Thank you BDSM forum members!

[Adakgirl]

I finally got the opportunity to experience, real time, face to face, BDSM play. I did it, YEP! I did it! WOOTWOOT
I bottomed for the very first time! To a (With a? For a?)
very imaginative, intelligent and evilly sadistic, Dominant. Once he helped me to relax and get past the initial deer-in-the-headlights, incredible, state of fear I was in,
(I was soooooo completely scared shitless)
it evolved into an amazingly intense, fantastic, exhausting experience for me. I'm sure most of you have felt like this before. So hard to put into words.

Anyway it was a perfectly awesome, three days and three nights, for both of us. No strings attached.
Now I know that all this stuff...these deep seated urges, these needs, that I've felt boiling up inside me for all these years are real. They are tactual, they are actual. I'm not just making it all up in my head.

I can't believe I put it off for so long.

AND I have YOU, the members of this forum to thank for this breakthrough in my life. Your thoughts, feelings, opinions, stories, advice, debates, arguments and great humor are what gave me the courage and encouragement to just go out and do it. And I thank you all so very much for that. Yet, I don't seem to have the words to thank you enough!

I feel like I need a great big congratulations or something, lol! Yeeeeeehaw! Excuse me for all the giddy babbling but that's all I can manage at the moment.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Congratulations.

And for whatever tiny help my input or posts may have been, you're perfectly welcome, but in the long run... it was *you* who did it, who gathered the information and gathered your courage and leapt off the dock.

 

[SimonBrooke]

I finally got the opportunity to experience, real time, face to face, BDSM play. I did it, YEP! I did it! WOOTWOOT
I bottomed for the very first time! To a (With a? For a?)
very imaginative, intelligent and evilly sadistic, Dominant. Once he helped me to relax and get past the initial deer-in-the-headlights, incredible, state of fear I was in,
(I was soooooo completely scared shitless)
it evolved into an amazingly intense, fantastic, exhausting experience for me. I'm sure most of you have felt like this before. So hard to put into words.

Good for you! Congratulations. Enjoy!

 

[~Haze~]

3 days and 3 nights! That's quite a commitment for your first endeavor. Wow.

But I'm glad it was a favorable experience. I'm glad you enjoyed it. Congratulations.

Now, the only problem is, after a little taste, I'm sure you want more... and more... and more.

How are you ever going to focus on real life long enough to get anything done?

I think it's time to start working on the next plan.

 

[subish2009]

Awww, congratulations! Very happy for you.

 

[intothewoods]

Mazel.

 

[eastern sun]

Congratulations!

 

[Adakgirl]

Awwwww geeewiz, thank you all very much!

Now, the only problem is, after a little taste, I'm sure you want more... and more... and more.
How are you ever going to focus on real life long enough to get anything done?

Yes, I certainly do want more, but not going to chomp at the bit. I've done plenty of that already. Heh..
"Patience is a virtue that carries a lot of wait"
and
I have no clue how.

Yes, three days is a long time but he wanted to take things easy and slow with me, so we didn't engage in any play for the first 12 hours we were together.

 

[ultramarineblue]

Awwww. That's really cool.

 

[sb2009]

So cool!!!

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Since I doubt Hallmark make cards for such an occasion, I'll throw in a small... yay!

Congrats.

 

[the captians wench]

Since I doubt Hallmark make cards for such an occasion, I'll throw in a small... yay!

Congrats.

To my virtual friend after her first r/l experience. . . .

hope you remembered the ball gag.

Many more kinky nights.

*giggles* Maybe we could make a new line.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

You have taken your first steps into a much larger world....

Congratulations to you.

 

[satindesire]

That's awesome! Hooray for you!!

 

[DVS]

Awwwww geeewiz, thank you all very much!



Yes, I certainly do want more, but not going to chomp at the bit. I've done plenty of that already. Heh..
"Patience is a virtue that carries a lot of wait"
and
I have no clue how.

Yes, three days is a long time but he wanted to take things easy and slow with me, so we didn't engage in any play for the first 12 hours we were together.

The bold and red of your post...is that a Freudian slip?

And the bolded part at the bottom...seems like a good guy with a nice newbie side manner. Going slow to let you feel and absorb and savor your first time. The first time is always most amazing.

Congratulations. It sounds like it was fun. I'll bet he's feeling pretty good right now, too.

 

[Adakgirl]

Thanks again for the congrats everyone! I'm sure I will get around to posting up the details but it's all still sinking in. Things kinda all blended together after the 2nd night. I'm still sorting them out in my mind. The play was probably fairly mild compared to what many of you have done, but he put me to the test and though it was painfully pleasurable, it certainly wasn't easy.

It's a great ego rush to know that at the age of 51, I can hang tough when the going gets rough. But my body is pretty damned sore still. I like that feeling.

If anyone else would like to share their first time experience here feel free to post them up. I'd love to read them.

.is that a Freudian slip?

Indeed! heh

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Ahhh.... thinking back to my first time with r... Great times...

I put her through her paces pretty good...

But now I need someone to play with....

 

[Bustymagoo]

Congrats! I can't wait for my first "offical" taste! Enjoy and happy explorations!

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I've been lurking here (posting now and again) for a while now and have also learned so much from the regulars in this forum. I understand your excitement Adakgirl. I've also just had my first real taste of BDSM, more along the D/s variety and also rather mild based on what I've read here.

It was exquisite. He was amazing, pushing me just enough, introducing acts and escalating the play at a deliberate pace. I do have a better understanding of subspace now; it's real. I wasn't sure what to expect. I've never felt so quiet inside. Now, of course, I'm even more curious than before. Hungrier.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Congrats on taking the leap into the next phase of your journey. I remember well the first time I was able to experience in the flesh what I hungered for. It was several days and nights and the very first day included very sharp alligator type clips on tender bits attached to a chain...and he made me drive to his house over very bumpy dirt roads with that attached. Once there, he proceeded to give me my first paddling with a thick wooden paddle which left my butt black and blue for over a week. It was an experience to remember and enjoy, but alas he was also a little unhinged in some respects and so I decided it was best to not go further with him. And yes, age can have advantages despite what some may think.

Catalina

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

Congratulations, Adakgirl! It also took me a long time (years) before I finally found a way to experience what had been previously only fantasy. It's a big, scary leap to go from imagination to reality; but once you get by the physical and psychological hurdles, you'll never look back! Enjoy

 

[Homburg]

Congrats, Adakgirl. I am happy for you