Talking Dirty

[SuccubusScribe]

Dirty talk is something I have a hard time with (it makes me laugh). So, I was wondering what are some of the sexiest, or nastiest things you've ever heard or said? How many of you enjoy talking dirty or hearing your partner talk dirty?

 

[glockem_1099]

I love talking dirty and my partner talking dirty to me. Sex is so much of a mental as well as physical act. I love it when she looks between her legs and tells me how good my cock looks inside her...just an example...I have more, lol

 

[DevilInDetail]

Dirty talk really does turn me on. But then I'm here, and I guess most literoticans have a closer relationship with words than most.

If you want to improve dirty talk I guess practising phrases like an actress learning lines would be the way to go. As for what phrases - very much depends on what fetishes lie deep in the darkest corners of your lover's mind!

 

[CBM514]

Yes we both love it! It's not always natural for everyone at first and if someone isn't "used to" it, it may take some time...but there is a fine line between "dirty talk" and "nasty talk" that can be a turn off..you have to know your partners preferences and push the line slowly.

 

[heatsink]

Dirty talk is something I have a hard time with (it makes me laugh). So, I was wondering what are some of the sexiest, or nastiest things you've ever heard or said? How many of you enjoy talking dirty or hearing your partner talk dirty?

Perhaps if you qualified your question with a definition of what exactly you mean by ''Dirty talk'', then you'd be halfway to getting some meaningful answers?

 

[tonguedancer]

Rule number one for dirty talk, (at least as far as I'm concerned): it has to be DIRTY. I've seen these articles that talk about saying things like "Oh that feels good when you put your hand there" or "Oh I like when you touch me there." That's bull crap. If it ain't dirty, it ain't dirty talk. Tell me that you like when I stick my finger up your ass while I'm fucking your soaking sloppy cunthole because it makes you feel like a filthy slut" "Tell me you want to soak my face with your cunt because you love to smell it and taste it on my lips when you kiss me." Tell me how much you love getting your mouth fucked like a cunt and being fed a quart of cum.

If you want to talk dirty, practice in a mirror or recording it so you get comfortable saying dirty words and stringing them into dirty sentences. Start off with George Carlin's "Seven Dirty Words you Can't say on TV" until you don't feel silly saying them. If you need to, start writing them to each other and saying them on the phone if it makes you feel silly saying them face to face.

Bottom line, I've had several women in my life who were excellent dirty talkers, some that were mildly uncomfortable with it, and many who just couldn't handle the level of filth that turns me on. Many of them say they want "dirty talk" but what they want is Barry White "sexy talk". There is a big difference so make sure you know the ground rules. Me?......the filthier and more disgusting the better.

 

[Carnevil9]

I had a GF once who was a master at it. I wrote a story based on some of her nastiest lines, it's called "Dirty Talk On The Road," if anyone is interested (self-pimp!) see signature.......Carney

 

[Freebird49]

Dirty talks

I've had a couple of (dirty) phone sex chats and they were super hot. My g/f at the time was playing with herself with a vibrator and I was providing the commentary while stroking myself.

I've had a couple of online dirty sex chats and they were awesome. One of the ladies had to excuse herself so she could finish herself off.

 

[StaciRay79]

I love dirty talk! I have to be in the right mood (which is most of the times), but I love it when he says really dirty or degrading things to me and makes me feel nasty.

One of my favorite lines was when I said "Fuck this married slut's cunt like you own it!" and he replied "not only do I own it, but I decide when it gets fucked and who gets to!" It was when he said that HE got to decide who fucked me that I really got excited by it.

 

[Beck31]

I had a female friend of mine walk up to me and say Queiro chupar tu polla.
Fortuently I am fairly well versed in Spanish so I knew what she was saying.

 

[strwbrrysecrets]

I love dirty talk. What turns me on depends on my mood, though. Talking dirty actually helps me finish and helps make every sexual experience more enjoyable.

 

[catimann]

One of the best parts of sex. Hearing "Fill me with cum, you know how much I love it." was a great way to get me over the edge.
My new GF can not talk during sex. Even though the physical part is great I know it takes me much longer to get there now and at times I can't get there at all. Attempting to change this is or may be either a long term thing or impossible. It also may be a part in what ends it all.
Sex is past time that should use every sense.

 

[WarmandWet19]

I love to talk dirty. When my lover is in me, I tell him to fuck my cunt raw. I've told him on the phone how I want his face buried in my cunt when I come so I can drench him. Stuff like that.

I'd really like a man to call me filthy names and make me take his cock in my ass while he does. I guess I have an inner sub.

 

[jhuson]

Rule number one for dirty talk, (at least as far as I'm concerned): it has to be DIRTY. I've seen these articles that talk about saying things like "Oh that feels good when you put your hand there" or "Oh I like when you touch me there." That's bull crap. If it ain't dirty, it ain't dirty talk. Tell me that you like when I stick my finger up your ass while I'm fucking your soaking sloppy cunthole because it makes you feel like a filthy slut" "Tell me you want to soak my face with your cunt because you love to smell it and taste it on my lips when you kiss me." Tell me how much you love getting your mouth fucked like a cunt and being fed a quart of cum.

