tease and denial game for couple

[kunst]

Hi,
this is my first post, so please be kind with me if I say something wrong!
I just would like to share my experience.
I am not into long term orgasm denial, but my wife and me both love tease and some denial, just for few days.
Then, we set up some rules for a game. First, we play any game (card game, bingo or whatever) so that there is a winner. The prize is an orgasm, that must be withdrawn within 3 days. During the days before (that can vary from 0 to 2) there is no stimulation both for winner and looser.
When the winner gets the orgasm from the looser, the day after it starts the turn of the next winner. Additionally, when he is the looser, she can decide, only the day when she withdraws her prize (orgasm), if allow him to cum (strictly with ruined orgasm) or not, or eventually throw dices to decide the fate. The decision is based on how mild and servant was he during the time being looser.
What happened in these days, just to give an idea, was this: she won 2 times and I won the next time, so in the order the winner is F, F, M (F=female,M=male); we have been busy with other things like taking care of kids or being tired from work; then, she took the prize on day 3: at that point I was already very horny, being aware that I was not allowed to cum.
For this time, she decided that I could not cum.
She received the second orgasm on day 5, and this time allowed for a ruined orgasm. My wife is really clever in doing this, and day 6 I was still very horny.
Now, on day 6 it started my 3 days turn. Of course, I did not wait any day and I took my prize right on day 6. She knew that I was very sensitive, and she was stroking my penis so softly (I think on purpose) that as soon as I entered into her I had my orgasm in few seconds (usually I can resist quite long time)!
We think this is a very exciting game. In our case, for my wife it does not matter waiting the third day, while usually I get my prize as soon as I can. This lead to more time for her to be dominant, so that during those days I must be very kind with her, or I will not get any ruined orgasm at all.
Do you like this game?
What are your opinions and suggestions?

 

[DVS]

Hi,
this is my first post, so please be kind with me if I say something wrong!
I just would like to share my experience.
I am not into long term orgasm denial, but my wife and me both love tease and some denial, just for few days.
Then, we set up some rules for a game. First, we play any game (card game, bingo or whatever) so that there is a winner. The prize is an orgasm, that must be withdrawn within 3 days. During the days before (that can vary from 0 to 2) there is no stimulation both for winner and looser.
When the winner gets the orgasm from the looser, the day after it starts the turn of the next winner. Additionally, when he is the looser, she can decide, only the day when she withdraws her prize (orgasm), if allow him to cum (strictly with ruined orgasm) or not, or eventually throw dices to decide the fate. The decision is based on how mild and servant was he during the time being looser.
What happened in these days, just to give an idea, was this: she won 2 times and I won the next time, so in the order the winner is F, F, M (F=female,M=male); we have been busy with other things like taking care of kids or being tired from work; then, she took the prize on day 3: at that point I was already very horny, being aware that I was not allowed to cum.
For this time, she decided that I could not cum.
She received the second orgasm on day 5, and this time allowed for a ruined orgasm. My wife is really clever in doing this, and day 6 I was still very horny.
Now, on day 6 it started my 3 days turn. Of course, I did not wait any day and I took my prize right on day 6. She knew that I was very sensitive, and she was stroking my penis so softly (I think on purpose) that as soon as I entered into her I had my orgasm in few seconds (usually I can resist quite long time)!
We think this is a very exciting game. In our case, for my wife it does not matter waiting the third day, while usually I get my prize as soon as I can. This lead to more time for her to be dominant, so that during those days I must be very kind with her, or I will not get any ruined orgasm at all.
Do you like this game?
What are your opinions and suggestions?

Orgasm control can be very sensual, but like you said, if it goes on too long, it gets old very fast. So, you have to know where that point is and stay below it. Orgasm denial can be very powerful. Your orgasm is denied and each time it happens you want it more.

If done correctly, the top or dom will keep the sub or bottom very much in the dark about when the orgasm will be allowed. Also, stopping just below that point of release is best, but that can be difficult, too. But, with time, that skill can be learned.

Trust me, if everything is done correctly and the orgasms are stopped just when the submissive thinks it's going to happen, when you finally let them cum, watch out. It's going to be a very powerful explosion. All of those denied orgasms kind of add up and once they are allowed release, it's kind of like a damn has been burst.

Done skillfully and watching that you don't deny too long before allowing that release, this can be a LOT of fun.

 

[Jewelann]

Denial can be great fun.