The Clean Slate

[Black_Bird]

If you could go back to when you were still virgin, what would you changes about the choices you made? Would you have waited longer? Until marriage? Had sex sooner?

 

[Calamity Jane]

Ahhh... what would I change?

Well, my physical virginity... i would have chosen for it to be consensual.

But, since I've decided that that doesn't count... jump forward 8 years, and I would most definitely have had sex with a different person for my 'first time'... and not in a horse trailer.

 

[LadyDarkFire]

I don't think I would change it. Any part of me that was changed wouldn't really be me anymore, would it? Frankly, i have my faults, my troubles, my bad habits, and I have my history. All of those things are important parts of who I am. I wouldn't change the past, because I want the challenge of working out my life from here on out.

 

[Moridin187]

I wouldn't change a moment of it.

 

[Rambling Rose]

I was in such a hurry to lose my virginity and when it happened at 15 I was not ready for the various implications of becoming a sexual being.

I wish I had waited to find an attentive and patient partner. I wish I had waited until my body developed fully. I wish I had waited but I did not.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

If you could go back to when you were still virgin, what would you changes about the choices you made? Would you have waited longer? Until marriage? Had sex sooner?

The only thing I would change would be that we had more days to spend together ... overall I LOVED every single second.

 

[WhiteRose]

I don't think it could have been better.

It was with someone who had been a very good friend for five years before our relationship blossomed into something deeper, and since it was the only moment we could have had (I had moved away and was living in another state), it was perfect. We never had to go through a breakup because we knew our moment was fleeting, so now, after all this time, we can still look back on it as something to be treasured and not sullied by bad feelings of any kind.

 

[Summery]

A lot of Roses posting in this thread

But anyway, I was 16 when I first had sex. I liked the guy, but was not impressed in the least about the experience. I kept telling myself, this is what everyone is talking about! I suppose at 16 I just wasn't ready for it. I would have waited longer.

 

[Wiggles]

I wish I would have waited longer. I was an early bloomer, and I felt like I was really missing out on something big.

I would've waited until at least sixteen. It wreaked emotional havoc on my life.


I would've choosen a different partner too, one who actually cared about me.

 

[Rubyfruit]

I was 16, he was 16. We were sweethearts throughout high school. I wouldn't change it. He wasn't the most experienced lover, but neither was I.

It was sweet.