cymbidia
unrepentant pervert
- Joined
- Mar 8, 2001
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Welcome to the Literotica BDSM Talk Forum
Hello and welcome.
This small online community is one in which anyone can ask a BDSM question and have it answered by any one of the many people who pop in and out of here on a more-or-less regular basis.
We have all kinds here: Dom/mes, Switches, subs, everyday life-experienced, seekers after theoretical knowledge, sympathetic nillas, newbies to this lifestyle, couples, singles, Tops, bottoms, masochists, Sadists, and more. At least one of us, probably more, will be able to answer your sincere questions, respond to your concerns, address your issues, and laugh, cry, and rejoice with you as you travel your own BDSM path.
Just to be clear, though, this forum is not an appropriate place to let us know that you don't like what we do with our sexual lives. Each of us has faced enough of that kind of censure already; this is a place to ask questions, get some answers, and talk over some issues.
Here, in our posts and threads, we tend toward acceptance and inclusion of those who come our way, and we possess a broad-minded tolerance for questions and concerns about kinks of all persuasions. There’ll never be much flaming or fighting here if only because most of us have felt the lashing hurt of individual and societal displeasure and fear with regard to our very-private sexuality. Likely you know this already, as a group (however loosely-defined) BDSM’ers tend to be very accepting of individual sexual differences.
This place is all about discussion and thought. We talk over issues and needs and experiences. We compare techniques and suppliers and how to make our own toys. It's sometimes a hard line to hold but we've kept to the high road. One of the methods by which we've decided to further our feeling of community is the decision to disallow personals ads in this Forum. You can ask anything that's BDSM-related, talk about anything at all, no matter how "out there" a fetish it is, but you just can't post your personals ad here.
The BDSM Talk Forum had its genesis in a single thread, one known by a variety of affection nicknames (the Mega, Monster, or Mother thread). It was first posted in July of 2001 in Lit’s How To… forum and grew to 68 pages, 1340 posts, and 31,548 reads by the time we got this spanking (ohhh!) new Forum on February 23, 2002.
It’s still available to anyone who wants to peruse it. We think of it as a gold mine, of sorts. Chronicled in the thread are many months of wonderful BDSM-flavored insights as well as information about many of us, personally, and the manner in which we became the close and supportive community we are today. (http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=39661)
Again, welcome to our community. Thank you in advance for respecting its atmosphere of acceptance, inclusion, and calm discussion.

Hello and welcome.
This small online community is one in which anyone can ask a BDSM question and have it answered by any one of the many people who pop in and out of here on a more-or-less regular basis.
We have all kinds here: Dom/mes, Switches, subs, everyday life-experienced, seekers after theoretical knowledge, sympathetic nillas, newbies to this lifestyle, couples, singles, Tops, bottoms, masochists, Sadists, and more. At least one of us, probably more, will be able to answer your sincere questions, respond to your concerns, address your issues, and laugh, cry, and rejoice with you as you travel your own BDSM path.
Just to be clear, though, this forum is not an appropriate place to let us know that you don't like what we do with our sexual lives. Each of us has faced enough of that kind of censure already; this is a place to ask questions, get some answers, and talk over some issues.
Here, in our posts and threads, we tend toward acceptance and inclusion of those who come our way, and we possess a broad-minded tolerance for questions and concerns about kinks of all persuasions. There’ll never be much flaming or fighting here if only because most of us have felt the lashing hurt of individual and societal displeasure and fear with regard to our very-private sexuality. Likely you know this already, as a group (however loosely-defined) BDSM’ers tend to be very accepting of individual sexual differences.
This place is all about discussion and thought. We talk over issues and needs and experiences. We compare techniques and suppliers and how to make our own toys. It's sometimes a hard line to hold but we've kept to the high road. One of the methods by which we've decided to further our feeling of community is the decision to disallow personals ads in this Forum. You can ask anything that's BDSM-related, talk about anything at all, no matter how "out there" a fetish it is, but you just can't post your personals ad here.
The BDSM Talk Forum had its genesis in a single thread, one known by a variety of affection nicknames (the Mega, Monster, or Mother thread). It was first posted in July of 2001 in Lit’s How To… forum and grew to 68 pages, 1340 posts, and 31,548 reads by the time we got this spanking (ohhh!) new Forum on February 23, 2002.
It’s still available to anyone who wants to peruse it. We think of it as a gold mine, of sorts. Chronicled in the thread are many months of wonderful BDSM-flavored insights as well as information about many of us, personally, and the manner in which we became the close and supportive community we are today. (http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=39661)
Again, welcome to our community. Thank you in advance for respecting its atmosphere of acceptance, inclusion, and calm discussion.
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