Thank you to all that has posted

[sub by desire]

Hi. I have read all you posts and I took all of your advice. Since I have posted here, I have not talked with him or seen him either. I know he wanted an answer by Thursday, but I didn't give him one. However, I sent him and very long letter with some things of his that I had here at my house and I mailed it on Friday morning. I cried alot on Thursday and Friday and I do feel better today. It will hurt for awhile, but knowing that life does go on and hopefully one day I will find a good Dom who wants me for me, one that isnt married, and a Dom who is caring, understanding and loving. Thanks again for all the posts and everyone here is pretty cool. I am glad that I found this site.

 

[JupitersGirl]

I know that must have been a very difficult decision for you to make. You can be content with the knowledge that the pain you feel now is probably minor compared to the pain that you would have felt had you continued down that path.

I wish for you peace and comfort within yourself.

 

[His_pita]

Good for you for knowing you deserve much better then what he was offering you. I wish you well and that the right Dom for you comes into your life soon.

 

[brioche]

Hi. I have read all you posts and I took all of your advice. Since I have posted here, I have not talked with him or seen him either. I know he wanted an answer by Thursday, but I didn't give him one. However, I sent him and very long letter with some things of his that I had here at my house and I mailed it on Friday morning. I cried alot on Thursday and Friday and I do feel better today. It will hurt for awhile, but knowing that life does go on and hopefully one day I will find a good Dom who wants me for me, one that isnt married, and a Dom who is caring, understanding and loving. Thanks again for all the posts and everyone here is pretty cool. I am glad that I found this site.

You made the right decision, and you deserve better. i know it took a lot of strength to do that, and you should be proud of yourself.

 

[FurryFury]

You've done great! Good for you. I know it was hard.

*hugs*

Fury

 

[h_i_s]

Hi. I have read all you posts and I took all of your advice. Since I have posted here, I have not talked with him or seen him either. I know he wanted an answer by Thursday, but I didn't give him one. However, I sent him and very long letter with some things of his that I had here at my house and I mailed it on Friday morning. I cried alot on Thursday and Friday and I do feel better today. It will hurt for awhile, but knowing that life does go on and hopefully one day I will find a good Dom who wants me for me, one that isnt married, and a Dom who is caring, understanding and loving. Thanks again for all the posts and everyone here is pretty cool. I am glad that I found this site.

And just think .. some day that 'good Dom' will be able to find you and when he does you'll know that he'd not have been able to if you were tied down (no pun intended here) to a less than honest Dom who would only be available to you when not busy with His wife.

Good for you. i don't even know you, but am proud for you.

 

[Tollo]

Good for you SbD. You made a very difficult decision and it sounds like you handled things really well. One word of caution: be ready to hold your ground. If I am not mistaken, he will not honor your decision and he will be back making all sorts of promises. So be prepared and try not to let him rope you back in. If he does try to do this, just realize how it all fits into a pattern with this person: inconsistency, deception of self and others, failure to honor agreements, etc.. Of course I do not know this person, but let's just say he sounds a lot like a few I have known.

Best wishes, and I hope you will stick around to be a part of this exceptional community.

Tollo

 

[Vixandra]

Aye, congrats on making a choice, even though it was painful.

I wish you the best of luck in your hunt for a Dom that's worthy of you and fits what you need (and vice versa too).