The Dragon Tamer's Farewell

[The_Dragon_Tamer]

I hath enjoyed myself upon this site and have met several interesting people and made several friends. But it is come to my attention that I am not wanted and that I don't fit in, and perhaps this is true. I did not return to cause harm. I returned to renew old acquaintences, some of which has happened. But I'm afraid that it is time for The Dragon Tamer to leave. When people blame you for things you have not done, when people ask you to leave, when people tell you that you don't belong, perhaps it is time to listen.

My time here has been fun, but being treated poorly, or ignored like you don't exist has had it's desired effect upon the Tamer. I did not return to cause discord on the threads. But on many threads I am either not wanted, ignored, or told that I don't belong. Even the Tamer has feelings and with my present circumstances and injuries I don't need to add to my stress or humilliate myself in front of others.

I will not leave as abruptly as I did before. I will be around for a while to say my goodbyes to those who care. I knew there were rude people here but it seems like it has increased since I have been away.

To all who care, I bid a fond farewell.

 

[English Lady]

Goodbye and take care you look after yourself and do what you need to do ok?

 

[Icey*Fire]

I am sorry that you feel you must leave. But I understand hurt and humiliation that a person can feel on this board..
I have been through it twice..but I stay because there are many good people here.

I wish you well,,,and hope you can find your way back here one day with a mended heart...

 

[tonitits]

Well if YOU believe that it is best to leave, then do so. Don't let someone else make your decision for you. If you DO leave I wish you well and hope that you do whatever you need to do and maybe can come back again. Take care of yourself and get well.

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

Tamer of Dragons!!

Dear friend
I feel your pain, your heartache most clear! a sensitve place you now find yourself, unfamilar ground for you its most clear!

Iam going to give you something I value more then anything in life, and thats truth! we all hide from it from time to time even me, and especially you!

you have made many mistakes as we all do, your sorry for these its most true .. those who know and those who do not it matters not really as its all in the past.. However you must know that there is always an amount of atonement in everything we attempt especially when anothers heart we do hurt even when we do it unintentionally .. anytime we attempt something for selfish reasons it will in time come back and bit us in the ass!! even when our intention is otherwise..

Iam aware that its been most difficult for you to face so very much in this return in the way of bad feelings rude behavior, uncaring people and I had hoped that you would find strength in your true friends walking softly into tomorrow as the healing begins..

you came back here to help not only your friends but yourself! I for one can tell you that your not done! do I need you here to finish whats begun? no I do not! but, I do value your presense!
I would greatly miss you if you left again.. You knew this wasnt going to be easy, and you as well knew that not all would welcome you with open arms.. BUT, a challege it is that you shouldnt run from, for in time all becomes as it should be!

Evil rains everywhere and you find yourself in this downfall! may I perhaps remind you that when something good happens and strength begins anew that someone somewhere and we both know who! will plague us as he always tries to, making thee path hard to travel giving thee more then thee can handle, to crush thee to defeat thee so your strength does wane, your weakness in faith erodes, as you stuble and fall! dishearted and all

Only when you stand strong, will your heart find its way home
release your mind, unchain your soul, allow your true path to unfold, know your worth, need not another to tell you who and what you be! relish in what you know is fact, fiction will always fall
cleanse your spirit with prayer, cleanse your mind with truth, cleanse your body with water blesseded be thy word for its your true sword of battle, give of yourself without need for a return take comfort in you do what you can do and know that its never enough but its what you have to offer! you repair what you can. and forgive yourself for what you cant

close your eyes now and look, do you see the tears as they cascade across my cheeks? they be not tears of pain, yet they do hurt, they ache, as I spin around and see the door closed, smiling again as I know on faith alone, that the window behind me is open!!
Pray tell Tamer! where have you left your faith ~~smiling as only Goddess can, while taking refruge in the fact that iam allowed such boldness with thee~~

 

[dragonhearted]

well put Goddess.

