Taking a big step

[rgraham666]

And I blogged about it.

Wish me luck. Even though it's at least a month away.

 

[Salvor-Hardon]

Congrats Rob!

Please keep us informed as you travel down that path.

I think you'll be great.

 

[_Lynn_]

And I blogged about it.

Wish me luck. Even though it's at least a month away.

Good luck, Rob.

 

[rgraham666]

Thanks Sal.

 

[rgraham666]

Good luck, Rob.

Thanks Lynn.

 

[DesertPirate]

Hope it works for you Rob

 

[Selena_Kitt]

Why am I not surprised? *smile*

I think it's awesome!

 

[Guest]

And I blogged about it.

Wish me luck. Even though it's at least a month away.

Sweet.

 

[rgraham666]

Hope it works for you Rob

Thanks DP.

Why am I not surprised? *smile*

I think it's awesome!

I remember you saying I'd be an awesome Dom, Selena. I'm finally taking your advice to heart.

 

[rgraham666]

Sweet.

Thanks beautiful.

 

[glynndah]

Buy a couple of black t-shirts. They fade quickly. A dingy dom just doesn't send the right message.

A from the good little witch.

 

[rgraham666]

Buy a couple of black t-shirts. They fade quickly. A dingy dom just doesn't send the right message.

A from the good little witch.

I'll have to settle for one. I'll be pushing my budget with the crop and cuffs.

Thanks glynndah.

 

[Guest]

I'll have to settle for one. I'll be pushing my budget with the crop and cuffs.

Thanks glynndah.

Get rope instead of cuffs.

Practice knots for a month.

Ask Wenchie.

 

[desertslave]

Congratulations!

As one who went from active submissive to intentionally vanilla and back again, I can tell you that being who you are, out loud, can be better for you and everyone around you than you'll ever imagine.

 

[The_Fool]

Get rope instead of cuffs.

Practice knots for a month.

Ask Wenchie.

I think my mind went way south on that one. Yep, lots of rope. See how much of a contortionist she is. No keys to lose either. Nice soft nylon rope. With an occasional piece of hemp for those rougher moments. The knife you use to cut the rope can do dual duty for clothing removal. Yep, my mind did go way south.

 

[Guest]

I think my mind went way south on that one. Yep, lots of rope. See how much of a contortionist she is. No keys to lose either. Nice soft nylon rope. With an occasional piece of hemp for those rougher moments. The knife you use to cut the rope can do dual duty for clothing removal. Yep, my mind did go way south.

I like it when your mind goes way south.

 

[dr_mabeuse]

Enjoy the trip, Rob.

Watch out for the the assholes in that world. There's quite a few--a lot of egomaniacs, a lot of narcissists, a lot of people playing "dommier than thou" and "supersub" who'll tell you if you're not doing it their way you're not doing it right, but screw them. There is no right way of doing it. It's all about intensity of feeling and following your heart and communication.

Just be who you are and you'll be fine.

--Zoot

 

[Salvor-Hardon]

Enjoy the trip, Rob.

Watch out for the the assholes in that world. There's quite a few--a lot of egomaniacs, a lot of narcissists, a lot of people playing "dommier than thou" and "supersub" who'll tell you if you're not doing it their way you're not doing it right, but screw them. There is no right way of doing it. It's all about intensity of feeling and following your heart and communication.

Just be who you are and you'll be fine.

--Zoot

This is why I want to be like you when I grow up.

 

[rgraham666]

Get rope instead of cuffs.

Practice knots for a month.

Ask Wenchie.

I'll stick to cuffs for the moment. Easier to use. I'm a really lousy knot tier. And I have to budget.

But I'll get around to ropes eventually.

When I get the rope I'll get some clothes pins as well. I was just reading about putting clothes pins n a sub and then knocking them off with a crop. Sounds delicious.

 

[voluptuary_manque]

Best of luck, Rob. Who knows? Maybe somewhere out there is the soulmate you've wanted for so long, just itching for a good smacking.

 

[rgraham666]

Enjoy the trip, Rob.

Watch out for the the assholes in that world. There's quite a few--a lot of egomaniacs, a lot of narcissists, a lot of people playing "dommier than thou" and "supersub" who'll tell you if you're not doing it their way you're not doing it right, but screw them. There is no right way of doing it. It's all about intensity of feeling and following your heart and communication.

Just be who you are and you'll be fine.

--Zoot

Thanks Zoot.

I was hanging out at some BDSM forums, including the one here. And I did get very tired of the narcissists et al. I don't regard them as Doms, I regard them as bullies.

 

[rgraham666]

Best of luck, Rob. Who knows? Maybe somewhere out there is the soulmate you've wanted for so long, just itching for a good smacking.

That's what I'm hoping for, VM.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

DOC

Since when is a 'dom' concerned about assholes or bullies?

Doms ought to relish assholes and bullies, if youre truly dominant.

Recall the old KARATE KID movie? They asked Pat Morita what kind of belt he had, and his response was, 'J.C.PENNY belt, $4.95." Karate is in your heart, not hanging off your ass. Ditto for dominance.

 

[Tarakin]

Have fun on your discovery trip! I wish you luck!

 

[Guest]

DOC

Since when is a 'dom' concerned about assholes or bullies?

Doms ought to relish assholes and bullies, if youre truly dominant.

Recall the old KARATE KID movie? They asked Pat Morita what kind of belt he had, and his response was, 'J.C.PENNY belt, $4.95." Karate is in your heart, not hanging off your ass. Ditto for dominance.

Yet another post from someone who is absolutely clueless about damn near everything.