Okay folks here is my situation, I am interested in having my wife have sex with other men. This drives me crazy! My first wife did this for me, however how do I bring this up to my current wife. For those of you out there who are going to call me sick or do not understand what I am talking about please do not respond. I am thinking about slipping some ectasy into her drink during a trip to Chicago in a couple of weeks. I have been told that this helps people lose their inahabitions. I am sure that once she tries it I will not have any more problems. Please do not focus on the x. I probably will not use it. I truly need some advice from serious swingers out there. I have been out of the swinging lifestyle to long and feel as if I am starting from scratch. PLEASE HELP!!
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SteamyChik
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Try some swingers bars and go dancing. See if she is even interested in that or if the idea turns her on. A lot of swingers bars can be just "bars" too so you don't have to focus on the swinging if she gets nervous. Try to slow down a little. Enjoy the fantasy a while. You married her, you must know if she seems to enjoy a little kinkyness. If she isn't into it don't drug her, shame on you 
. You might be working on marriage number 3 if you do that! Anyway, good luck!
. You might be working on marriage number 3 if you do that! Anyway, good luck!Lizard_king309
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I guess what you could do is bring it up in a conversation as a joke and see what her reaction would be. If she's totally uninterested then you're out of luck buddy go for the drugs then. Good Luck 
Lollygirl26
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I dont know how much you know of swinging and the rules of it. Some believe there are none. WRONG! I have a site you might want to check out. It has rules of swinging and other things. Email me sometime and I will tell you about it.
GurlyChicka
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SHAME
No way should you even CONSIDER slipping your wife Ecstasy. It can cause:
1. Death
2. Unconciousness
3. Addiction, which can:
-Destroy the liver
-Cause death
-Cause unconciousness
-Damage the heart
-Damage the brain
4. Loss of trust in your relationship with your wife.
If you truly love your wife, you will talk to her about what you are interested in her doing. If she doesn't want to, you should go along with her decision. Giving her Ecstasy so she will sleep with other men could be considered indirect rape. If your wife were to die or get in trouble, it would be completely your fault and you may be faced with charges such as murder or rape.
Please take this into consideration!!
No way should you even CONSIDER slipping your wife Ecstasy. It can cause:
1. Death
2. Unconciousness
3. Addiction, which can:
-Destroy the liver
-Cause death
-Cause unconciousness
-Damage the heart
-Damage the brain
4. Loss of trust in your relationship with your wife.
If you truly love your wife, you will talk to her about what you are interested in her doing. If she doesn't want to, you should go along with her decision. Giving her Ecstasy so she will sleep with other men could be considered indirect rape. If your wife were to die or get in trouble, it would be completely your fault and you may be faced with charges such as murder or rape.
Please take this into consideration!!
