THAT word

[UtilityCurve]

It's never been my go-to, but neither has it been banished from my vocabulary.

When for whatever reason(s) intercourse becomes not violent but rigorous, though, it seems the only term to express my animal lust.

I want her to feel totally attractive-feminine, not a bit "put-down feminine" if the word escapes my lips. Sometimes, just being "a cock" for her is sufficient for her; is being (or offering her) "c" EVER sexy to hear?

Bottom line: Girls/women/ladies/females, is the "c" word ever okay or even welcomed?

 

[AnnieLit]

C- word is a cock, right? And what's exactly wrong with it? I don't think anybody would call it a penis in the context of "that's it! Good girl! You love sucking on my cock, don't you? Now take a deep breath, I am going to fuck your throat."

I can't speak for all women, but for me it is first of all His voice. When I am far enough into the mood, the exact words are very much secondary, half the time I probably wouldn't even know what exactly was said. The intonation, the need, the urgency - those things matter, the exact words ... Whatever first comes to mind is fine.

 

[CuttingEdge]

Cock is a word I hear used all the time, and have no issue with using it myself. Heck it even refers to a male chicken and is used in the bible...

I thought you meant "cunt".

Just writing that makes me cringe, and I never use it, talk to a lady using that word, or really even have it in my vocabulary. When I hear women on here use it, the first thing I think of is, "They are not ladies, but men pretending they are", because in my world anyway, no woman uses that term. None. Not a crass woman. Not a polite women. NO WOMAN I know uses that term, not even in reference to her husband's ex-wife that she is jealous of.

 

[StrongMaster7]

It's a cultural thing. 'Cunt' and 'fuck' weren't considered nearly as extreme as 'bloody' when I lived in London in the mid-70s. Maybe things have changed. Words have the power we give them. You can make any word into 'the taboo word that can never be said'.

 

[dollydaydreamer]

i have no problem using the word . In the heat of the moment,its powerful .
Fill my beautiful cunt .
I do challenge people that use it in a derogatory way tho.

 

[slavemelanie]

It depends on the context associated with the use. It can be extremely arousing in the context of a intimate moment or when your lost in primal lust. But to use it in a mean spirited way or hurtful way I just wouldn't do it....sometimes it can actually feel endearing or complimentary.

 

[KatieDoes]

Depends on the partner and the relationship. If you’re not certain how she feels about it, talk about it when you’re not in the heat of the moment.

For me, pussies are for making love and cunts are for fucking. So if I think I’m making love, my partner suddenly referring to my cunt might be a bit jarring and ruin the mood.


But if I’m fucking…….

 

[AnnieLit]

Oops! Looks like I misunderstood which c word you were talking about. OK, cunt then.

I don't use it. Neither here on the boards, nor in my stories. And I definitely don't use it out loud to describe my own body parts. But as far as a characteristic of a woman that I don't particularly like, sure, I might use once in a while. Like make be a couple times total so far

If it is used towards me in a sexual situation, i.e. it is coming out in the middle of fucking, not fighting, I am ok with that. But as I said before about the other c-word - at that level of engagement I don't care about specific words, only about the intent behind them. If I *know* that he is not trying to insult me, it's all good. If somehow I am not 150% sure about the intent, then wtf am I doing there to begin with?

 

[UtilityCurve]

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...d-on-when-random-men-call-you-“slut”.1603982/

Concerning other iffy words

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I use the word "cunt" depending on the situation. In my opinion, it is a powerful word. In the handful of stories I've had published on Lit, I've alternated between "pussy" and "cunt" for the reason of not being too repetitive when referring to that part of a woman. In some cases, I've used the word "cunt" as a more powerful indicator of passion.

And I use "cunt" in a lot of chat, mostly with men, but, I still feel that the word is taboo when chatting with women, since many only consider that the word is used as an insult, rather than a more powerful one to reference my favorite part of their bodies.

If we're talking about using "cock" vs "dick", I always use the word "cock". I don't feel that it is taboo in most sexual conversations, and, for me, "dick" just sounds juvenile.

In real life I never use "cunt", "cock", or "dick" in any discussion with any woman, not even my wife.

 

[sundown1]

When we are playing, I ask my wife to call mine a dick, and for the men she fantasizes about call their's a cock. Cock to me means big long, and hard, not my less than 5 inch excuse.

 

[Lifestyle66]

It's the context which matters. Using "cunt" as an insult, as in referring to the woman as "a cunt" is reducing her to just being a fuck toy. It's dehumanizing. But for a woman to say "fuck my cunt" isn't the same. She's using it as another term for her vagina. And for a man to say: "I'm going to fuck your cunt" is in a different context than "I'm going to fuck you, cunt." Replacing that "r" with a comma changes it from a cultural faux pas or tactless expression to an intended dehumanizing insult.