The art of eating a woman out

[Southernjohn]

I have seen threads pertaining to mens pleasures but I wanted to throw one out for the ladies of Lit.

I am a big believer that going down on a woman is an art form, it requires understanding, patience, and dedication. So...ladies...for those that enjoy it - what do you love about it? For you, what brings you to climax when someone is just using their mouth (or hands as well in combination)? Best you ever had? Worst you've ever had?

 

[lifeis2short2b]

ART ? It's all about reading a woman and her reactions. Every woman is different. Every mood is different. It's all about you and your partner.
Maybe your in the mood to tease her. Maybe she wants you to take your time and enjoy you as you tongue and mouth devour her. She also may just be in the mood to cum quick. Know what your woman wants.

I have seen threads pertaining to mens pleasures but I wanted to throw one out for the ladies of Lit.

I am a big believer that going down on a woman is an art form, it requires understanding, patience, and dedication. So...ladies...for those that enjoy it - what do you love about it? For you, what brings you to climax when someone is just using their mouth (or hands as well in combination)? Best you ever had? Worst you've ever had?

 

[shinybikiniwife]

I like art... lol

 

[johnnyampleed]

ART ? It's all about reading a woman and her reactions. Every woman is different. Every mood is different. It's all about you and your partner.
Maybe your in the mood to tease her. Maybe she wants you to take your time and enjoy you as you tongue and mouth devour her. She also may just be in the mood to cum quick. Know what your woman wants.

It is an art. For all the reasons you ably expressed.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

When I first met my husband his skill and techniques at giving oral absolutely blew me away. I had been with men before who were at the best "ok" giving oral but he was so far above and beyond, I could not stop thinking about it and the way he pleasured me with his lips and tongue.

In his case, the woman he was with before me taught him how to eat a woman properly. I can gladly say she did her job very well evidenced by the thousands of orgasms he has given me by oral alone over the years. He later told me the most important thing he learned from her was to pay attention to a woman's movements, reactions, moans and so forth. She had a saying, "Your tongue is for your woman's pleasure. When you're giving her oral, it's all about her!"

That being said, there is no one size fits all, as far as oral. Every woman has her own, preferences and even these can fluctuate. For the most part I'm a "build up to it" sort of girl most of the time. Lots of feeling, teasing, especially my nipples which are a erogenous trigger for me, which is another area of my body he is a master at pleasing. Even when down there he takes his time, kissing, licking getting closer to my sex then backing off until I am begging, literally begging for him to eat me. Once he is into it, even then, his techniques vary and he pays close attention to how I am reacting. And when I am "there" he knows there are different ways to send me over the edge. Many times he slides his hands up and begins to pinch and roll my nipples while pressing in and flicking the underside of my clit. He has several other techniques as well. Another thing is, when he is into eating me, no matter how many times I orgasm, he absolutely will not stop until he wants to.

That being said, sometimes I want to bypass the appetizer part of oral foreplay and have him just get down to it, tongue deep. It all depends on the mood.

As far as having "bad oral", I cannot say I have ever had that, just not nearly as good as him or some of my female partners. Giving oral, something we both love doing to women, is definitely an art and one that should be studied by both men and women.

 

[Tessinwales]

Speaking personally here....
I like the guy (or gal) to start by giving me kisses, sucks and tender nibbles along my inner thighs. Slowly getting higher and higher. Teasing little licks that move rapidly up along the edges of my labia send shivers of delight through me and give samples of what will shortly be following. Nice slow licks along the full length of my labia are a very good choice for the next stage. His gentle probing with his tongue by now would be making me breathe a little more heavily. Then using the tip of his tongue to circle my clit will start my orgasm to build more. If he places his mouth over my clit and sucks with a nice rhythm and slips a finger inside me it won't be very long before I am having an orgasm on his mouth and face!

The main thing is that there is no rush, no deadlines just easy pleasuring.

 

[live4thebj]

I wouldn’t call it an art form as much of a skill you can develop in time. For me it came natural. But tips I can give is pay close attention to their reactions and forget about the shit you see in porno movies. And the whole alphabet thing imho isn’t worth it.

 

[ridemybeard69]

Speaking personally here....
I like the guy (or gal) to start by giving me kisses, sucks and tender nibbles along my inner thighs. Slowly getting higher and higher. Teasing little licks that move rapidly up along the edges of my labia send shivers of delight through me and give samples of what will shortly be following. Nice slow licks along the full length of my labia are a very good choice for the next stage. His gentle probing with his tongue by now would be making me breathe a little more heavily. Then using the tip of his tongue to circle my clit will start my orgasm to build more. If he places his mouth over my clit and sucks with a nice rhythm and slips a finger inside me it won't be very long before I am having an orgasm on his mouth and face!

The main thing is that there is no rush, no deadlines just easy pleasuring.

I would love to do exactly this to you right now. I'd so enjoy taking my time with you

 

[Deleted member 5654768]

I like art... lol

I’ve been told my tongue is an incredible paint brush, are you volunteering to be a blank canvas?

