Sweet Things & Deviant Thoughts

[LadyLascivious1]

relatable
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I cry when I’m really, really angry. It’s the exact opposite of how I want that anger to be expressed…and it just makes me angrier

And this might be one of the reasons I rarely allow myself to get angry

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

I cry when I’m really, really angry. It’s the exact opposite of how I want that anger to be expressed…and it just makes me angrier

And this might be one of the reasons I rarely allow myself to get angry

Same! I cry harder because I want to hurt them for seeing my weakness.

 

[sweetlydeviant]

I cry when I’m really, really angry. It’s the exact opposite of how I want that anger to be expressed…and it just makes me angrier

And this might be one of the reasons I rarely allow myself to get angry

This is me!!! But I still get angry

In fact, like Kristen Bell explained on Ellen at one point.
If I’m not between a 3-7 on the emotional scale I’m crying.

Same! I cry harder because I want to hurt them for seeing my weakness.

ooh I can get behind that one

 

[J D Danger]

felt a bit cute today.
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I think you should feel cute every day..but I agree you look good today...lovely lips

 

[LostHorizon]

felt a bit cute today.
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Are they hiring where you work by any chance?

 

[LadyLascivious1]

This is me!!! But I still get angry

In fact, like Kristen Bell explained on Ellen at one point.
If I’m not between a 3-7 on the emotional scale I’m crying.

I’m the opposite and am extremely even keeled with a heavy lean on laughing instead

And if I get angry enough to cry, there’s some self-reflection going on to figure out why I wasn’t able to communicate and resolve things before they got that far.

I don’t think anger or extreme emotions are bad at all. Your feelings are your feelings. I’ve just found that while they’re insightful cues, extreme expressions rarely benefit the situation and instead can kick things into a bad spiral.

Same! I cry harder because I want to hurt them for seeing my weakness.

I don’t mind if it’s my personal life because if I care enough to get that upset, you really matter to me. It’s ok to see me be real.

Where I really hate it is in professional settings. Thankfully it’s never hit me in person, but the thought alone…

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

I’m the opposite and am extremely even keeled with a heavy lean on laughing instead

And if I get angry enough to cry, there’s some self-reflection going on to figure out why I wasn’t able to communicate and resolve things before they got that far.

I don’t think anger or extreme emotions are bad at all. Your feelings are your feelings. I’ve just found that while they’re insightful cues, extreme expressions rarely benefit the situation and instead can kick things into a bad spiral.

You're so well adjusted. #goals
A male friend here is helping me with open communication instead of expecting people to read my mind.

I don’t mind if it’s my personal life because if I care enough to get that upset, you really matter to me. It’s ok to see me be real.

Where I really hate it is in professional settings. Thankfully it’s never hit me in person, but the thought alone…

I don't think I have angry cried at work. I have exhausted cried and said "you're killing me!" Maybe I should shutup now.

 

[sweetlydeviant]

I’m the opposite and am extremely even keeled with a heavy lean on laughing instead

Way better way to be!
I do love that I laugh a lot too.
And you’ve got a cute laugh so…

And if I get angry enough to cry, there’s some self-reflection going on to figure out why I wasn’t able to communicate and resolve things before they got that far.

This is very important internal work that I have not done.
I find I’m not in tune with my feelings or ever know what I want which can be very problematic.

I don’t think anger or extreme emotions are bad at all. Your feelings are your feelings. I’ve just found that while they’re insightful cues, extreme expressions rarely benefit the situation and kick things into a bad spiral.

So very true!

I don’t mind if it’s my personal life because if I care enough to get that upset, you really matter to me. It’s ok to see me be real.

Love that, I agree completely.

Where I really hate it is in professional settings. Thankfully it’s never hit me in person, but the thought alone…

Yeah…
Have I cried in front of my boss…yes

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

I’m the opposite and am extremely even keeled with a heavy lean on laughing instead

This is my blueprint for life...