Svedish_Chef
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Please go right ahead. Tell me what the difference is and what it means to you.
Tell me the difference between having sex and making love.
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TN_Vixen
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your "wench" is responding (god I shouldn't get a thrill from that, should I?)
but.. um, ok.
To be made love to means that both people have an intangible emotional bond that links them to almost all experiences they have together... be it making love, walking down the street hand in hand, or witnessing the sunrise on a clear morning day.
Getting fucked means that you abandon every outside interference with the intention of focusing soley on the sexual experience between you and the other person.
This isn't to say that you can't make love and get fucked by the same person. Oh no! It means that you in order to get the most from both experiences, you should place yourself in the moment at any given time in order to reap the benefits from the expereience.
In my most humble opinion, finding someone with whom you can fuck and make love to in any given moment, at any given hour in any given day is the most valuable relatioship that exists.
but.. um, ok.
To be made love to means that both people have an intangible emotional bond that links them to almost all experiences they have together... be it making love, walking down the street hand in hand, or witnessing the sunrise on a clear morning day.
Getting fucked means that you abandon every outside interference with the intention of focusing soley on the sexual experience between you and the other person.
This isn't to say that you can't make love and get fucked by the same person. Oh no! It means that you in order to get the most from both experiences, you should place yourself in the moment at any given time in order to reap the benefits from the expereience.
In my most humble opinion, finding someone with whom you can fuck and make love to in any given moment, at any given hour in any given day is the most valuable relatioship that exists.
SempreAngela
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Having sex is purely physical, and for me, not very satisfying. People can have sex with their hands, dildos, etc. Animals have sex and from what I have observed it does not look like a lot of fun, until they get stuck, that is.
Making love is caressing my mind, body and soul. It can start with a glance across a crowded room, a whisper in my ear as my lover assists me with my coat. Making love starts WAY before the bedroom and can be done from 1200 miles, or further, away. I have often said, make love to my mind and the rest of me will follow. It still holds true for me.
I may add that I always ask a potential lover the difference between fucking and making love and depending on his answer...well I will just say the ones that really do not know the difference do not become my lover/s.
Making love is caressing my mind, body and soul. It can start with a glance across a crowded room, a whisper in my ear as my lover assists me with my coat. Making love starts WAY before the bedroom and can be done from 1200 miles, or further, away. I have often said, make love to my mind and the rest of me will follow. It still holds true for me.
I may add that I always ask a potential lover the difference between fucking and making love and depending on his answer...well I will just say the ones that really do not know the difference do not become my lover/s.
alltherage
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Making love is a big screen, techincolor experience. Leaves you wanting more of the same, and everyone else suddenly goes off the radar screen.
Sex is television. Been there done that, not fullfilling, pleasant but often not memorable.
Sex is television. Been there done that, not fullfilling, pleasant but often not memorable.
Gamelover221
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sex=yourself is #1
making love= your partner is #1
making love= your partner is #1
justdikinarund
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well said gamelover1222
Moridin187
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Sex - Seeking pleasure through another person, going at it as hard as you can, animalistic, pure lust. The feelings are all purely physical.
Making Love - The ultimate physical expression of love. Trying your hardest to please the person you're with, and knowing they're doing the same for you. The feelings are both physical and emotional, combining together and creating a much more intense pleasure.
Making Love - The ultimate physical expression of love. Trying your hardest to please the person you're with, and knowing they're doing the same for you. The feelings are both physical and emotional, combining together and creating a much more intense pleasure.
Rhys
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When is a fuck, just a fuck...
Fucking is hard, fast, driving need, urgency and physicality. Its addictive and swift...a rush of pure release. You don't need to know a person to fuck them, they are there and the body that you respond to. Theres no rhyme or reason to it, and in and of itself is totally meaningless.
Making love, however is more designed to please your partner, rather than acheive gratification gratuitously. It is more slow, sensual and very deliberate actions. It is more of a communion of souls, and is more delicate and emotional in nature.
This is to say that you can't both fuck your partner and make love. Some of the best blend both. But, in a general sense, its very much "wham bam, thank you ma'am" when you fuck. All the hot buttons are pushed, but only in making love to those buttons get pushed and explored...
and explored...
and explored...
Fucking is hard, fast, driving need, urgency and physicality. Its addictive and swift...a rush of pure release. You don't need to know a person to fuck them, they are there and the body that you respond to. Theres no rhyme or reason to it, and in and of itself is totally meaningless.
Making love, however is more designed to please your partner, rather than acheive gratification gratuitously. It is more slow, sensual and very deliberate actions. It is more of a communion of souls, and is more delicate and emotional in nature.
This is to say that you can't both fuck your partner and make love. Some of the best blend both. But, in a general sense, its very much "wham bam, thank you ma'am" when you fuck. All the hot buttons are pushed, but only in making love to those buttons get pushed and explored...
and explored...
and explored...
Laurel
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Sex is hormonal and physical. Making love is also hormonal and physical, but there's an emotional element as well that separates it. I can have sex with anyone (not that I do, so don't go spreading nasty rumors). I can only make love to someone I care for.
Beethoven'sFire
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Making love is spiritual, and usually makes me cry afterwards.
Slinky'sWench
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the difference ?
the time it takes
the time it takes
modest mouse
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When I leave the money on the dresser ....thats fucking.
When she doesnt charge me Xtra for 'around the world', thats making love.
When she doesnt charge me Xtra for 'around the world', thats making love.
Svedish_Chef
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Sex is physical, a coupling if you wish. Sex gets boring.
Love is emotional, you can spend years making love and it gets even more wornderful and swet and beautiful.
Love is emotional, you can spend years making love and it gets even more wornderful and swet and beautiful.
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Svedish_Chef said:
Ok Cheffie, I can admit it. You were right and I was wrong.
april-wine
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MAKING LOVE.........
