That First Time

I would love to relive that moment with my current knowledge. Same girl, same place, much longer performance. My wife says she would eliminate her first sex experience and postpone it to her next one. She lost her virginity young, unwillingly, and didn't have sex again until she was 18 and in college.
 
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In a way every time we sleep with a new partner we relive it. We may be more confident and skilled but there's always that fear in the back of your mind it'll go wrong. Plus it's a new learning curve as you discover each others likes and dislikes. Perhaps deep down we sleep around trying recapture the excitement of that first time.
 
No. I still remember it well enough. Wouldn't want to relive an altogether too brief, clumsy, fumbling encounter in a farm field that bordered our village. Though considering we couldn't find the young lady's panties afterwards, I wouldn't mind going back and finding out where they hell they ended up 🤣
 
It's only fair that I answer my own question.

While I had my fair share of sex play early-on I didn’t experience intercourse until I was over 20 years old and that occurred in a brothel just across the border in Mexico. The session was made even more memorable by the water faucet dripping into an empty coffee can. When the can was full, the session was to be over. Unfortunately, my first time was over long before the can became full.

Needless to say, I wish the event had been more traditional.
 
My first time was my wedding night. I could not believe how good it felt to be finally in her. Needless to say, I did not last long. I know I disappointed her, but I made up for it a couple of hours later. Then I found out how good it feels when she comes with me in her.
 
Honestly it was disappointingly brief and painful. We’d spent months building up to it with lots of oral and fingering. He knew how to make me orgasm. But everything fell apart the moment he was inside me. He started pumping way too hard, which hurt like hell, then he came and…. that was that.☹️

After so much anticipation, it was quite a let-down. 100% wouldn’t do again.
 
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There's a certain charm and magic to the first time, and I would like to leave it at that. We'd been together for a time, had explored things up to intercourse, and even attempted unsuccessfully a time or two before. It was exactly as it should have been.

It got better and more enjoyable after that, and I'm a much better partner now, but that's how it goes.

I do sometimes wonder how she is in bed these days, and the years between our breakup and now.
 
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