 

[TallMan69]

 

[tristantrotsky]

I like art... lol

I like pussy-licking.
This must be synchronicity...

 

[tristantrotsky]

Speaking personally here....
I like the guy (or gal) to start by giving me kisses, sucks and tender nibbles along my inner thighs. Slowly getting higher and higher. Teasing little licks that move rapidly up along the edges of my labia send shivers of delight through me and give samples of what will shortly be following. Nice slow licks along the full length of my labia are a very good choice for the next stage. His gentle probing with his tongue by now would be making me breathe a little more heavily. Then using the tip of his tongue to circle my clit will start my orgasm to build more. If he places his mouth over my clit and sucks with a nice rhythm and slips a finger inside me it won't be very long before I am having an orgasm on his mouth and face!
The main thing is that there is no rush, no deadlines just easy pleasuring.

I'm taking notes here...
yes... yes... and yes...!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I love bragging about my late husband's oral techniques and skills!

He was a virgin in all forms when we met.. I was definitely not. So I had experienced several men try and not succeed at giving me orgasms from oral..
Himself included.. But I still enjoyed his effort..
That was until were together for 4 years

One night.. He was using one or 2 of his thick fingers in my pussy, licking my clit, but then he started lightly vibrating my clit with his lips... "Raspberries" I call them...
As I reacted positively, the "blows" increased, and it was like the best vibrator I'd ever experienced!
I actually came.

After that, I craved his pussy eating!!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Very interesting and I've only managed to see good porn of it. Those guys fingered the women gently and then roughly, or slowly spread her pussy lips while calling them rose petals and licked her up and down. They didn't always focus on her button until the end, I think.

 

[TheUKGent]

It's something that I absolutely love to do! I was taught some of the nuances by a (very patient) older woman when I was younger, and am a great believer that it's very much about the person and the situation involved.

Having been with the same person now for nearly 30 years, you'd think we'd have a routine, but no! The only thing that remains a constant is the orgasm at the end (assuming that's the goal on that occasion).

It is very much about reading the signs and listening to your partner's body as it's their body and orgasm after all!

 

[Deadfreak]

This guy taught me early

 

[Deleted member 6873114]

I have seen threads pertaining to mens pleasures but I wanted to throw one out for the ladies of Lit.

I am a big believer that going down on a woman is an art form, it requires understanding, patience, and dedication. So...ladies...for those that enjoy it - what do you love about it? For you, what brings you to climax when someone is just using their mouth (or hands as well in combination)? Best you ever had? Worst you've ever had?

Unlike a hand job...all oral really can be an art form. Most guys think they are good at eating pussy but they are not. I can tell if a guy is in a rush and just wanted me to hurry up and cum so he can do what he knows will happen after I cum.

 

[BlueyeGuy51]

I don’t go down on a woman to warm her up, I go down to take her to nirvana. She’ll let me know when she’s had enough because I can go on for a long loving time.

 

[Sienna62]

Speaking personally here....
I like the guy (or gal) to start by giving me kisses, sucks and tender nibbles along my inner thighs. Slowly getting higher and higher. Teasing little licks that move rapidly up along the edges of my labia send shivers of delight through me and give samples of what will shortly be following. Nice slow licks along the full length of my labia are a very good choice for the next stage. His gentle probing with his tongue by now would be making me breathe a little more heavily. Then using the tip of his tongue to circle my clit will start my orgasm to build more. If he places his mouth over my clit and sucks with a nice rhythm and slips a finger inside me it won't be very long before I am having an orgasm on his mouth and face!

The main thing is that there is no rush, no deadlines just easy pleasuring.

Nice to read

 

[johnnyampleed]

Speaking personally here....
I like the guy (or gal) to start by giving me kisses, sucks and tender nibbles along my inner thighs. Slowly getting higher and higher. Teasing little licks that move rapidly up along the edges of my labia send shivers of delight through me and give samples of what will shortly be following. Nice slow licks along the full length of my labia are a very good choice for the next stage. His gentle probing with his tongue by now would be making me breathe a little more heavily. Then using the tip of his tongue to circle my clit will start my orgasm to build more. If he places his mouth over my clit and sucks with a nice rhythm and slips a finger inside me it won't be very long before I am having an orgasm on his mouth and face!

The main thing is that there is no rush, no deadlines just easy pleasuring.

Yes, yes. And, in keeping with "no rush," eating (to satisfy) shouldn't be treated as foreplay ... but as the main course.

 

[guitar_player]

I wouldn’t call it an art form as much of a skill you can develop in time. For me it came natural. But tips I can give is pay close attention to their reactions and forget about the shit you see in porno movies. And the whole alphabet thing imho isn’t worth it.

