the glbt what are you looking for in life thread.

[Tymeless]

A woman to accept me for me and spend the rest of my life with.
enough money to cover my transition cost and living a decent life.
i want a career where i am helping people probably in medical or science.
I want a family of my own children etc.
I want everyone i know to live happy and productive lives.

 

[lipsofanangel]

I'm looking for lasting love, which I hopefully have found but it'll be a never-ending process to keep the spark alive

I'm looking for a career that I can actually say I love, instead of one I deal with because it (somewhat) pays the bills

I want to write and be a published author in some aspect

I want a child to raise with my significant other

 

[Tymeless]

I'm looking for lasting love, which I hopefully have found but it'll be a never-ending process to keep the spark alive

I'm looking for a career that I can actually say I love, instead of one I deal with because it (somewhat) pays the bills

I want to write and be a published author in some aspect

I want a child to raise with my significant other

sounds like your well on your way to meeting your life goals!

 

[lipsofanangel]

sounds like your well on your way to meeting your life goals!

I have the first one going pretty strong, the rest remains to be seen.

 

[Tymeless]

to me thats the hardest one to lock down though so your definately on the right pace.

 

[kbate]

[miss america mode]
World peace
[/miss America mode]

 

[Tymeless]

and thats why we love you kbate!

 

[lipsofanangel]

[miss america mode]
World peace
[/miss America mode]

Love and acceptance too?

 

[naughtyinsilk]

I am looking for my head injury to heal, as I would like my former life back. 24 hours without pain would be so nice, its nearly two years since I had a day like that.

I would also like to have a few crossdressing friends that I coud meet up with, its great having lots of gf's but it would also be nice to have someone special to gossip & shop with.

 

[lipsofanangel]

I am looking for my head injury to heal, as I would like my former life back. 24 hours without pain would be so nice, its nearly two years since I had a day like that.

I would also like to have a few crossdressing friends that I coud meet up with, its great having lots of gf's but it would also be nice to have someone special to gossip & shop with.

Head injury??

I'd fall into the gf category, sorry!

 

[naughtyinsilk]

Head injury??

I'd fall into the gf category, sorry!

Had a very large piece of steel fall and hit me in the head fracturing my skull ina couple of places and causing internal damage. On nearly 600 very heavy duty painkillers a month, though still in pain Probably going to have it for the rest of my life. I am only 42 so thats not a great future.

No need to say sory, I love having gf's, it would be great to get to know you.
I was asking for CD friends as since moving from London, I feel a little isolated.

 

[lipsofanangel]

Had a very large piece of steel fall and hit me in the head fracturing my skull ina couple of places and causing internal damage. On nearly 600 very heavy duty painkillers a month, though still in pain Probably going to have it for the rest of my life. I am only 42 so thats not a great future.

No need to say sory, I love having gf's, it would be great to get to know you.
I was asking for CD friends as since moving from London, I feel a little isolated.

Holy shit! That's scary. Thank goodness you're still alive! But I'm sure the pain has to be terrible.

I've been all over this forum lately. I think it's where I'm most comfortable, so I can see myself spending a lot of time here.

 

[Terra_Cide]

I want a life where the only one who controls my time is me.
I have the money to see the places I want to see, and meet the people I want to meet.
I want everyday of my life to feel like the first time I ever fell in love, and to laugh til it hurts.
I wish for good health and prosperity to all those I love and care for.
I want a life filled with and surrounded by creativity.
I want to never stop learning about this human condition called life.

 

[naughtyinsilk]

Holy shit! That's scary. Thank goodness you're still alive! But I'm sure the pain has to be terrible.

I've been all over this forum lately. I think it's where I'm most comfortable, so I can see myself spending a lot of time here.

As I have said before, really it should have killed me, so I dont like to complain too much as its great to still be alive.
Hope to be able to chat with you lots

 

[Tymeless]

I am looking for my head injury to heal, as I would like my former life back. 24 hours without pain would be so nice, its nearly two years since I had a day like that.

