Well....the first day of the second week is over.RedHairedandFriendly said:*hugs*
I am happy to see you this evening. How did things go today?
Feeling just a little nauseous right now. Hoping it doesn't get worse this early in the week. We shall see. 
FantasySlut said:
Truly and sincerely!
What a wonderous feeling you must be feeling now!
Awesome! hun!
My day has been enjoyable. Lunch out and then we watched "Ghost Rider."WyldBreeze said:Well....the first day of the second week is over.
How was your day?
How was Ghost Rider?RedHairedandFriendly said:My day has been enjoyable. Lunch out and then we watched "Ghost Rider."
I hope it doesn't either. . . but I am glad the weekends you are free of their poking and prodding. *hugs*
He liked it. . . I thought it was okay. There was some really cheesy lines that sadly Nicholas Cage had to say and they were bad. lol... The effects are cool, though. You're very welcome.WyldBreeze said:How was Ghost Rider?
Thanks for the good wishes.
Sometimes cheesy is fun.RedHairedandFriendly said:He liked it. . . I thought it was okay. There was some really cheesy lines that sadly Nicholas Cage had to say and they were bad. lol... The effects are cool, though. You're very welcome.
Yeah, but sometimes cheesy is just that. . .cheesy.WyldBreeze said:Sometimes cheesy is fun.
lol....True.RedHairedandFriendly said:Yeah, but sometimes cheesy is just that. . .cheesy.
So what are you into this evening?
Nothing. . . debating on if I want to have "Leftover Buffet" night or if I want to actually cook. . .I'm leaning toward "Leftover Buffet".WyldBreeze said:lol....True.
I'm hoping its as close as you think it is, though I'm not sure it will be. *bites my lip nervously as I wait*RedHairedandFriendly said:Nothing. . . debating on if I want to have "Leftover Buffet" night or if I want to actually cook. . .I'm leaning toward "Leftover Buffet".
Also.... looking up a particular female, best-friend Litster's place of residence in relation to our vacation in April.
April 9th? ? ?WyldBreeze said:
RedHairedandFriendly said:Is it conceited to start your own support thread? I don’t think so. I am starting this one because I think I’ll need it. On October 24th of this year, I’m undergoing Roux-en-Y Gastric Bypass Surgery. I have pre test and a pre op class on the 9th and 10th.
This isn’t a decision that I just woke up to one day and decided on. I spent over 5 years researching it and even now as the day closes in on me, I’m still learning things. I am ready though. I know it won’t be easy, but I know for me to live to see my kids marry and have kids, I am going to have to do something drastic.
I’ve done the diets, the working out, the structured programs since I was 18. I’m now 33 and a mother of three and my life is slowly coming to an end every day I maintain this weight I have placed on my heart.
There are so many things I want to experience, but where I am at now, it isn’t going to happen. This isn’t for vanity reasons. . . I want to walk up hills and take trails with the kids on vacation. I want to sit in a seat at the doctor’s office and not feel worried that this will be the first time I get stuck. I want to walk around and not feel the shooting pain in my back or the ache in my knees. I don’t want to worry that I embarrass my children. I don't want to gasp for breath any more unless its because I orgasmed. . .
I know there is a woman inside me begging to be let loose and my health is in jeopardy, so this woman may never escape if I don't step away from the plate. I’m realistic. My troubles will not float away as the pounds drop. . . I know this. I know I’ll still suffer from the need to keep everyone happy and to make everything okay, but now. . . I have something to help me when I feel this way. . .my friends here at Lit. So this is why I have started my own support thread.
Ask me any question you want, but one. . .How much I weigh. . . LOL... I don’t even know that and don’t want to!!! I won’t even guess, though they'll tell me on the 9th. . .DAMN!!! Grrrrr.
I will tell you this. . .
My surgeon told me. . .for every 100 pounds a person is overweight you lose 20 years of your life. . .folks. . . I want my years back!
If you've had this surgery and want to share your story or offer advice, please do so! I am not alone in this journey.
The date is good.RedHairedandFriendly said:
Are you sure you're coming through this close, though?
Thank you.garbage can said:Hey Red, count on me as a friend who is pulling for you......
It has been a real eye-opening experience for me since the day of the surgery. One I have not regretted once.
Yes. . .are you sure you want me to?WyldBreeze said:The date is good.
Hello GC....nice to meet you.garbage can said:Hey Red, count on me as a friend who is pulling for you......
You'd better!RedHairedandFriendly said:Yes. . .are you sure you want me to?
I'm looking forward to it. We'll be seeing his grandparents on the 6th and 7th and a bit on the 8th, then we'll see you on the 9th.WyldBreeze said:
And you're sure its not out of your way?RedHairedandFriendly said:I'm looking forward to it. We'll be seeing his grandparents on the 6th and 7th and a bit on the 8th, then we'll see you on the 9th.
Do you know visiting his relatives is out of my way, because they don't live next door!?!WyldBreeze said:
Oh I've accepted it....and looking forward to it. lol I'm just willing to drive and meet you somewhere if I need to.RedHairedandFriendly said:Do you know visiting his relatives is out of my way, because they don't live next door!?!
I am coming to see you... accept it! Live with it! Embrace it!
Last year had I known you lived where you lived, we would have seen you then! We were like an hour from you!!!!!!
WyldBreeze said:Oh I've accepted it....and looking forward to it. lol I'm just willing to drive and meet you somewhere if I need to.
going lingerie shopping. He said... Ohhh I am not going to do that, so I do know he's going to have the kids for part of this trip and I'm going to have (Braveheart Mel Gibson voice) FREEDOM!!!
LOL Good deal....I'll start saving for the shopping spree now.RedHairedandFriendly said:We'll come to you, or perhaps meet somewhere and go out to supper or something. I told Hub, that we're (you and I)
Though no one ever sees mine
Pic thread them.WyldBreeze said:LOL Good deal....I'll start saving for the shopping spree now.
That's not nearly as fun. lolRedHairedandFriendly said:Pic thread them.