YOUR BODY IS A WONDERLAND
We got the afternoon
You got this room for two
One thing I've left to do
Discover me
Discovering you
One mile to every inch of
Your skin like porcelain
One pair of candy lips and
Your bubblegum tongue
And if you want love
We'll make it
Swimming a deep sea
Of blankets
Take all your big plans
And break 'em
This is bound to be a while
Your body Is a wonderland
Your body is a wonder (I'll use my hands)
Your body Is a wonderland
Something 'bout the way your hair falls in your face
I love the shape you take when crawling towards the pillowcase
You tell me where to go and
Though I might leave to find it
I'll never let your head hit the bed
Without my hand behind it
you want love?
We'll make it
Swimming a deep sea
Of blankets
Take all your big plans
And break 'em
This is bound to be a while
Your body Is a wonderland
Your body is a wonder (I'll use my hands)
Your body Is a wonderland
Damn baby
You frustrate me
I know you're mine all mine all mine
But you look so good it hurts sometimes
Your body Is a wonderland
Your body is a wonder (I'll use my hands)
Your body Is a wonderland
Your body is a wonderland
HAVING SEX............
Add It Up
Day after day
I will walk and I will play
but the day after today
I will stop
and I will start my way
why can't I get just one kiss
why can't I get just one kiss
believe me there'd be somethings that I wouldn't miss
but I look at your pants and I need I need a kiss
why can't I get just one screw
why can't I get just one screw
believe me I know what to do
but something won't let me make love to you
why can't I get just one fuck
why can't I get just one fuck
I guess it's something to do with luck
but I waited my whole life for just one
day afterday
I get angry
and I will say
that the day
is in my sight
when i'll take a bow
and say goodnight
YOUR BODY IS A WONDERLAND
We got the afternoon
You got this room for two
One thing I've left to do
Discover me
Discovering you
One mile to every inch of
Your skin like porcelain
One pair of candy lips and
Your bubblegum tongue
And if you want love
We'll make it
Swimming a deep sea
Of blankets
Take all your big plans
And break 'em
This is bound to be a while
Your body Is a wonderland
Your body is a wonder (I'll use my hands)
Your body Is a wonderland
Something 'bout the way your hair falls in your face
I love the shape you take when crawling towards the pillowcase
You tell me where to go and
Though I might leave to find it
I'll never let your head hit the bed
Without my hand behind it
you want love?
We'll make it
Swimming a deep sea
Of blankets
Take all your big plans
And break 'em
This is bound to be a while
Your body Is a wonderland
Your body is a wonder (I'll use my hands)
Your body Is a wonderland
Damn baby
You frustrate me
I know you're mine all mine all mine
But you look so good it hurts sometimes
Your body Is a wonderland
Your body is a wonder (I'll use my hands)
Your body Is a wonderland
Your body is a wonderland
HAVING SEX............
Add It Up
Day after day
I will walk and I will play
but the day after today
I will stop
and I will start my way
why can't I get just one kiss
why can't I get just one kiss
believe me there'd be somethings that I wouldn't miss
but I look at your pants and I need I need a kiss
why can't I get just one screw
why can't I get just one screw
believe me I know what to do
but something won't let me make love to you
why can't I get just one fuck
why can't I get just one fuck
I guess it's something to do with luck
but I waited my whole life for just one
day afterday
I get angry
and I will say
that the day
is in my sight
when i'll take a bow
and say goodnight
Svedish_Chef
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Re: Re: Tell me the difference between having sex and making love.
Told you didnt I.
And I gave a far better explanation the other day than the one today.
TN_Vixen, now hers WAS good.
Mellon Collie said:
Ok Cheffie, I can admit it. You were right and I was wrong.
Told you didnt I.
And I gave a far better explanation the other day than the one today.
TN_Vixen, now hers WAS good.
on_the_verge
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IME and ways, there is no difference in "fucking & making love." I threat the women I have experienced the same. After all, you can have "sex or make love," but the other will follow if that person chooses or is submissive to be open to it all. Yeah, I have had one night stands, but I always thought that *we* were enjoying it for one reason or the other. Errr, WTF am I trying to say?
LukkyKnight
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It's been said several ways
I think the answer's in the question itself. You can have gas, you can have freckles, you can have red hair, you can have patience, you can have intelligence, you can have faith, you can have a big car...
To make love is to create a connection wherein your pleasure, your satisfaction, your delight, is from your partner.
You can fuck somebody you love, and it is still a form of making love. You're allowing each other to be focused differently, but in the give and take of a connection that spans several levels this is not true selfishness, because you have learned and can FEEL that your partner derives pleasure from your own.
It's when there's no emotional connection that it's merely having sex, even if you pride yourself on being a "talented lover" who always insures that their partner is physically satisfied. Having sex will help you sleep better, at times.
Making love will keep you up, it leaves you hungry for more.
Making love embraces life as you exchange energies in a trusting connection where the two feed back into each other's mutual desire and delight.
I think the answer's in the question itself. You can have gas, you can have freckles, you can have red hair, you can have patience, you can have intelligence, you can have faith, you can have a big car...
To make love is to create a connection wherein your pleasure, your satisfaction, your delight, is from your partner.
You can fuck somebody you love, and it is still a form of making love. You're allowing each other to be focused differently, but in the give and take of a connection that spans several levels this is not true selfishness, because you have learned and can FEEL that your partner derives pleasure from your own.
It's when there's no emotional connection that it's merely having sex, even if you pride yourself on being a "talented lover" who always insures that their partner is physically satisfied. Having sex will help you sleep better, at times.
Making love will keep you up, it leaves you hungry for more.
Making love embraces life as you exchange energies in a trusting connection where the two feed back into each other's mutual desire and delight.
