Super sensative wife's vajayjay

[eln900]

I recntly posted that after sex and my wife would orgasm, she was so sensative i could not do anything else. we were absolutely done.

The other day after an afternoon romp and we bothe orgasmed, i went down on her and just licked her clitoris and she loved it and another great orgasm. I have done this a few times since all to be successful.

My question is there any other things i can try to help her to more satisfied. I am willing to try anything to make her feel the best.

Any suggestios would be appreciated.

 

[LaRocha]

Cool story bro. Don't know what you're asking though.

 

[eln900]

I guess is there anything else i could try to continue our sex.

I really would like to get her off on the G spot but she gets so wound up she makes me stop.

She is so sensative after sex she doesn't want anything inserted in. She has no problem having orgasms. She orgasms just through foreplay, no problem.

She is 51 and i am 53

 

[infinity706]

What you could try is to get her worked up, but not let her orgasm. Afterall, not all women can just keep going. Once she's super aroused, have her turn over on her belly with a pillow under her hips. That should get her in a good position to get at her g-spot. Then, just stick a finger or two into her pussy and stroke the front wall (the one facing her clit). Depending on the woman, though, she may need a pillow over her mouth as well, though, so she doesn't alarm the neighbors with her screaming.

 

[LaRocha]

He's talking about after she comes, man. As far as I can tell he just wants the exchange to keep on keepin on.

Put her on her stomach, a pillow under her hips like the other guy said, but don't touch her cunt if she's too sensitive. Lick her A, man, as in 'anus'. It's a whole different set of nerves, should keep the party going until her puss is ready to go again. Insert a finger if she likes the licking. If you and she have never done it before it can be shocking for both of you, but fuck that, catch her after a shower, have normal sex then do the A thing. It's even better if she says "No, don't do that, it's dirty." do it anyway and agree with her that it's nasty.

 

[infinity706]

I'm not really sure that would work, either. I know I personally wouldn't enjoy anal licking, either, right after orgasm. Maybe it would be a good opportunity to get some of that cuddling time in before round two. I'm sure she probably wouldn't mind being held, stroked, and talked to while she recovers. It's not like it'll take that long to recover and it'll probably make her feel just as special as any mind blowing orgasm he could give her.

 

[Cathleen]

He's talking about after she comes, man. As far as I can tell he just wants the exchange to keep on keepin on.

Put her on her stomach, a pillow under her hips like the other guy said, but don't touch her cunt if she's too sensitive. Lick her A, man, as in 'anus'. It's a whole different set of nerves, should keep the party going until her puss is ready to go again. Insert a finger if she likes the licking. If you and she have never done it before it can be shocking for both of you, but fuck that, catch her after a shower, have normal sex then do the A thing. It's even better if she says "No, don't do that, it's dirty." do it anyway and agree with her that it's nasty.

Oh yeah, that's a great idea. WTG, Champ.

I recntly posted that after sex and my wife would orgasm, she was so sensative i could not do anything else. we were absolutely done.

The other day after an afternoon romp and we bothe orgasmed, i went down on her and just licked her clitoris and she loved it and another great orgasm. I have done this a few times since all to be successful.

My question is there any other things i can try to help her to more satisfied. I am willing to try anything to make her feel the best.

Any suggestios would be appreciated.

Welcome to Lit.

Just like orgasms vary, the sensitivity and length of 'recovery' I have do too. There are times a slight touch might earn a knee in a sensitive spot but other times, for that G spot, perseverance might be best. See Mr G's thread on that!

We're all different, I like what infinity mentioned about cuddling and talking and his idea about flipping to the belly for G spot is excellent, (I'd add a towel or two). Being brought to the top and then withholding her orgasm is something that can really amp things up, and that's all I have to say about that at the moment. (Yikes!)

It's all most definitely worth experimenting. You and your wife are in the best position (pun? you decide) to find what works and when.

 

[LaRocha]

Oh yeah, that's a great idea. WTG, Champ.

Larocha's annilingus is FTW, Chatty.

 

[Adakgirl]

If you have been with your wife for 28 years and are coming here asking for suggestions on how to keep her highly aroused after you both orgasm, so you can continue to give her orgasm after orgasm after orgasm just to make absolutely sure she is super duper satisfied the very best she can be
or so you can continue to have sex with her, thinking that since you gave her another few orgasms, she owes you another few orgasms too...
.then I'd say, you have a lot of growing up to do when it comes to your sexuality.

Your main goal and focus seems to be on you both having orgasms. Is there a reason why you think you need to continue stimulating her to try and get more orgasms out of her? Does it make you feel more like a good lover or what? How do you know she's not already as satisfied as she can be, once you two have had sex and orgasmed? Has she complained?

Sex is not all about you reaching orgasm and you giving her orgasms, it's about sharing deep sexual intimacy and love. Change your focus to touching her, massaging her, telling her what she means to you, talking with her, holding her, caressing her. Slow down your sex and take your time....it's concentrating on and enjoying the journey not the destination, that brings lasting satisfaction and pleasure. Not repetitious sexual acts.

