The biggest mistake of my life

[bad kitty]

Dont tell him just to make yourself feel better. Seek help.
for the both of you

I agree, it needs to be done for the relationship, which I think she genuinely wants to fix.

 

[lvskfool]

Emerald,
For now, I'm not going to say anything. I need to figure out my twisted little head first. It's totally unfair and selfish to hurt him just to unburden my guilty conscience. Believe it or not, his happiness always comes first to me which may be where this whole predicament started.

I just hope anyone reading this thread that was considering doing what I've done will really stop and think about the ramifications. It's so totally not worth it. Even if it had been an awesome experience, nothing in the world is worth selling your soul.

 

[Rooster]

Yes the truth hurts ....

but much more worse is a cover up found out later. You begin to wonder what else could be a lie ... and trust is out the window ... temporarily if your lucky.

Can't fix something you don't know is broke .. or about to break.

Once the shock of the truth sets in ... it's easier to work from there .... when it hasn't been covered up.

Much easier to work things out and move on.

Yes it'll be tough .... but hang in there.