Talking to Myself

I've retyped this beginning sentence no less than 8 times. Ugh... Consent. It's such a pivotal aspect. I never, NEVER want anyone to feel pressure or coercion from me.

I also don't want to ever be thought of as that stereotypical guy that thinks a woman being friendly, even a little flirty must obviously have the hots for me. I don't want to inject that layer in the (highly likely) situation that I have misread the room.

Though I am a sex focused horndog on an erotic-based website, I'm not chasing after every pretty thing here. There is a seemingly unlimited supply of beautiful women here, and I genuinely enjoy chatting, seeing, and otherwise interacting with them.

But, when the moment arrives that I develop genuine interest, I don't want to ruin what I've got by misreading. I haven't dated since I was a teenager, so my skills never developed beyond that.

Does everyone feel this way?
Would you rather someone say something, it not be reciprocated, but you try to keep things the way they are?

Maybe I should just get some sleep? 🤷🏻😆
 
Hey I can’t sleep and just read all your posts! Thanks for sharing. Has given me a ton to consider. I’m scared to proclaim that I’m going to do something like you have done by creating this thread. It scares me that I may have to address my addiction issues! I quit booze and drugs almost 23 years ago, cigs like 8 years ago.
Congratulations on the sobriety! That's a hard thing to accomplish!

I don’t even want to acknowledge it by saying it but maybe I need to consider my relationship with porn, sex and Lit overall. Then I have these fantastical visions that a place like Lit can actually unlock some of the healthy discussions I need/want to have. Don’t mean to be a downer to anyone but your thread has been thought provoking to me so I wanted to express my appreciation. Wishing you a great 2025!
I'm glad you stopped by, and certainly no more of a downer than I already am! 😂 Here's to a great new year!
 
I desperately need to shut off my brain to sleep. I can’t sleep with it dead quiet and pitch black dark is a must. Music or Old Time Radio playing is a must or, I hate to say it, the voices in my head take over keeping me wide awake.
I have 2 fans on, and as dark as possible. Tinnitus is a bitch. My mind does race.
 
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
100% Rigger
97% Experimentalist
95% Voyeur
94% Dominant
92% Non-monogamist
88% Brat tamer
84% Switch
82% Degrader
80% Sadist
79% Brat
71% Master/Mistress
63% Exhibitionist
62% Rope bunny
61% Submissive
59% Primal (Hunter)
45% Owner
34% Vanilla
31% Primal (Prey)
25% Masochist
25% Slave
19% Degradee
13% Daddy/Mommy
4% Pet
0% Ageplayer
0% Little
 
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As a fellow music lover, tinnitus is a bitch! Why they didn’t have better warning labels at concerts or on my headphones while growing up! Mom did always yell at me to turn it down. But, but mom wasn’t a music lover as much as I was. Lol
Hahaha! On top of those issues, grew up at race tracks then was in aircraft operations for several years.
 
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Joe - it's been 20 years.

You are not forgotten. They dedicated Nimisila Rd in your honor. Your antics are remembered. That white pickup we bought off your family in the 80s has only had two other trucks follow it, I thought you'd find that cool.

You went out the way I think you'd have wanted to, as a hero. My kids know your name, because that's important. What you did was important. Your sacrifice is important.

May you continue to have fair winds and calm seas.
Til Valhalla.
 
Hello. This is my personal "dumping ground" to be cathartic and get some thoughts out of my head. I'm not writing to or about anyone in particular; if you happen to think I'm targeting you, please send me a private message and we can discuss the issue, but it absolutely is never my intent to single anyone out.

What will I be posting?
- Personal struggles
- Life Highlights
- Questions I can't seem to answer
- Emotional vomit
- Fantasies
- Desires
- Review of stories I may have read
- Links to videos that really tripped my trigger
- A whole lot of randomness

How frequently will I post?
- No idea.
- Sometimes I go MIA for days/weeks.
- Sometimes I'm on here a lot.

Feel free to take a look into my psyche, but you're warned - it's not a great place to visit!

Conversation is welcome, feedback and input is great, and me talking just to myself is fine too.

We'll see how this goes...

Oh, and before anyone makes the suggestion, I'm already in therapy. Thanks... 🤦🤷🤣
Family Camping Trip

Not my normal read, but fairly stimulating. As a parent, I just don't know how I feel about this sort of fantasy. As I get older, I feel uncomfortable being turned on by college-aged women. My own kids? I dunno...

If anyone else reads this, I'd be curious what you think of it.
 
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