The art of the handjob

A lot of it is attitude. Sometimes my wife will give me a handjob while laying next me, using one hand. It feels good and all, but there’s no real enthusiasm. It feels like a chore. Then there are the times when she sits between my legs, topless, and uses both hands. Not only does it feel physically better having two hands working me over, but visually I can see her body, and emotionally I feel like she is actually into it and enjoying herself. My $.02.
A lot of excellent tips there. I would add mine:
  • Eye contact
  • Dirty talk
  • Variety! The cock has a short attention span. Mix up your grip, your speed, your tightness; keep that cock guessing what comes next
  • Don't forget the balls
  • Suck or pinch his nipples
  • Finger up the butt at the moment of truth (not all guys like this, but WOW is it good)
  • Lie next to each other and kiss while you are stroking him.
 
A lot of excellent tips there. I would add mine:
  • Eye contact
  • Dirty talk
  • Finger up the butt at the moment of truth (not all guys like this, but WOW is it good)
I heartily second these!

For me, I would add: I'm focused on giving you something, both literally and visually. Make a big deal about how/where you'd like to receive it (if you do). Acknowledging that it does something for you is intimate.

I guess that could be subsumed under "dirty talk," but I just wanted (forgive the pun) to put it out there.
 
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