Why don't you ask her if you have done enough to completely satisfy her..before you push her any further.? There has to be some kind of natural stopping point to your sex..is it when YOU are done? Or is it when both of you are ready to be done?

 

[hidden_self]

I see no reason to tear the man a new one just because he wants to keep the party going.

Let's assume, for the sake of argument, that she also wants to keep the party going. Since she orgasms easily (sometimes during foreplay), it doesn't seem too hard to imagine that she'd want to keep going. Perhaps she'd love multiple orgasms, but can't quite figure out how to get from here to there?

I think all the solutions mentioned here seem worth trying. Clearly, trying to penetrate her again after orgasm doesn't work, but lots of other things may.

I'm intrigued by your comment that when you try to stimulate her g-spot, she makes you stop because she says it's too much. Is she interested in trying that as well, but gets overwhelmed by the sensations? Perhaps trying to be gentler or slower would be useful? Otherwise, assuming this is *her* interest (and not just what you want FOR her), it seems like the solution would be for her to experiment with stimulating her g-spot herself until she figures out what works for her. Once her body is acclimated and she knows what she wants, she can teach you.

In the meantime, good for you for being willing to do research and be open. I've known men who would rather let their marriage die on the vine than try to learn anything new. I give you credit for not being one of those guys.

 

[cowslinger64]

I like to start out by making a woman cum licking her clitoris and no gspot stimulation, for the the first orgasm. Lick everything she's got except her clit for at least ten minutes. Get those lips nice and puffy before you even touch the clit.

A great method I use, especially in the morning...I've woken a few up this way..when she's on her belly, start with very light kissing at the back of her neck at the hairline. You should stay in this area, along with her shoulders for a while, dont be in any hurry. Then I slowly, and the emphasis is on slowly, kiss, lick and suck your way down her spine. Stop at the spot just above her ass and lick and suck there for a little bit, then back up and back down. Lick the insides of her thighs and the backs of her knees (another lesser known erogenous zone). Lick around her pussy from behind, and her ass too. After ten or fifteen minutes, she'll be ready for you to roll her over. Drive her nuts some more without touching the clit, when you do, it usually doesnt take too long. I've never been turned down for morning sex, my favorite time..

After she's cum, many women are too sensitive to go back at it. So, go back to licking on all her stuff. Suck on her breasts, but dont forget underneath her nipples, some say its even more pleasurable there than the nipple. Kiss and lick her belly...then work your way around her thighs, then her lips. SLOW...within a few minutes or so, light licks on her clit, then slowly work her up to a frenzy again...its usually at that point I'll slide a finger in while I lick her. Softly stroke her gspot, occasionally pushing in on it. It can get real intense if you push too hard, so I'll push at varying pressures at lengths of time. Building it up...watching a woman unable to move after making her cum this way, is the hottest thing I can think of.

Some women are more likely to have multiples...if your woman is, after the gspot orgasm, go back to the everywhere licking thingy...I've actually made a woman cum 5 times in this scenario, a record for her and I. Very pleasurable for us both.

IMO, enthusiasm, a love for what you are doing, and a real desire to please..mean more than anything.

 

[eln900]

If you have been with your wife for 28 years and are coming here asking for suggestions on how to keep her highly aroused after you both orgasm, so you can continue to give her orgasm after orgasm after orgasm just to make absolutely sure she is super duper satisfied the very best she can be
or so you can continue to have sex with her, thinking that since you gave her another few orgasms, she owes you another few orgasms too...
.then I'd say, you have a lot of growing up to do when it comes to your sexuality.

Your main goal and focus seems to be on you both having orgasms. Is there a reason why you think you need to continue stimulating her to try and get more orgasms out of her? Does it make you feel more like a good lover or what? How do you know she's not already as satisfied as she can be, once you two have had sex and orgasmed? Has she complained?

Sex is not all about you reaching orgasm and you giving her orgasms, it's about sharing deep sexual intimacy and love. Change your focus to touching her, massaging her, telling her what she means to you, talking with her, holding her, caressing her. Slow down your sex and take your time....it's concentrating on and enjoying the journey not the destination, that brings lasting satisfaction and pleasure. Not repetitious sexual acts.

Why don't you ask her if you have done enough to completely satisfy her..before you push her any further.? There has to be some kind of natural stopping point to your sex..is it when YOU are done? Or is it when both of you are ready to be done?

I need to make myself clear i suppose. My only interest is in satisfying my wife. I have no further need to continue my orgasms or self satisfaction.

As i stated i recently discovered that she enjoys clitoral orgasm after we have had sex and a vaginal orgasm. This is something new we discovered or is she changing?

I was hoping another woman may have experienced this, if she also is very sensativeafter sex. Or a man that has experienced this and they were able to overcome this in a different matter.

I see your from the central calif. valley, as well as i so i know where you get your firey beliefs.

I appreciate all the comments and suggestions left here.

 

[cryforme1v]

do it anyway .

yeah doing it anyway tends to piss people off.
The last person that "did it anyway" with me, got a swift kick in the nuts with my steel toed boots as i was walking out the door.

So to the OP, dont just do it anyway, make sure she is 100% comfortable. If she's not 100% then it doesnt matter if you literally give her the moon.