I do think it's the right thing to be honest with any lover in any sort of sexual relationship. He and I were exclusive at one point but that's irrelevant. I would have proceeded differently had I known he was bisexual.
 
And there's also of sadness that he thinks he has to hide who he is. And I'm pissed at the same time that he didn't tell me because I would have insisted on condoms. But you know we were in love and I was " the one" and he was " straight" so I didn't worry. Luckily I know I didn't catch anything from him but still, I think he should have told me.
 
I have not invaded privacy. I was informed that he sleeps with men by someone who knows this for sure. I would have appreciated knowing that when we were together. I certainly asked if he ever had. I do think it's the right thing to be honest with any lover in any sort of sexual relationship. He and I were exclusive at one point but that's irrelevant. I would have proceeded differently had I known he was bisexual.

Maybe he tried it and hated it. Or himself. Or was scared for others to know.

I'm not sure why you think it's easier to pass a disease via same sex activities but you should always insist on condoms unless you have a test result paper in front of you.
 

JAJ - girls go to a special doctor every year. Often times tests are performed to be sure you are not harboring an STD. Last year and 5 years ago I asked for " the works". Every test they have including HIV and they were all negative.

My dear friend of 27 years contracted HIV back in 91' from a man she lived with for 2 years. He didn't share his past lifestyle with her. I guess I am really sensitive about people being honest with their lovers because of what happened to Catherine.
 
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Maybe he tried it and hated it. Or himself. Or was scared for others to know.

I'm not sure why you think it's easier to pass a disease via same sex activities but you should always insist on condoms unless you have a test result paper in front of you.

I meant if he was fucking gay men ( which he was), the. He would be at higher risk of getting HIV than a straight guy having sex with women.

You are right about condoms. It was stupid on my part!!
 
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