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

well put Goddess.

thank you Dragonhearted!! its lovely to see you here today always nice when you pop around something witty is bound to happen when you open up your mind.. I have always enjoyed watching yours unfold

 

[dragonhearted]

GOS gots PM

 

[Native Alien]

As the one who's heart got hurt, I can say these things.

1.) You bet it came back and bit you in the ass. You were forewarned that it would. I forewarned you that to try to intimidate me was not a good thing to do. You didn't believe me. I also told you that I meant what I said and that I said what I meant.

2.) No one, and I do mean no one, here has been near as rude to you as you were to me. I should have been at the very least asked by you in a pm or email, if I could tolerate you. The postings that you did under another name are what gave me a clue to start watching for you to show up under this screen name.

3.) You were forewarned that the one thing that I couldn't stand was a liar.

4.) You are so right, you are not wanted here. You were told that one too. I told you when you first started to talking with me that the one thing that I had observed about most people on lit was that they didn't tolerate liars well.

5.) You come back, with a story, no proof is offered when asked for it, and you expect people to believe you and everything to be the way that it was when you left.

Sorry, this is not going to happen. Those of us with half a brain can see right thru you. Especially when the habits don't change at all.

Don't bother to ask, this post will not be edited in any way.

 

[English Lady]

Ok I have to say it....but if you can't bear to see him around..erm...why don't you just put him on your ignore list?

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

Ok I have to say it....but if you can't bear to see him around..erm...why don't you just put him on your ignore list?

Wise words Thanks

 

[Native Alien]

Because he made a promise not to come to come back to Lit.

That is the one that I thought that he would keep.

But, like everything else he says, a lie it was.

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

Because he made a promise not to come to come back to Lit.

That is the one that I thought that he would keep.

But, like everything else he says, a lie it was.

Native Iam sorry for your pain.. but its the past and unless you let it go you will never be really happy again.. click the ignore button and walk away .. revenge you have taken over and over and one has to at sometime ask themselves who has hurt who the most!! you at least and sadly enough have taken great JOY in the pain you have inflicted on him.. he at least admits he made a serious mistake and is pained by what transpired between you both WHILE it seems you have taken it upon yourself to create as much pain and Havoc in his life as you possibly can and you do that with such a glee in your heart

so I ask who is it really that needs to back up!

 

[Native Alien]

English Lady, this is for you. I would suggest pages 13 and 14 for your reading.

Click Here

Goddess, because unlike you, I don't forget liars and cheaters, nor do I forgive them. Cheating on his wife was one thing, telling me that she was dead and then that she had left him, and then that she hadn't left him, well you see, I just can't seem to let that one slide.

 

[rosylady]

English Lady, this is for you. I would suggest pages 13 and 14 for your reading.

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Goddess, because unlike you, I don't forget liars and cheaters, nor do I forgive them. Cheating on his wife was one thing, telling me that she was dead and then that she had left him, and then that she hadn't left him, well you see, I just can't seem to let that one slide.

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

English Lady, this is for you. I would suggest pages 13 and 14 for your reading.

Click Here

Goddess, because unlike you, I don't forget liars and cheaters, nor do I forgive them. Cheating on his wife was one thing, telling me that she was dead and then that she had left him, and then that she hadn't left him, well you see, I just can't seem to let that one slide.

I really didnt think that you would Native, But I had hoped!

and you can trust in one thing about me Iam not one to ever FORGET .. and there are things I CANT Forgive as well, I however choose to walk away with a good taste in my mouth then the vile bitterness of revenge
You and I have had this challege of wills for such a very long time and iam sorry about that as I hold you no ill will and frankly iam just tired of this stupid argument you see it hurts me not either way what I feel pain in is that you and yes I said you Native, will do yourself more harm then good with all of this .. Iam done I will post but I will no longer try to reach the cold in you I leave wishing you the best of luck and pray someday for your happiness again Goodbye Native

 

[The_Dragon_Tamer]

Discord and Discontent

Even here on this thread is discord and discontent. Native, I never said that I would leave LIT, at least to best of my knowledge I didn't, for if I would have I would have said goodbye to people before leaving, something that I did not do. Native I ask you to let it rest.