I would also like to have a few crossdressing friends that I coud meet up with, its great having lots of gf's but it would also be nice to have someone special to gossip & shop with.

well i guess technically i would be a CD for you until my transition kicks into full gear then i would be a GF

 

[Misty_Morning]

There's only one thing that I want and that is to be Happy.

 

[talimenios]

I want to feel accomplished in my career and like I actually make a difference somewhere, and for someone.

I want to be able to look in the mirror and be able to smile back at myself.

 

[lipsofanangel]

I want to feel accomplished in my career and like I actually make a difference somewhere, and for someone.

I want to be able to look in the mirror and be able to smile back at myself.

You make a huge difference for me, if that counts.

 

[naughtyinsilk]

There's only one thing that I want and that is to be Happy.

Thats it start with the easy one

I hope you do find true happiness & have someone by your side to share it with

 

[Tymeless]

i hope to find true happiness as well as the rest of you finding your true happiness

 

[naughtyinsilk]

well i guess technically i would be a CD for you until my transition kicks into full gear then i would be a GF

Honey whichever you are more importantly you are one of the special people I want in my life.
Anyway, I would regard you straight away as a GF, I never think of pre-op TS's as CDs, because they are just women in the wrong bodies, whereas us CDs are just men in womens clothing.

 

[Tymeless]

Honey whichever you are more importantly you are one of the special people I want in my life.
Anyway, I would regard you straight away as a GF, I never think of pre-op TS's as CDs, because they are just women in the wrong bodies, whereas us CDs are just men in womens clothing.

very true!

 

[angelkitty7888]

In my life i want to be....

1. with some one i love for them and who loves me for me (got that at the moment)

2. have a career that lets me express myself (like something that involves painting or writing etc.)

3. Children with my partner (whom i love see #1)

4. to be well and truly happy (see quote)
(yes, i know, "Harry Potter Fanfiction! you nutter! Harry and Draco would never be together!" well i'm sorry i like them like that but this sums it up quite nicely.... if you're curious about the actual fic you can find it on adultfanfiction.net in the Harry potter section in the harry/draco section called 'Moonlit fair' )

Draco smiled wryly. “I as just trying to think if I have ever made anyone actually happy.” He said.

“Isn’t it strange?” Harry asked. “The Weasleys actually do that often. You can see it in their faces. And, it’s simple things, remembering to carry something down the stairs for someone else, sharing a treat or winning a good game of cards. When any of the kids clean up anything, clear out the garden gnomes, or pick a bunch of flowers. They thrive on it. They fight too, argue and fuss, but all that seems secondary. They live pretty much without spite.”

Draco stared at Harry, he was using the damn Weasleys as examples.

Harry grinned, reading Draco’s thoughts, “I know you don’t like them, Draco. But, they are the only family, Wizarding or Muggle that I know.”

“They seem very volatile,” He said.

“Yes, they are.” Harry replied. “I think they can be that way because they have each other to rely on. They have a kind of freedom to be different because they know they are loved. Only Percy has stepped outside the family, and even he would be welcomed back at any time or if he were in any kind of need.”

“I guess you are right. I know I wanted to please my parents, but I don’t think it was to make them happy as much as proud.” Draco answered soberly.

“It’s a matter of values,” said Harry. “The Dursley’s, my relatives, don’t think about happiness either. They indulge Dudley beyond what is healthy, but it’s to prove they can. They tell each other that they make him happy, but he is a miserable person anyway. They tell me, as well as each other, that I have been the cross they bear and I have prevented their happiness. I am sure they are relieved I am gone for good, but I doubt it makes them any happier in the end.”

“Do you really think it is a commodity that matters to most people?” Draco asked.

“Yes,” Harry said definitely. “I think it is what drives people to be with one another, to work together and live together. Happiness is a goal of sorts, and with it, most people feel they can accomplish almost anything.”

 

[dangles]

To get hired for the job I want.

And a sandwich mmmmmmm......