Supporting Red...

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Thanks hun.........

LOL Honestly no, just re-cycle LOL

Well, that's not a bad thing. I need some new ones. . .I only have one that is working at the moment. Would you believe it is the free one I got when I ordered the most expensive one that broke a month after its use! LOL (though I often have had to take the freebie apart and fix it.)

 

[Strange1]

*chuckles* There are redheads that post here. lol. . . Take a gander at post one and you'll see what the thread is geared around, though it offers more support than just on that one topic.

Sorry the second red heads come into play my mind cant go any other place.

 

[FantasySlut]

Well, that's not a bad thing. I need some new ones. . .I only have one that is working at the moment. Would you believe it is the free one I got when I ordered the most expensive one that broke a month after its use! LOL (though I often have had to take the freebie apart and fix it.)

HAHAHA
Wouldn't you know it!!

Ummmmm been a busy gal, huh?

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Sorry the second red heads come into play my mind cant go any other place.

I've heard that about folks. No worries. It'll pass soon. . . the novelty of being surrounded by redheads eventually fades.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

HAHAHA
Wouldn't you know it!!

Ummmmm been a busy gal, huh?

I was at one time. lol... But not lately, been working. I am going to have to make a trip to the toy store eventually. I need some fresh toys.

 

[FantasySlut]

I was at one time. lol... But not lately, been working. I am going to have to make a trip to the toy store eventually. I need some fresh toys.

You know, sometimes , with everything going on around you, there really isn't enough time for it....Who wants to add *something else to the list* LOL

 

[Strange1]

I've heard that about folks. No worries. It'll pass soon. . . the novelty of being surrounded by redheads eventually fades.

Not for me. The redhead thing has been a weekness for me for years. I cant so no to a redhead.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

You know, sometimes , with everything going on around you, there really isn't enough time for it....Who wants to add *something else to the list* LOL

Exactly. LOL... Sometimes it just really is a bother to drag a toy out.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Not for me. The redhead thing has been a weekness for me for years. I cant so no to a redhead.

Well, that's a good thing for the redhead then.

 

[Strange1]

I have to head out now but expect a pm from me sooner or later red

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I have to head out now but expect a pm from me sooner or later red

Umm... why would you PM me? You don't know me and well... you may want to go with later rather than sooner, or you could make an oops. I'm the owner of the "Worst/Best PM/IM thread. . ."

No matter what though, PM or not. . .Have a good day and it was nice meeting you.

~ Red

 

[FantasySlut]

Exactly. LOL... Sometimes it just really is a bother to drag a toy out.

Some days, yes LOL

No effort, but still LOL

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Some days, yes LOL

No effort, but still LOL

I know. lol

 

[FantasySlut]

I know. lol

LOL
Hubs would ask some day, "did you use your toy today" (grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr)

I would just sigh and think to myself....."I don't need THE toy to have a good orgasm"

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

LOL
Hubs would ask some day, "did you use your toy today" (grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr)

I would just sigh and think to myself....."I don't need THE toy to have a good orgasm"

Mine got to the point that he was looking in my toy drawer to see if they had been "moved" . . . he would know then that I had used a toy. I understand how you feel. It annoyed me and I began to make sure my toys were always in the same position as they were when I used on. I don't do that anymore though. I use them and if he knows it and has an issue with it, I look at him and shrug my shoulders or say. . .yep.

 

[FantasySlut]

Mine got to the point that he was looking in my toy drawer to see if they had been "moved" . . . he would know then that I had used a toy. I understand how you feel. It annoyed me and I began to make sure my toys were always in the same position as they were when I used on. I don't do that anymore though. I use them and if he knows it and has an issue with it, I look at him and shrug my shoulders or say. . .yep.

Hubs is not that easy. He really and truly takes it personally. Like I prefer the toy over him. When he first found it, he was furious!! Literally!! And that's when he started asking if I had. It annoys the hell out of me. So, that one you see, is the one he knows of. Another one,he does not. So if and when I do use it, I'll put it back the same as well.

Isn't that a little saddening?

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Hubs is not that easy. He really and truly takes it personally. Like I prefer the toy over him. When he first found it, he was furious!! Literally!! And that's when he started asking if I had. It annoys the hell out of me. So, that one you see, is the one he knows of. Another one,he does not. So if and when I do use it, I'll put it back the same as well.

Isn't that a little saddening?

Oh, mine was and still is the same way. He was hurt that I even suggest getting one in the first place it took me years to convince him of it, then he gave me the credit card and a 150.00 budget. I researched some sights and picked out two I liked. . .and yeah. . .I liked them.

He took it personally and like I said, he still does. But I am an adult. I have decided I will do what I want to my body, when I want to do it. He can accept it or not, but I will not feel ashamed or wrong by giving myself pleasure. He did that too me for 13 years. No more.

I wish you all the luck in the world, FS. You know that. *hugs*

 

[FantasySlut]

Oh, mine was and still is the same way. He was hurt that I even suggest getting one in the first place it took me years to convince him of it, then he gave me the credit card and a 150.00 budget. I researched some sights and picked out two I liked. . .and yeah. . .I liked them.

He took it personally and like I said, he still does. But I am an adult. I have decided I will do what I want to my body, when I want to do it. He can accept it or not, but I will not feel ashamed or wrong by giving myself pleasure. He did that too me for 13 years. No more.

I wish you all the luck in the world, FS. You know that. *hugs*

I remember you saying something like this while back in here....

And I know exactly what you mean.

Sometimes, yes it means we want it and not them. Most of the time, that isn't true. And yes, we are adults and we should be able to do what we want and when without being made to feel *little*...(sigh)

Thank you hun. very much

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I remember you saying something like this while back in here....

And I know exactly what you mean.

Sometimes, yes it means we want it and not them. Most of the time, that isn't true. And yes, we are adults and we should be able to do what we want and when without being made to feel *little*...(sigh)

Thank you hun. very much

You're welcome.

He made me feel ashamed so many times. Now though. . .with the end of our marriage looming ahead of us, he's trying to change. I can see it. I just don't know if it isn't too late. The damage may be unfixable. We'll see though. One day at a time and I will just keep swimming.

 

[FantasySlut]

You're welcome.

He made me feel ashamed so many times. Now though. . .with the end of our marriage looming ahead of us, he's trying to change. I can see it. I just don't know if it isn't too late. The damage may be unfixable. We'll see though. One day at a time and I will just keep swimming.

I know hun, I know

Sometimes it is just too late. Way too many things have been said and done. And you know it comes to a point to where saying sorry doesn't cut it anymore. Then you finally get to this point within yourself where you just don't care anymore.

Anyway, I guess I should hush
Thanks for *listening* hun. Have a good day

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I know hun, I know

Sometimes it is just too late. Way too many things have been said and done. And you know it comes to a point to where saying sorry doesn't cut it anymore. Then you finally get to this point within yourself where you just don't care anymore.

Anyway, I guess I should hush
Thanks for *listening* hun. Have a good day

You have a good one too and you know... I am always willing to listen.

 

[FantasySlut]

You have a good one too and you know... I am always willing to listen.

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[RedHairedandFriendly]

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Awww... I like it.

 

[FantasySlut]

Awww... I like it.

Good
Hope you will

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Good
Hope you will

You too.