If you want to talk dirty, practice in a mirror or recording it so you get comfortable saying dirty words and stringing them into dirty sentences. Start off with George Carlin's "Seven Dirty Words you Can't say on TV" until you don't feel silly saying them. If you need to, start writing them to each other and saying them on the phone if it makes you feel silly saying them face to face.

Bottom line, I've had several women in my life who were excellent dirty talkers, some that were mildly uncomfortable with it, and many who just couldn't handle the level of filth that turns me on. Many of them say they want "dirty talk" but what they want is Barry White "sexy talk". There is a big difference so make sure you know the ground rules. Me?......the filthier and more disgusting the better.

Holy Funky Walker, Dirty Talker.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kKYyBptgEqo

 

[Futurama99]

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[Beck31]

Meh. There is dirty and there is degrading. Two different animals in my opinion.
I can get dirty with a woman or women but I refuse to be degrading. That for me kills the vibe

 

[ritasboss]

Meh. There is dirty and there is degrading. Two different animals in my opinion.
I can get dirty with a woman or women but I refuse to be degrading. That for me kills the vibe

agree! dirty is what you are doing or want to do. degrading is attacking the individual you are doing it with on a personal level.

 

[amofiga]

Dirty talk is something I have a hard time with (it makes me laugh). So, I was wondering what are some of the sexiest, or nastiest things you've ever heard or said? How many of you enjoy talking dirty or hearing your partner talk dirty?

I truly love hearing a woman talk dirty, I mean really dirty, not just a little "sexy" but flat out dirty. I also like women who don't get upset with me doing the same with them.

I always love telling women that I love the scent and taste of their cunt.....not vagina....not pussy....cunt. I had a lady friend that used to say she loved sucking cock and loved the taste of cum. She also used to say that she loved playing with cum when it dripped out of her cunt.

Like someone else here said, I am of the school that dirty talk should be dirty talk. Then again, make sure your partner isn't going to be grossed out and tell you to get lost if you really want to keep them around. It's a tightrope but one you need to test.

 

[hilton1958]

Meh. There is dirty and there is degrading. Two different animals in my opinion.
I can get dirty with a woman or women but I refuse to be degrading. That for me kills the vibe

I tend to agree with this view. I couldn't degrade someone that I am in a loving relationship wth. I love telling my wife, and describing in detail how much and why I love eating her pussy, before, during, and after the deed. I can tell by her physical reactions to my words that she loves hearing it. I also tell her how much I love feeling my cock against her, and things like how badly I want to cum on her beautiful tits etc. and it all gets both her and I going, and she responds to the things I say, like she will say something like. "And I'm so glad you like them, and I love it when you cum on them, I love your cum anywhere on me". In general though, she doesnt talk very much during sex, but she does tell me how much she loves my cock, and the amazing groans, cries, and range of facial expressions as she approaches and goes through orgasm, are a massive turn on for me. When she is riding me, and she suddenly sounds like she is choking or something, and her face contorts with what I can only describe as a mxture of pleasure and pain, wow! It sends me over the edge, and I thrust into her with increased vigor ... ok, I think I am digressing just a little here, lol.

 

[pnguinfkt]

It took me a while to overcome my fear of dirty talk. I didn't want to gross her out and feel like a freak. Thankfully my wife knows i am a freak and lets me freak with her and her freakness. Communication/ non-judgemental encouragement and a twist of unpredictability. Now i can talk her to an orgasm. Wifey is getting better at it. She wants a 3-som, a guy to join us. i found this site cuz i ran out of dirty talk fantasy. Turns out my wife gets wet wanting me to suck off a guy with her. WHO KNEW!

 

[Z924M]

cheek to cheek

faces cheek to cheek... lips close enough to feel the butterfly kisses and soft whispers against an ear. talk to me... excite me... make me wet. make my mind wander through your forest of erotica. yes, just what will you do to me... how long and how hard? soft tongue strokes against my ear lobe as you whisper how much you will make me... feel soooooo fucking good. you'll do what? fuck me? fuck me so hard? make me cum soooo good. then what?? eat me? eat my pussy after you have made such dirty love to me?

but, then you must kiss me...

 

[WhenInDoubtFuck]

This is pretty much locked in for me during sex nowadays. I'm controlled in the sense that I won't just start calling a woman a whore/slut/etc without first knowing if that's what she's into, and of course I can respect if a woman has an aversion to certain words such as "cunt". I don't always need a partner to reciprocate with words, as long as I know that she enjoys my doing it. But there are those times when I'm in full Dom mode and might ask something like "Who owns this pussy, slut?" She damn well better answer me.

 

[bill3901]

I guess talking dirty is my ultimate turn on, when I watch porn I put "talk" in the search engine of the site...