That First Time

[Cate_Archer]

Nope, the guy sucked. Only cared about himself and I didn't get anything out of it.

To everyone who reacted to my post with , it's alright. Thank you for your commiserations. It didn't dissuade me from sex, and I made up for it more than enough. Other than responding to posts like this, it's not something I even think about.

 

[TravisAW]

I wouldn't mind but Mrs AW would, because it wasn't with her.

 

[Anihotrod11]

The first sensual touch of two young curious bodies is something I would love to experience again..

 

[hiker283]

My wife tells me her first time was amazing. She was ready, he knew what he was doing. She said it felt so good she could not wait to do it again, which happened about 4 hours later.

 

[silky52]

I would love to relive that moment with my current knowledge. Same girl, same place, much longer performance. My wife says she would eliminate her first sex experience and postpone it to her next one. She lost her virginity young, unwillingly, and didn't have sex again until she was 18 and in college.

That happened/s to many, many women sadly.

 

[gtnlynn]

That happened/s to many, many women sadly.

Yes, unfortunately. I'm glad the young man who was with her the second time was more considerate of her and ehr feelings.

 

[Stromer]

Wish I could, just to have some contact with her. She was my next door neighbor, my best friend, and lets just say she was just as curious about exploring the feelings and desires that all teens experience at that age as I was. The funny thing is we both had the same birthday, so after a few years of exploring together, we both decided to lose our V cards with each each on our 18th birthday. It was good, but kind of anti climate after some of the things we had done before.
Sadly, shortly after that day, she moved away and got caught up in a bad crowd with lots of drug use and her body was found in the front yard of her parents house. She had been out partying, Od'd on something and somebody just dropped her body off in her parents front yard.
45 years later, I still miss her and wish I could talk to her like we did back then.

 

[Sexydrana]

No, he was a one night stand and I don’t care to see him again but I will always remember the morning after I sent messages to a guy who was a friend at the time and I sent him the I Just Had Sex by The Lonely Island featuring Akon song. And that to this day makes me smile I played the song the morning after.

Edited to add: the time with him wasn’t bad, he knew what he was doing, just that I wouldn’t go back to undo that night because it was the catalyst I needed then.

 

[hulmule]

oh i remember the first time my hand slid up a shirt and cupped a breast... Her girlfriend told her if your going to left him try something, then dont wear a bra. Her a girlfriend and i talked about a lot of stuff. So when i saw no bra i knew she was ready... (Her girlfriend taught me a few things)

 

[eaee]

Yes, it was major league fun but she was trusted and was very untrustworthy.

 

[hiker283]

Yes, unfortunately. I'm glad the young man who was with her the second time was more considerate of her and ehr feelings.

I am curious, based on what you have said before, how long after college started was that first time?

 

[gtnlynn]

I am curious, based on what you have said before, how long after college started was that first time?

Probably the second week. I am depending on a fraternity brother of mine who was a friend of the guy who fucked her. He told me what his friend said, and it was on their second date that he had sex with her.

 

[hiker283]

Probably the second week. I am depending on a fraternity brother of mine who was a friend of the guy who fucked her. He told me what his friend said, and it was on their second date that he had sex with her.

She did not wait very long. My wife was apart from me for about seven weeks when the guy got her panties off.

 

[gtnlynn]

She did not wait very long. My wife was apart from me for about seven weeks when the guy got her panties off.

He was an upperclassman and they always checked out the new girls. I'm sure he asked her out as soon as possible to get ahead of other guys. He used rum and Coke to help her get ready. He discovered that two drinks made her clothes fall off and her legs spread.

 

[hiker283]

He was an upperclassman and they always checked out the new girls. I'm sure he asked her out as soon as possible to get ahead of other guys. He used rum and Coke to help her get ready. He discovered that two drinks made her clothes fall off and her legs spread.

My wife had an upperclassman try that with her when she first started college and before she met me. He had felt her up before that night. That night he got his hand up her skirt but no farther. She broke it off with him the next day.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife had an upperclassman try that with her when she first started college and before she met me. He had felt her up before that night. That night he got his hand up her skirt but no farther. She broke it off with him the next day.

I'm sure the upperclassman got her bra off and fingered her to orgasm on the first date. That is what she expected so she would let it happen.

 

[hiker283]

I'm sure the upperclassman got her bra off and fingered her to orgasm on the first date. That is what she expected so she would let it happen.

Did she plan to have sex that first time she actually did?

 

[gtnlynn]

Did she plan to have sex that first time she actually did?

No. He did the usual, "Let me put it in and I won't move it. I'm wearing a condom, so you are safe." Of course, he put it in and moved it a lot. She liked it and didn't resist after that.

 

[awired50]

I would just to have that feeling again of not knowing, scared and so curious.

 

[bmrtex7]

If you could, would you want to relive losing your virginity? Why or why not?

Please refrain from making underage references.

Definitely. She had just enough experience to keep things from going awkward, but also just enough to allow us to learn about sex together. It was great.

 

[awired50]

Definitely. She had just enough experience to keep things from going awkward, but also just enough to allow us to learn about sex together. It was great.

We were both virgins and inexperienced so we had no idea .

 

[StrongMaster7]

No thanks.

The first time was anxious, scary, and ultimately disappointing to me. We were both so afraid of pregnancy. And she had vaginal dryness, but no lube. And she kept tell me to ‘put it in’ and I’m thinking that I’m going to seriously injure her if I just shove a rock-hard boner into her dry, irritated, sensitive flesh. Eventually the contraceptive jelly got pushed to where it would do some good as lube. Two minutes later I nutted into a condom and that was it.

I recall telling her afterward, “I can see where that could be pleasurable.”

We eventually figured it out and had decent sex almost every day for a year. I never had it that regularly before or since.

 

[awired50]

We were both virgins and inexperienced so we had no idea .

There was group of virgin friends outside the door listening

 

[apom]

If you could, would you want to relive losing your virginity? Why or why not?

Please refrain from making underage references.

I wouldn't change anything but no, I don't want to relive that part of my life.

 

[Ramone45]

My wife's first time sounded awesome. She was 18+. The same guy that fucked her sister for the first time, fucked her. He was in his mid 20's and had a reputation for taking good care of his girls. It was at a party, and she was ready to lose her virginity. She had no hesitation at all. She was one of the last in her group of friends to lose her cherry. She smoked some dope and went into an adjacent room with him. She said she knew that the other people would be able to hear them. She said it was good. She wanted it. She liked being transformed into a woman. He fucked her bareback and inseminated her, which is what she wanted. She was on birth control. Overall, she said it was great and she still loves him for doing that to her. She said no man could ever have that again. He will be her man forever.