Speaking personally here....
I like the guy (or gal) to start by giving me kisses, sucks and tender nibbles along my inner thighs. Slowly getting higher and higher. Teasing little licks that move rapidly up along the edges of my labia send shivers of delight through me and give samples of what will shortly be following. Nice slow licks along the full length of my labia are a very good choice for the next stage. His gentle probing with his tongue by now would be making me breathe a little more heavily. Then using the tip of his tongue to circle my clit will start my orgasm to build more. If he places his mouth over my clit and sucks with a nice rhythm and slips a finger inside me it won't be very long before I am having an orgasm on his mouth and face!

The main thing is that there is no rush, no deadlines just easy pleasuring.

I love this

 

[Mr_Neb]

One of my most favorite subjects!!! I am happy to relate the way I go about enjoying this wonderful way to give pleasure.

First, it doesn't even start with me being between her legs. Usually it starts with us laying side by side about as squeezed together as two people could possible be. We love all of that skin to skin contact. My hand is typically resting between her partially spread legs. I already know that she is dying to have me touch her more than I already am.

That's when I start talking to her. I start telling her how much I am about to enjoy going down on her. I tell her that is the reason why my cock that she is holding is so hard and leaking all of that precum. It is because I am already thinking about what it is going to be like when my tongue slips between those luscious pink lips of hers and makes contact with all that wetness that I am sure is already there!

We have done this hundreds of times. It is a ritual that we both love. I talk her through all of the things my lips and tongue are going to do and at the same time, I use my fingers to (as best as possible) simulate everything I am saying. She (and I) especially love the part when I tell her that I love sliding my tongue as deep into her wet pussy as possible while my fingers do that exact thing. This usually brings her to her first orgasm which spurs me on even further. I tell her, "Oh yes! I want you come like that on my face! I want to feel and taste all of your cum!"

Then I ask her if that is what she wants. Of course she tells me but she knows that I like hearing her say those things. She does not dissappoint and in the greatest graphic detail, she tells me that she wants me to go between her legs and suck on her pussy, taste her, press my tongue deep into her, make her come on my face, etc. On occassion she will also describe what she will do and what will happen the next time she takes my cock into her mouth!

Finally it is time to do what we have just been talking about. We are both besides ourselves with that has gone on so far and what is about to happen. Even so, I start slow. I use my hands at first, massaging her inner thighs, the crease on each side of her vulva, her mound. Over and over. Only then do I start using my lips and tongue and repeat those same motions.

It is quite a while before my lips and tongue finally touch her lips. Then there is a lot of licking and sucking of those lips! She (and I) are very wet by this time but it isn't until I use my tongue to finally part those lips do I get to enjoy the full heat and wetness that lies between them.

You get the point. It is all slow but with building intensity. I can't get enough of that woman's scent, taste, and the feeling of what it is like to do that to her. When she has finally had enough, she reaches down to me and with her hands on either side of my face, pulls me up to her and we kiss, and kiss, and kiss through all that lady cum that is on my face.

Whew!

 

[Alpha_femboy]

Eating out a woman is actually of love and compassion.
If u eat her out with compassion she'll cum a river for you

 

[naughty_stories]

Eating pussy should never be looked at as foreplay. The foreplay is what gets him hard and her wet.. swollen.. and ready. Getting her to cum in under 5 minutes with your mouth is only good if you let her rest for a minute and then start over.

 

[Nekidinaz]

When I first met my husband his skill and techniques at giving oral absolutely blew me away. I had been with men before who were at the best "ok" giving oral but he was so far above and beyond, I could not stop thinking about it and the way he pleasured me with his lips and tongue.

In his case, the woman he was with before me taught him how to eat a woman properly. I can gladly say she did her job very well evidenced by the thousands of orgasms he has given me by oral alone over the years. He later told me the most important thing he learned from her was to pay attention to a woman's movements, reactions, moans and so forth. She had a saying, "Your tongue is for your woman's pleasure. When you're giving her oral, it's all about her!"

That being said, there is no one size fits all, as far as oral. Every woman has her own, preferences and even these can fluctuate. For the most part I'm a "build up to it" sort of girl most of the time. Lots of feeling, teasing, especially my nipples which are a erogenous trigger for me, which is another area of my body he is a master at pleasing. Even when down there he takes his time, kissing, licking getting closer to my sex then backing off until I am begging, literally begging for him to eat me. Once he is into it, even then, his techniques vary and he pays close attention to how I am reacting. And when I am "there" he knows there are different ways to send me over the edge. Many times he slides his hands up and begins to pinch and roll my nipples while pressing in and flicking the underside of my clit. He has several other techniques as well. Another thing is, when he is into eating me, no matter how many times I orgasm, he absolutely will not stop until he wants to.

That being said, sometimes I want to bypass the appetizer part of oral foreplay and have him just get down to it, tongue deep. It all depends on the mood.

As far as having "bad oral", I cannot say I have ever had that, just not nearly as good as him or some of my female partners. Giving oral, something we both love doing to women, is definitely an art and one that should be studied by both men and women.

I totally agree!!
I love pleasuring my lady orally and I do believe oral sex, really good, fun, erotic and slow pleasuring oral sex is an art and should be enjoyed by both participants