Tantric Masturbation

[P. B. Walker]

I've recently started looking into this, but I'm not having much success with achieving orgasms without ejaculating.

Are there any males here that practice this? Any advice to a beginner? Cool techniques? Past experiences?

Thanks in advance,

PBW

 

[Ms_Lilith]

http://www.tantra.org/index.html

go there. When you've read up on that page, and the links on the left, go to the "Kama Sutra" link. Then find stuff on breathing excercises, and THEN look a the 'sexual magic' section.

Trust me, it works.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

and check out the fantasy link, that's a good one, too.

 

[P. B. Walker]

Thanks, Vixen

PBW

 

[Eric623]

Do a search on your browser for Body Electric. They sell several videos that you will find useful. Evolutionary Masturbation and Fire on the Mountain are the most popular. There are 2 Yahoo Groups devoted to Tantric masturbation. You have to have a Yahoo id and join the groups. If you need more info on the Yahoo Groups pm me and I'll get you the links. For now work on deep breathing while stroking. All of your muscles tense up just before ejaculation, the breathing will help keep you loose. Just before you feel an ejaculation, stop stroking, breath deeply and let the energy of the impending orgasm flow through your body. After you relax and the urge to cum fades, resume stroking. This stop/start exercise is the first step. Resist jacking off for all its worth, and learn to slowly make love to yourself instead. It's all about the sexual energy your body creates and tapping into it rather than letting it all out at once.

 

[isshogai7]

please be aware that as, good as it gets,once in a while you have to take a release and ejaculate,since a prolonged congestion of the sexual organs is not good for your body.Like anything,tantra must be taken with a grain of salt.Don't you forget that tantra is a philosophy in itself and that the occidental way of thinking is really diverse.So enjoy it but keep your eyes open,ok?

 

[daiseelady]

yowza

had never heard of this... but my goodness... it certainly sounds erotic!!! mmmmm

~daisee

 

[Eric623]

I agree on the ending of a session with ejaculation. Being a 40 something male, I am very concerned with my prostate health. Current western medical thought seems to support the notion that a regular schedule of ejaculations is best for the prostate. However many Taoist and Tantric practicioners seem to enjoy good prostate health as well. I enjoy the visual stimulus of watching my semen shoot after a nice long stroking session, so I ejaculate when finished.

Daiseelady, There is no reason why the same principles can't be applied to female masturbation. Tantric philosophies were originally intended for coupled sex. There are numerous books, videos and web site on the subject for couples.

 

[NoRegrets]

please be aware that as, good as it gets,once in a while you have to take a release and ejaculate,since a prolonged congestion of the sexual organs is not good for your body.

How often should one ejacuate to avoid the dreaded "blue balls" or other health risks?

 

[isshogai7]

i usually try to ejaculate at the end of a loving session,after several dry orgasms.As always ,try to feel your body,if it's too much to bear,just let yourself go.It's important to avoid stayng without ejaculation for too much time,tension without release.There's a difference between dry orgasms and blue balls,where's there's absolutely no orgasm whatshoever.