English Lady you have always been a charmer, and have appreciated your wit.

Goddess, what can I say that you don't already know.

Dragonhearted, your mind and ways of life have been fascinating to me. I have enjoyed our conversations in the past.

 

[Native Alien]

rosylady, I can assure you that this person and LordKnightspoetry are not the same person.

Goddess, really I would rather that you didn't pray for me. I don't need your prayers. You, on the other hand, are in far further need of them than I will ever be.

Dragon_Tamer...I remember a quick conversation from a McDonald's parking lot, because you didn't dare call me from home because of your wife. There were intimidating things said and a promise not to return to Lit.

So, yes you did promise, and yet, like all the other things that you have said to me...

YOU LIED!.

Now, you have had your opportunity to say goodbye. Leave and for once in your life, be a man...of your word.

 

[The_Dragon_Tamer]

rosylady, I can assure you that this person and LordKnightspoetry are not the same person.

Goddess, really I would rather that you didn't pray for me. I don't need your prayers. You, on the other hand, are in far further need of them than I will ever be.

Dragon_Tamer...I remember a quick conversation from a McDonald's parking lot, because you didn't dare call me from home because of your wife. There were intimidating things said and a promise not to return to Lit.

So, yes you did promise, and yet, like all the other things that you have said to me...

YOU LIED!.

Now, you have had your opportunity to say goodbye. Leave and for once in your life, be a man...of your word.

I shall if I so desire, not on your terms or on anyone elses but my own. When I wrote this I was at an emotional low, but I still have trouble being told what I must and must not do by anyone. This has a tendency to make me do just the opposite. If I stay just put me on your ignore list and you will not need to worry about what I say of post.

 

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[dragonhearted]

Re: Discord and Discontent

Even here on this thread is discord and discontent. Native, I never said that I would leave LIT, at least to best of my knowledge I didn't, for if I would have I would have said goodbye to people before leaving, something that I did not do. Native I ask you to let it rest.

"The Dying of a Thread
'Tis time that this thread be put to rest as 'tis time for the Dragon Tamer be put to rest. All things must end and somethings have outlived their usefulness. Th need for Dragon Tamers is over, it is a new world where we are no longer needed or wanted. Other Tamers will understand of what I speak. It be time that this Dragon Tamer be released of his misery and pain. I doth admit that I had fun meeting new people, but it only reinforced that my time is over and has reached an end. I doth not know if I shall post upon the threads again. I doth wish ye all well, mayhaps in the future there will once again be need of Tamers such as I, but I fear that I shall never see it. Alas, 'tis truly a shame that this is what has come to be. Farewell my friends, I will remember thee all."

This was from page 13 of the Lonely and Cold, Brrrrrrrr!!! thread. It did SOUND like you said you were going to leave. I don't understand any of this. I don't approve of lying to someone you are supposed to care about, but I do not see the need to carry on the hate for months at a time either. Guess I was not built that way.

 

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[Native Alien]

The really sad thing is that while they all confided in him, they don't realize that he broke each and every one of those confidences and laughted at them while doing so. English Lady, rosylady, Icey Fire, and Tonitits excepted.

Thank you Emmie for your words and wisdom, and for your support. I guess it has to happen to one for one to understand what it does to one.

dragonhearted, that is just what you saw in his words. I heard that promise in his voice. Again he fails to be a man and to live up to his word.

By the way, anyone else notice the time frames during which he posts?

 

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[Roy Kay]

Well, DT, I knew Native before you came along. I knew here where you looked, very flasely, like a preety decent deal. I encouraged her to love you. And then you totally blindsided her with a drumfire of unrelenting deceptions.

Fortunately I consider Native a great lover and an even better friend. I was there as a comforting shoulder for rest as well as recreation. I was honored to be so esteemed by Native.

I doubt that the intelligent world will feel much honored by your presence; nor much bereft at your absence.