Supporting Red...

[RedHairedandFriendly]

LOL
Yes, you know

*ring a ling ling* THOSE contraptions!!

Well... I like the tiny viberating ones you can keep in your pocket.

 

[FantasySlut]

Well... I like the tiny viberating ones you can keep in your pocket.

lmao
I should have known YOU would go there!! Let's me know what's on your mind this morning!! *tsk tsk* lol

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Okay, so I just saw this thread for the first time, and here I am to give support.

I think you're doing great, and I hope you feel as good as you look.

When i was in college I was injured playing rugby and had to quit the sport. I continued to drink and party with the team and without the workouts or games, I quickly packed on a lot of weight. It was very difficult to workout while injured and it really slowed me down.

Since healing and losing weight became possible, I know how difficult a struggle it can be. Congratulations on doing so well, and I hope you keep it up and stay healthy.

Good morning and thank you.

It's been a weight off my shoulders, pun not intended. I can move, breathe, and enjoy life so much easier now than before. It's a thrill for me to walk up and down the street without losing my breath, or to slide into a restaurant booth and not worry if I'll fit, or if the bench or the table is welded down and I won't beable to move it so I have more room. My seat belts in older cars I may ride in fit. I sit comfortably in airline seats, doctor office chairs, beauty salon chairs too. So many things people don't think about effect a person who has a weight issue.

When people look at me now, I don't feel they are commenting on my size. I feel they are thinking of the woman with the new smile on her face, because she feels better about herself.

Congratulations on taking charge and losing your weight too. I know it wouldn't have been easy, especially after ending a sport you probably enjoyed.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

lmao
I should have known YOU would go there!! Let's me know what's on your mind this morning!! *tsk tsk* lol

I've gotten three propositions in less than an hour. *sigh* It is the ones that don't post on the threads that upset me the most. I'm worth getting to know and spending some public time with on the boards before someone tries to fuck me in my box. The ones that come out here on the forums and attempt to become a friend before a fuck partner are the ones I consider gentlemen. *sigh* Sorry... another rant. I really should just put my best/worst link back in my sig.

 

[FantasySlut]

I've gotten three propositions in less than an hour. *sigh* It is the ones that don't post on the threads that upset me the most. I'm worth getting to know and spending some public time with on the boards before someone tries to fuck me in my box. The ones that come out here on the forums and attempt to become a friend before a fuck partner are the ones I consider gentlemen. *sigh* Sorry... another rant. I really should just put my best/worst link back in my sig.

Hey, I KNOWWWWWWWWWWWWW all about that!!! And I understand and agree with you 100%.

Yet, another good rant!!!! Keep them coming hun!!!!

 

[SmirkingJack11]

It was a struggle and I empathize with those things you dreaded. I flew to Tokyo and the Asian airline I took had small seats, even for small Asians. LOL That was rough. And welded booths also annoyed me to no end.

When a woman checks me out now it makes me feel so strong. And well I am strong it makes me FEEL strong.

Yes I miss rugby, but I like weight training too. There is no sense of teams, except with my lifting partner, but it isn't really the same. Maybe its the lack of beer.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Hey, I KNOWWWWWWWWWWWWW all about that!!! And I understand and agree with you 100%.

Yet, another good rant!!!! Keep them coming hun!!!!

I don't like to rant. lol. I know you get them too. I think it is my new AV. Folks must have gotten tired of the lollipop, because I didn't get the PMs much any more with that one. lol - I guess it was gettin' old.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

It was a struggle and I empathize with those things you dreaded. I flew to Tokyo and the Asian airline I took had small seats, even for small Asians. LOL That was rough. And welded booths also annoyed me to no end.

When a woman checks me out now it makes me feel so strong. And well I am strong it makes me FEEL strong.

Yes I miss rugby, but I like weight training too. There is no sense of teams, except with my lifting partner, but it isn't really the same. Maybe its the lack of beer.

I had to have surgery for an infection from a different surgery (unrelated to the gastric bypass)... this surgery ended up forcing the insurance to cover what they call an "intermediate tummy tuck". . . Oh my goodness. . . I can't believe the difference in my self-esteem now that the "apron" of fat is gone. I have a flat tummy. lol... ( A huge ugly scar - but a flat tummy )

I can see my sex. . . Something that I am sad to say was not something I could see because I was so overweight. Now though *blushes* I find myself constantly looking, brushing against it and just thinking how cool I look.

It's amazing really. I expected changes and I expected my self-esteem to improve, but honestly I never expected to feel sexy. I like it.

 

[FantasySlut]

I don't like to rant. lol. I know you get them too. I think it is my new AV. Folks must have gotten tired of the lollipop, because I didn't get the PMs much any more with that one. lol - I guess it was gettin' old.

LOL
Men are pervs!!! What can you say! They go after what they like and what they THINK they can get!!

But, apparently they don't you very well do they hun? But Ohhhhhh they will

Go get'em girl!!!

