The art of the handjob

I'm not reading 213 pages, so apologies if this point has been made before.

Ladies. This is really important.

It's nothing to do with "technique".

There's absolutely no reason to feel in any way second rate because we men know how, technically, to manipulate our cocks better than you do.

It's about the only 2 thing that matters the in erotic at core.

Power dynamics and lust.

That's really all that matters.

It's the utterly glorious feeling of one's pleasure being under the control of another. It's about the decision to edge, to escalate or to bring you to climax being someone else's. That is a feeling beyond description.

And yes, that applies to blow jobs, but here's the difference.

With a hand job, a woman can explicitly communicate her desire by combining it with devouring her man's mouth in a frenzy of kisses. Or, she can be an observer of her man's desire. Watching his response to her caresses.

See hand jobs in that context and they are among the very most wonderful of erotic interactions. Whatever the technique.
 
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