thank her

[StrictMasterD]

Follow your instincts and Emotions at the time and see where they lead you when you are with her

 

[innocentscribbles]

From the comments, it would appear that some ladies do not know that their scoop-neck tee shirt isn't skin tight and will sag when they bend over affording someone in front of them a view of beauty? AH, the mysteries of life!!
M

Most all ladies are well aware that it is a possibility, but during the course of the day of standing up, sitting down, walking around, doing things, you do check once in a while to ensure wardrobe is where it should be. But, every solitary moment of the day is not spent wondering and checking to make sure that the view is 100% G-rated. Real women in the real world do get busy and think about things other than what the guy they're talking to is looking at. And sometimes, short of holding the top in place, there's no way to avoid it, so...you deal with it and move along. It's not always an open license for a pick-up scene straight out of a Literotica story.

 

[Firefly69]

From the comments, it would appear that some ladies do not know that their scoop-neck tee shirt isn't skin tight and will sag when they bend over affording someone in front of them a view of beauty? AH, the mysteries of life!!
M

I'm actually of a different mind. Yes, there are definitely accidental exposure issues-- times when we aren't aware we are giving someone a bit of a peek.

However- I think that women, many times, are much more aware of it then we let on. I'm generally pretty cognizant of the times when I let a little something flash. Nothing over the top mind you.. but a little bit of bent over cleavage, or a skirt that shows a little more when I lean a certain way... or something like that.

And the thing is-- that it will appear that I completely am unaware that it is happening.

Admit it ladies--- I can't be the only one who does this!

I think women are many times very aware of sexual signals, and are careful to show them because of the responses we may get. But it doesn't mean that we don't like to "display" or be attractive for someone at times-- so if it seems accidental-- we are less likely to get propositioned, while at the same time, we are being admired. WHo doesn't like to be admired?! But the thing is-- and this is the tricky part-- if it looks like an accident-- we may not actually want someone to noticably respond. It really more "covert".

Its sort of a "safe" way of displaying sexually, without the "risk" of unwanted advances.

For me.. I'm married and have no intention of straying... but there are times that I like to reaffirm my own attractiveness. This doesn't mean I have self-esteem or confidence issues-- it just means that I like to feel I can still attract men and be desirable. And this could be with men I know, and men I don't.

I think all of us like that feeling-- and anyone who says they don't, may possibly be lying! lol.

Anyways-- it can be more difficult to determine the intention behind her "display" because you do know her fairly well. It may have been completely accidental on her part, or she could be teasing a bit. Its hard to say.

I would be careful about commenting on it however. This may sound very contridictory, but even if a woman is "accidentally" displaying intentionally (does that make sense?)-- she may not appreciate an actual comment. Maybe she will, maybe she won't. You really need to take it into context with the rest of your interactions with her.

If theres a current of playfulness-- she would probably appreciate your comment. If she sees you as this nice older man- she likes to talk to--- she will probably think you are a creepy man to avoid.

Its a tough call. But I would err on the side of caution. And as someone mentioned- its one of those things where timing is everything. If you come up to her days later and thank her..... you will have just become the creepy guy thats been thinking about it for days.

 

[squarejohn]

I'm actually of a different mind. Yes, there are definitely accidental exposure issues-- times when we aren't aware we are giving someone a bit of a peek.

However- I think that women, many times, are much more aware of it then we let on. I'm generally pretty cognizant of the times when I let a little something flash. Nothing over the top mind you.. but a little bit of bent over cleavage, or a skirt that shows a little more when I lean a certain way... or something like that.

And the thing is-- that it will appear that I completely am unaware that it is happening.

Admit it ladies--- I can't be the only one who does this!

I think women are many times very aware of sexual signals, and are careful to show them because of the responses we may get. But it doesn't mean that we don't like to "display" or be attractive for someone at times-- so if it seems accidental-- we are less likely to get propositioned, while at the same time, we are being admired. WHo doesn't like to be admired?! But the thing is-- and this is the tricky part-- if it looks like an accident-- we may not actually want someone to noticably respond. It really more "covert".

Its sort of a "safe" way of displaying sexually, without the "risk" of unwanted advances.

For me.. I'm married and have no intention of straying... but there are times that I like to reaffirm my own attractiveness. This doesn't mean I have self-esteem or confidence issues-- it just means that I like to feel I can still attract men and be desirable. And this could be with men I know, and men I don't.

I think all of us like that feeling-- and anyone who says they don't, may possibly be lying! lol.

Anyways-- it can be more difficult to determine the intention behind her "display" because you do know her fairly well. It may have been completely accidental on her part, or she could be teasing a bit. Its hard to say.

I would be careful about commenting on it however. This may sound very contridictory, but even if a woman is "accidentally" displaying intentionally (does that make sense?)-- she may not appreciate an actual comment. Maybe she will, maybe she won't. You really need to take it into context with the rest of your interactions with her.

If theres a current of playfulness-- she would probably appreciate your comment. If she sees you as this nice older man- she likes to talk to--- she will probably think you are a creepy man to avoid.

Its a tough call. But I would err on the side of caution. And as someone mentioned- its one of those things where timing is everything. If you come up to her days later and thank her..... you will have just become the creepy guy thats been thinking about it for days.

A situation in which a part of a woman's anatomy is accidentally exposed, I always avert my eyes. It's the decent thing to do.

 

[juicypeachxx]

SQ JOhn??!! How can you avert your eyes!? I cant & I'm a straight woman!

I disagree that, in general, women do this on purpose. I have done it many times on accident. I wear V necks etc because they look sexier & I never imagine myselff bending over wearing it & it happens....

I agree with Satin. she's covered the scene you described fully & perfectly.

 

[squarejohn]

SQ JOhn??!! How can you avert your eyes!? I cant & I'm a straight woman!

I disagree that, in general, women do this on purpose. I have done it many times on accident. I wear V necks etc because they look sexier & I never imagine myselff bending over wearing it & it happens....

I agree with Satin. she's covered the scene you described fully & perfectly.

Sometimes it's very tempting to look, but I just think at a moment like that a woman would value her privacy the most. If it were you accidentally flashing, with juiceypeachxx as your name, I would have to look. I'm only human.

 

[mntcmn]

Ahhhhhh

Dear Firefly:
Your post brings me to tip my hat, agree, say "right on", post "what she said", "excellent thinking and expression of the results", and other terms of approbation. A beautiful summary. WELL DONE!!
Oh, and a very overt "Thank you"!!!
M

 

[Firefly69]

Dear Firefly:
Your post brings me to tip my hat, agree, say "right on", post "what she said", "excellent thinking and expression of the results", and other terms of approbation. A beautiful summary. WELL DONE!!
Oh, and a very overt "Thank you"!!!
M

Your Welcome! And "thanks" right back at ya.

 

[infinity706]

Oh, I know lots of women that act like Ms Firefly described.

 

[bronzeage]

How does one (me) thank a lady younger than me with whom I have a hug-now-and-then, "love- to-talk-with-each-other" relationship from social gatherings for her having bent over toward me as she went about her work in a store knowing I was directly in front of her? The result was a simply gorgeous view of what was beneath her tee shirt. It was simply beautiful.
M

Nothing more than a smile and a nod is warranted.