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

LOL
Men are pervs!!! What can you say! They go after what they like and what they THINK they can get!!

But, apparently they don't you very well do they hun? But Ohhhhhh they will

Go get'em girl!!!

Not all are pervs. I've met some very nice gentlemen here on Lit and I have a feeling I'll meet more over time. Some will be friends, others something a bit more intimate. It just takes time. I'm worth the time.

Only one has made an effort and so only one will I continue to speak with.

 

[FantasySlut]

Not all are pervs. I've met some very nice gentlemen here on Lit and I have a feeling I'll meet more over time. Some will be friends, others something a bit more intimate. It just takes time. I'm worth the time.

Only one has made an effort and so only one will I continue to speak with.

You know what I meant
I know all aren't like that, truly. But, most are...It just takes awhile to find just the right one.......AND YES YOU ARE WORTH EVERY effort it'll take them to get to know YOU!

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

You know what I meant
I know all aren't like that, truly. But, most are...It just takes awhile to find just the right one.......AND YES YOU ARE WORTH EVERY effort it'll take them to get to know YOU!

I know you knew.

Thanks sweets. I like to think so. The feeling is mutual, concerning your fine self.

 

[Guest]

Good afternoon fellow worker

How goes things over your side of the big puddle???

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Good afternoon fellow worker

How goes things over your side of the big puddle???

Not bad at all. Good day to you. I hope you have a good one.

 

[Guest]

Not bad at all. Good day to you. I hope you have a good one.

Thanks hun

I have done 4 mornings this week and it has been fairly easy. I am doing 3 full days next week (M/W/F) and as long as occupational health give me the okay I shall be full time from Oct 1st.

How are you settling into the new job?? Does it feel like second nature yet or do you still feel a bit like a fish out of water??

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Thanks hun

I have done 4 mornings this week and it has been fairly easy. I am doing 3 full days next week (M/W/F) and as long as occupational health give me the okay I shall be full time from Oct 1st.

How are you settling into the new job?? Does it feel like second nature yet or do you still feel a bit like a fish out of water??

For the most part it feels settled. It is when they have the sales switching and coupons pop up that I get a bit frazzled. Many customers have had some excellent deals because of those damn coupons! lol They'll exclude different stuff and I don't catch it till several customers later. lol.

I only had 3 days this week and ended taking off one of them, so I've only got 2 .... today and Saturday. I'll get more next week, because the girl who does the regular schedule is back.

 

[Guest]

For the most part it feels settled. It is when they have the sales switching and coupons pop up that I get a bit frazzled. Many customers have had some excellent deals because of those damn coupons! lol They'll exclude different stuff and I don't catch it till several customers later. lol.

I only had 3 days this week and ended taking off one of them, so I've only got 2 .... today and Saturday. I'll get more next week, because the girl who does the regular schedule is back.

As long as they don't dock it out of your wages hun!! Are you giving it them all back or have you managed to be good so far??

 

[FantasySlut]

I know you knew.

Thanks sweets. I like to think so. The feeling is mutual, concerning your fine self.

Thank you hun


My tummy is growling......what'cha got to eat Red

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

As long as they don't dock it out of your wages hun!! Are you giving it them all back or have you managed to be good so far??

They won't dock and I'm being good and catching on as to how to ring the items up the best way so the coupon works the way it is supposed to. I just have to check tags... Boots, Point of Sale items (which is 40% - 60% off of an already 40% - 60% off item), Priced Just Right msde, $ off certain products if they are buying over a certain amount... All those things are often excluded. Some coupons are only good if the customer uses the stores charge card. I and even the assistant store managers missed that one this past week. lol

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Thank you hun


My tummy is growling......what'cha got to eat Red

Well, I know what I'd like to try.

But I had the leftover toppings of a Buffalo Pizza this morning for breakfast. Though... dessert is good.

 

[FantasySlut]

Well, I know what I'd like to try.

But I had the leftover toppings of a Buffalo Pizza this morning for breakfast. Though... dessert is good.

hehehehe Naughty vixen!!!

Ummmmmm not too sure about pizza stuff for breakfast lol....Not too appealing, BUT I can always go for a yummmmmy dessert

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

hehehehe Naughty vixen!!!

Ummmmmm not too sure about pizza stuff for breakfast lol....Not too appealing, BUT I can always go for a yummmmmy dessert

Just a little naughty. lol

Dessert, cream filled okay?

 

[FantasySlut]

Just a little naughty. lol

Dessert, cream filled okay?

ONLY a lil? hehehee

Of course! And the creamier the better

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

ONLY a lil? hehehee

Of course! And the creamier the better

Okay maybe a bit more than a lil'.

w00t for us.

 

[FantasySlut]

Okay maybe a bit more than a lil'.

w00t for us.

heheheh I KNEW it!!! Holding out on me toots?

*wink wink*

Now where can we find the cream