The "C" Word

[sterculius]

I'm a guy and I've always used the word cunt to describe a woman's vagina. Vagina is too clinical and pussy and all the other euphemisms are too sanitized or bowdlerized to be effective. The offensiveness of any word is dependent on the intention of the user, the word itself being merely a sound devoid of any inherent significance. My wife isn't offended by my use of the word "cunt" because she knows I don't employ it as an insult. She often employs the term herself when she spreads her legs and says to me "eat my cunt!".

 

[urguyscott]

I expect a woman to be a lady in public just as she expects me to be a gentleman. But in private I want a hot nasty "cunt" who loves being fucked and talking naughty to each other is part of the enjoyment. Some women really like being treated hot and hard in bed. There is one problem and I see it on this post a lot and that is free conversation and expressing your feelings and wants to each other. Even man and wife, lovers for a long time, or just out for some hot pick me up sex, both men and women hold back expressing what they want and yes what they don't want. If someone does say "I don't like that." it sounds more like a rejection or anger instead of just explaining. The person saying it should be honest and the person receiving accept it as part of their being together. I like my sweet innocent proper girl to be naughty and nasty when we are alone. Ummmm. Her using the word cock, or prick etc. or calling me a bastard even is part of the excitement. Men are turned on both vocal and visual. Hey we're all perverts at heart. But if she says she does not like the word respect that and don't use it. Think it, but don't use it.

 

[dolf]

I expect a woman blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.

When you only need to read the first line to know the rest isn't worth your time...

 

[urguyscott]

When you only need to read the first line to know the rest isn't worth your time...

Reading you post I can see you don't have many woman. Of course she expects you to be polite in public with her and naughty in private too. There are times when you both want to be naughty in public and you both agree and that's hot, but the vast majority of the time you behave like grown ups. As a gentleman I can only recall a small number of times when I threw a woman on the dining table at a fancy place, ripped her clothes off and said I want that hot cunt of yours for desert. One time I hear a guy at the next table tell the waitress "I'll have what he is having."

 

[Sean]

I can probably count on one hand how many times I've actually said it, but the word doesn't necessarily bother me. Aussies/Kiwis say it pretty freely from what I've noticed.

I couldn't count on both hands and both feet how many times I've said it TODAY.

 

[dolf]

Reading you post I can see you don't have many woman blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

Again!

For the record, I am a woman. And I've probably had more women than you.

 

[LauraWilling]

I don't particularly like the word of to be called one, but it has been said to me so many times in my life I just let it go past me and pay it no mind. If I didn't I would be mad at the world.

 

[dolf]

I couldn't count on both hands and both feet how many times I've said it TODAY.

I haven't said it once today! ... but that's probably because it's 5am and I haven't said anything yet.

 

[sigh]

I couldn't count on both hands and both feet how many times I've said it TODAY.

There was a girl, just arrived from Scotland, who was going to first day of kindergarten with my son (many years ago, now). She was with her mom and they were right near us as we waited for the doors to open. Well, out comes the teacher who happened to be a very large woman (both tall and wide) with a giant smile, expansive gestures and a head of wild curls.

The little girl piped out with: "Well she's a right fine cunt!"

Mom never batted an eye until the collective gasp of the other moms registered. She belatedly turned bright red and leaned down to fiercely whisper to her child to not say such things at school. Fortunately we're a university town with folks from all over the world in our schools and streets. We're used to cultural differences but even to us cool moms, it was a bit shocking to hear the c-word so casually flow from a 5-year-old's mouth. Here it really is a dirty word.

 

[toeskr]

I don't particularly like the word of to be called one, but it has been said to me so many times in my life I just let it go past me and pay it no mind. If I didn't I would be mad at the world.

LW is "C" classy. Not a cunt, just a classy and a classic.

 

[Saint Peter]

The kid was correct about the teacher.

How could she have known at first glance?

 

[JJA122]

Ya cheeky cunt, ya taking the mickey.

 

[sdsioux]

cunt

never use it always pussy, seems much better

 

[coati]

I was once punished by a Domme for using the word as an anatomical reference.

Lesson learned.

Now I only use it like the Brits often use it, as a reference to people who act like spiteful assholes.

 

[HisArpy]

Again!

For the record, I am a woman. And I've probably had more women than you.

Or at least had your hands full of tits more often than most guys.

 

[LisaVegas]

Everything is situational...

It tends to be a hateful word used towards women here in the states.

As a model, I have had Europeans use the C word on my photoshoots as if is nothing. To them it is nothing. Seems cultural. Many American photographers will use the P word instead. In this situation, either is accepted and part of the vocabulary of what I do for a living.

 

[Sean]

It’s a London thing.

No it isn't.

 

[silver gurl]

Meh. It’s just a word. Doesn’t really bother me.
Except I really don’t like to be called one.

 

[sterculius]

Given the fact that the word "Cunt" is often employed as an epithet, I can appreciate that some might object to its use. I'm at a loss, however, to find alternatives that aren't either infantile, clinical or equally offensive. It's my impression, that, if salvaged from its negative implications, the term could prove useful to refer to a woman's prettiest and tastiest body part and the center of her femininity and biological function.

 

[Not Normal]

I couldn't count on both hands and both feet how many times I've said it TODAY.

I haven't said it once today! ... but that's probably because it's 5am and I haven't said anything yet.

Seems pretty normal 'over there.'

It's completely acceptable in our house. Bluey spent a semester at Oxford and has a British step-dad (though he's a bible thumper, so I doubt he uses it). We use it in pretty much any instance it might be used...

 

[dolf]

Seems pretty normal 'over there.'

It's completely acceptable in our house. Bluey spent a semester at Oxford and has a British step-dad (though he's a bible thumper, so I doubt he uses it). We use it in pretty much any instance it might be used...

It's a standard, friendly greeting amongst blokes here, rather than just an expletive. "How are you, you fat/lanky/beardy fuck/cunt/wanker?" is a perfectly acceptable expression of male affection.

 

[Not Normal]

It's a standard, friendly greeting amongst blokes here, rather than just an expletive. "How are you, you fat/lanky/beardy fuck/cunt/wanker?" is a perfectly acceptable form of affection.

Understood.

 

[toeskr]

Back in the day, heard dulf had a nice cunt.

 

[Saint Peter]

It was magical.

 

[sterculius]

It's a standard, friendly greeting amongst blokes here, rather than just an expletive. "How are you, you fat/lanky/beardy fuck/cunt/wanker?" is a perfectly acceptable expression of male affection.

The terms are still being used here as expletives, but only tongue-in-cheek. I prefer my tongue-in-cunt.