Sweet Things & Deviant Thoughts

[LadyLascivious1]

relatable
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I cry when I’m really, really angry. It’s the exact opposite of how I want that anger to be expressed…and it just makes me angrier

And this might be one of the reasons I rarely allow myself to get angry

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

I cry when I’m really, really angry. It’s the exact opposite of how I want that anger to be expressed…and it just makes me angrier

And this might be one of the reasons I rarely allow myself to get angry

Same! I cry harder because I want to hurt them for seeing my weakness.

 

[sweetlydeviant]

I cry when I’m really, really angry. It’s the exact opposite of how I want that anger to be expressed…and it just makes me angrier

And this might be one of the reasons I rarely allow myself to get angry

This is me!!! But I still get angry

In fact, like Kristen Bell explained on Ellen at one point.
If I’m not between a 3-7 on the emotional scale I’m crying.

Same! I cry harder because I want to hurt them for seeing my weakness.

ooh I can get behind that one

 

[J D Danger]

felt a bit cute today.
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I think you should feel cute every day..but I agree you look good today...lovely lips

 

[LostHorizon]

felt a bit cute today.
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Are they hiring where you work by any chance?

 

[LadyLascivious1]

This is me!!! But I still get angry

In fact, like Kristen Bell explained on Ellen at one point.
If I’m not between a 3-7 on the emotional scale I’m crying.

I’m the opposite and am extremely even keeled with a heavy lean on laughing instead

And if I get angry enough to cry, there’s some self-reflection going on to figure out why I wasn’t able to communicate and resolve things before they got that far.

I don’t think anger or extreme emotions are bad at all. Your feelings are your feelings. I’ve just found that while they’re insightful cues, extreme expressions rarely benefit the situation and instead can kick things into a bad spiral.

Same! I cry harder because I want to hurt them for seeing my weakness.

I don’t mind if it’s my personal life because if I care enough to get that upset, you really matter to me. It’s ok to see me be real.

Where I really hate it is in professional settings. Thankfully it’s never hit me in person, but the thought alone…

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

I’m the opposite and am extremely even keeled with a heavy lean on laughing instead

And if I get angry enough to cry, there’s some self-reflection going on to figure out why I wasn’t able to communicate and resolve things before they got that far.

I don’t think anger or extreme emotions are bad at all. Your feelings are your feelings. I’ve just found that while they’re insightful cues, extreme expressions rarely benefit the situation and instead can kick things into a bad spiral.

You're so well adjusted. #goals
A male friend here is helping me with open communication instead of expecting people to read my mind.

I don’t mind if it’s my personal life because if I care enough to get that upset, you really matter to me. It’s ok to see me be real.

Where I really hate it is in professional settings. Thankfully it’s never hit me in person, but the thought alone…

I don't think I have angry cried at work. I have exhausted cried and said "you're killing me!" Maybe I should shutup now.

 

[sweetlydeviant]

I’m the opposite and am extremely even keeled with a heavy lean on laughing instead

Way better way to be!
I do love that I laugh a lot too.
And you’ve got a cute laugh so…

And if I get angry enough to cry, there’s some self-reflection going on to figure out why I wasn’t able to communicate and resolve things before they got that far.

This is very important internal work that I have not done.
I find I’m not in tune with my feelings or ever know what I want which can be very problematic.

I don’t think anger or extreme emotions are bad at all. Your feelings are your feelings. I’ve just found that while they’re insightful cues, extreme expressions rarely benefit the situation and kick things into a bad spiral.

So very true!

I don’t mind if it’s my personal life because if I care enough to get that upset, you really matter to me. It’s ok to see me be real.

Love that, I agree completely.

Where I really hate it is in professional settings. Thankfully it’s never hit me in person, but the thought alone…

Yeah…
Have I cried in front of my boss…yes

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

I’m the opposite and am extremely even keeled with a heavy lean on laughing instead

This is my blueprint for life...

 

[sweetlydeviant]

just me

 

[LadyLascivious1]

You're so well adjusted. #goals
A male friend here is helping me with open communication instead of expecting people to read my mind.

That is awesome! It’s not easy to recognize patterns you want to change and then put in the effort!

I don't think I have angry cried at work. I have exhausted cried and said "you're killing me!" Maybe I should shutup now.

Nah, real talk is one of the best things about Lit!

Unless @sweetlydeviant wants us to stop cluttering up her page

 

[sweetlydeviant]

Nah, real talk is one of the best things about Lit!

^^^

Unless @sweetlydeviant wants us to stop cluttering up her page

Never!

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

That is awesome! It’s not easy to recognize patterns you want to change and then put in the effort!


Nah, real talk is one of the best things about Lit!

Unless @sweetlydeviant wants us to stop cluttering up her page

Hey, she brought it up! I blame her.

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

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Seen the hat and started singing..

 

[sweetlydeviant]

Seen the hat and started singing..

Adding to the playlist!

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Way better way to be!
I do love that I laugh a lot too.
And you’ve got a cute laugh so…

I’m glad that some people think so because I would get annoying really fast otherwise

This is very important internal work that I have not done.
I find I’m not in tune with my feelings or ever know what I want which can be very problematic.

I can see where that would be a challenge

Maybe start small and try to name them and admit them to yourself when they’re not overwhelming.

So very true!

Love that, I agree completely.

Yeah…
Have I cried in front of my boss…yes

I’m sending hugs because that might be my worst nightmare Tied with karaoke, of course

 

[sweetlydeviant]

I’m glad that some people think so because I would get annoying really fast otherwise

I can see where that would be a challenge

Maybe start small and try to name them and admit them to yourself when they’re not overwhelming.

that’s a good start.

I’m sending hugs because that might be my worst nightmare Tied with karaoke, of course

we are a very small operation and close thankfully. Not corporate lol

I so want to go to karaoke with you! I’m more of a rent a karaoke room vs perform but
Who am I kidding, I’d also perform and put on a show!

 

[J D Danger]

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lovely

 

[cheekygirl75]

I find I’m not in tune with my feelings or ever know what I want which can be very problematic.

If you don’t mind me jumping in… I am so like this. It’s taken practicing mindfulness & lots of therapy to be able to stop in the moment to identify my emotions. I had a therapist who would always ask me where I felt things, which was really helpful for me.

 

[cheekygirl75]

If you don’t mind me jumping in… I am so like this. It’s taken practicing mindfulness & lots of therapy to be able to stop in the moment to identify my emotions. I had a therapist who would always ask me where I felt things, which was really helpful for me.

And even with that, I still struggle

 

[sweetlydeviant]

If you don’t mind me jumping in… I am so like this. It’s taken practicing mindfulness & lots of therapy to be able to stop in the moment to identify my emotions. I had a therapist who would always ask me where I felt things, which was really helpful for me.

For me it’s the fact that I just feel “too” much so I can’t pinpoint exactly what I feel.
But mindfulness has helped in the past, I’ll have to try it again.

And even with that, I still struggle

We are all a work in progress but there’s nothing wrong with that

 

[sweetlydeviant]

 

[sweetlydeviant]

would be fun to make a playlist.

 

[sweetlydeviant]

 

[efnicole]

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Until he wakes up and realizes she’s perfect!