The Art of the Mindfuck

[Ezarc]

The art of the mindfuck is twofold in my opinion.
First weapon is surprise. This can be handled in many different ways. One favorite of mine is a blindfold and a cdplayer. This will limit what they know of the situation. Surprise and deception are very easy to accomplish this way. Or worse yet, use the blindfold and forget the music and let them hear you move about the room.
Second weapon is patience. Just making them wait in an uncertain circumstance can be so delicious. Like in the above setting. Make noise while they are naked and blindfolded. Move around and gather your toys. Surprise there bodies with unexpected items such as a towel with ice, feathers, a piece of fur, the tines of your hairbrush gently traced down there bodies.
With those two ideas you can expand your mindfuck to be a true work of art.
Enjoy.
Just my less then humble opinion of the subject. Please reply at your leisure.

 

[Etoile]

I started a thread called Major Mindfucks a while back. It might interest you.

 

[James G 5]

I started a thread called Major Mindfucks a while back. It might interest you.

Hmm, I think that's the thread where someone accuses me of being an asshole and an untrustworthy play partner, I will have to go back & check...

 

[A Desert Rose]

Hmm, I think that's the thread where someone accuses me of being an asshole and an untrustworthy play partner, I will have to go back & check...

NO, not you. That is hard to believe, James.

 

[FungiUg]

Mindfucks can also be trapping a slut into a position where she can do no right, and hence will end up getting punished... as an example,, telling her she cannot cum and then making her cum, so she gets no pleasure from it... and then getting to punish her for her failure.

Mindfucks can also be mean... I remember Etoile's related story, which would be downright scary.

 

[James G 5]

NO, not you. That is hard to believe, James.

There was a thread somehwere on this topic where I discussed a scene where a lady switch freind & I convinced a bound sub in a knife scene that we had cut her & she was bleeding
For some reason it seemed to upset alot of people

 

[A Desert Rose]

There was a thread somehwere on this topic where I discussed a scene where a lady switch freind & I convinced a bound sub in a knife scene that we had cut her & she was bleeding
For some reason it seemed to upset alot of people

Well yea... now that is a scary scene, for me but you already know that about me.

So.... how about some backgammon, big dog?

 

[James G 5]

Well yea... now that is a scary scene, for me but you already know that about me.

So.... how about some backgammon, big dog?

Woof WOof
Let me catch you on Yahoo in a few

 

[cellis]

There was a thread somehwere on this topic where I discussed a scene where a lady switch freind & I convinced a bound sub in a knife scene that we had cut her & she was bleeding
For some reason it seemed to upset alot of people

But for some of us that is exactly what we are looking for!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Mmmmm, have to say we have our moments with mindfucks and he can get me so good. As much as I love pain, and am into cutting, wanting to experiment with needlesplay etc., they are things I still like to be prepared for to an extent so I don't move out of surprise at the wrong moment, or just to mentally prepare. A recent one he played with was after a day of absent mindedly mentioning cutting, needles etc., suggesting it might be time to go there again but nothing defininte. Later when he had me blindfolded he teased and tantalised and then began torturing me with sharp sensations which I could not define but began to believe were needles being drawn over my skin about to be pierced somewhere delicate at any moment. LOL, turned out it was just some very clever utilisation of extremely sharp wooden toothpicks. Sure had me sweating though.

Catalina http://users.telenet.be/eforum/emoticons4u/violent/sterb089.gif

 

[TNRkitect2b]

Mmmmm, have to say we have our moments with mindfucks and he can get me so good. As much as I love pain, and am into cutting, wanting to experiment with needlesplay etc., they are things I still like to be prepared for to an extent so I don't move out of surprise at the wrong moment, or just to mentally prepare. A recent one he played with was after a day of absent mindedly mentioning cutting, needles etc., suggesting it might be time to go there again but nothing defininte. Later when he had me blindfolded he teased and tantalised and then began torturing me with sharp sensations which I could not define but began to believe were needles being drawn over my skin about to be pierced somewhere delicate at any moment. LOL, turned out it was just some very clever utilisation of extremely sharp wooden toothpicks. Sure had me sweating though.

Catalina http://users.telenet.be/eforum/emoticons4u/violent/sterb089.gif

I need to remember this one

 

[Etoile]

Mindfucks can also be trapping a slut into a position where she can do no right, and hence will end up getting punished... as an example,, telling her she cannot cum and then making her cum, so she gets no pleasure from it... and then getting to punish her for her failure.

Mindfucks can also be mean... I remember Etoile's related story, which would be downright scary.

Yes, I would definitely call that first situation a mindfuck. It doesn't feel like one at the time, I think, because it's so physically based, but on the inside it is a mindfuck too.

 

[Limbhugger]

The mindfuck for me is one of the greatest snesations to be experienced in this "lifestyle". To be completely and utterly "blind" to what is about to or is happening is at once scary and exciting. A true definition of trust.

Unlike Fungi, I do not like "unwinable" scenarios. I believe there should always be a goal. Well, maybe not always as if Wife wishes to just get her day's frustrations out on my ass without any sexual involvement or challenge then that is her perogative. But in terms of this kind of play, I think there should always be an obtainable goal. Something that submissive can work toward but will likely falter on for some time.

Anyone can create an impossible situation. The artistic can create a seemingly impossible situation that in the end is not. The challenge is to mire it in such a way that the submissive must sort it all out to find the true goal.

Yes, the mindfuck is a wonderful and powerful tool.

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Ok, I've read about major mindfucks, but what about 'mindfuck lite'? Something more akin to teasing?

sigh. Maybe I just don't have the right word for what I'm looking for yet. Not mind-control, not manipulation, not, I guess, mindfuck. Something more insinuating, just as get-under-your-skin but less dangerous. Edgey, button-pushing but not necessarily mean.

I'd like to find some ideas/scenarios/teases for a longterm relationship -- and we know each other so well, it seems harder somehow. Thoughts, tips, stories?

 

[AngelicAssassin]

... I'd like to find some ideas/scenarios/teases for a longterm relationship -- and we know each other so well, it seems harder somehow. Thoughts, tips, stories?

Oh chit am i going to get nailed for this one. If you know each other so well, identify the weaknesses, use close similarities as tools, and point out they're not what your partner thought they were when called on it.

It's actually a double mindfuck. You did, but didn't; she accuses then apologizes, she never knows what you did in the end, or you tell her and she really doesn't know what to think.