The art of the handjob

We have a few mutual girlfriends who have received my husbands cum while I jerked him off as they sucked. Of course I get my "payment"afterwards when she eats my pussy to orgasm.

I begged my wife to give me a hand job with a couple of her friends watching.
Never happened.
 
A woman has to have an enjoyment for giving a great and amazing HandJob. If she lacks the enjoyment then the experience will be quite shitty and truly useless ....

And this means a woman has to be honest with herself about how much she loves giving a great HandJob.

To me, it's not about us loving to "give a great handjob" (or blowjob for that matter). It's more about our willingness and wanting to give our partner pleasure. We don't have to enjoy the actual act; we should enjoy giving our partner pleasure. Enjoy making them feel amazing.

I could honestly careless to give hand jobs. They can be very tiring actually. What I do enjoy is the pleasure that it gives and I like to make my man happy.

Not all women have the skills or patience to "give a great handjob" as you say. It is like you are putting ALL the effort of your enjoyment on the woman. If you are not enjoying a hand job, then maybe it is YOU.

What I have found is that most men are happy to be getting any hand job, with good or bad techniques. They have been happy to be receiving one at all. I have never had a guy tell me that their hand job was sub par. I would also say that if the guy ejaculates, then it must have been a good hand job.
 
To me, it's not about us loving to "give a great handjob" (or blowjob for that matter). It's more about our willingness and wanting to give our partner pleasure. We don't have to enjoy the actual act; we should enjoy giving our partner pleasure. Enjoy making them feel amazing.

I could honestly careless to give hand jobs. They can be very tiring actually. What I do enjoy is the pleasure that it gives and I like to make my man happy.

Not all women have the skills or patience to "give a great handjob" as you say. It is like you are putting ALL the effort of your enjoyment on the woman. If you are not enjoying a hand job, then maybe it is YOU.

What I have found is that most men are happy to be getting any hand job, with good or bad techniques. They have been happy to be receiving one at all. I have never had a guy tell me that their hand job was sub par. I would also say that if the guy ejaculates, then it must have been a good hand job.

I know this thread is about handjobs but eating my wife's pussy and watching the pleasure she gets from it is the same. The down side here is that in 37 years of marriage she has never given me a handjob to completion only as part of fore play.
 
To Offer My Opposing Argument

I know this thread is about handjobs but eating my wife's pussy and watching the pleasure she gets from it is the same. The down side here is that in 37 years of marriage she has never given me a handjob to completion only as part of fore play.

Women who enjoy giving handjobs and blowjobs ARE giving pleasures to their lovers or husbands or significant partner. I have turned down numerous times women who felt 'obligated' to give my a handjob and blowjob because they thought, '...most guys want them so ......'

NO: SHE MUST ENJOY THE BEAUTY AND THE POWER OF THE HANDJOB AND BLOWJOB.

If its all that tiring then don't try to pass it off as some one-dimensional 'doing it because I love him....' load of shite. The essence of a great handjob and blowjob starts with her (or him) refusing to go through the motions ........
 
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