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Do you like it when your partner is in control or do you prefer to take the lead?
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Dreamer110
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Sigh. I've tried to get her to be more dominant but she falls apart and just wants what she wants.
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i'm usually in control, but change is always fun...
i'm most happy to just lie back and be ridden hard and put away wet...
MistressMoira
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I prefer to be the one who makes the decisions. 
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Interesting question for me to consider, as a very-long-married husband.
I do take the lead, and she likes me to take the lead - while of course she makes suggestions and even asks sweetly for things! - And I guess I do like it that way as it fits my personality. But what I often do is lead her to a state where she is so wild that she is leading from ravenous desire in full flow! Where she'll do such as shove me back onto the bed and climb on to gyrate on my cock and pump on my chest. But in our relationship, when she does that kind of thing it is still 'responsive' to my attentions. I am old-fashioned enough to like it that way.
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Variety is the spice of life!!
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I prefer to have the lead. Once upon a time I thought I could enjoy either, but I have tried and I just don't like being the one who isn't in control.
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This one girl I was seeing at the time for a bit was in control. I think it was because she took out her aggression against him on me during sex because they weren't doing it and she needed it.
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Being in control does have its merits!!
I have a submissive personality so I definitely like to give up control!! My husband is also very passive. In the past when we were separated I found myself going for take charge type men. My first serious lover was an older man who liked total control.
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It all depends on what you part of me you bring to the surface.
Submissive women always make me want to take control and use there body as I guide them to different levels of pleasure.
Dominate women will have to fight me a little but it's not like I'm going to make it an issue, just push me to my back or bite my neck and I'll melt under your touch.
Most of the time taking the lead is just something I end up with because the women I have slept with can't make decisions on how much of a whore they want to be. The women I have been with that know just what they want and how they want it never even give me the chance to take the lead and I'm happy to be used for their pleasure.
Submissive women always make me want to take control and use there body as I guide them to different levels of pleasure.
Dominate women will have to fight me a little but it's not like I'm going to make it an issue, just push me to my back or bite my neck and I'll melt under your touch.
Most of the time taking the lead is just something I end up with because the women I have slept with can't make decisions on how much of a whore they want to be. The women I have been with that know just what they want and how they want it never even give me the chance to take the lead and I'm happy to be used for their pleasure.
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Both of these sound sensuous!!!
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Denny
Do you like it when your partner is in control or do you prefer to take the lead?
YES!
Do you like it when your partner is in control or do you prefer to take the lead?
YES!
BubblyBookworm
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Great answer!!Do you like it when your partner is in control or do you prefer to take the lead?
YES!
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I love a good waltz!You mean as in dancing, right?
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Most of the time, I like my partner or partners to take the lead. Once in a while, I'm a little more aggressive, but I enjoy being led sexually. I'm a pleaser.
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When a woman takes the lead does that mean they are in the "moment" and extremely horny???
BubblyBookworm
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Usually
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I like to get on top, control the speed, and ride him out 
Naughtyboy31
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That's how she took control in my previous post. She mounted me and just took out some aggression.
BubblyBookworm
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Whatever you enjoy.
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I told her she could do whatever she desired. She needed it and her husband wasn't giving it to her. I told her as long as I can give her pussy a kiss first.
