suggestions.

[Devilgrl]

My friend set me up with this guy.(she doesn't know I'm a lesbian) and I played around long enough. But to keep my friend get suspicious I kept going out with him (no more than kisses or anything) and it's been like 3 weeks and he wants sex.


The thing is what do i say i need some suggestions?!?

 

[pellso27]

tell him

He needs to lick your pussy till you cum like crazy as you lay back and dream of pussy.

 

[Devilgrl]

Well noo it just isn't the same hmmm I'll think about it

Anyone else?

 

[Prime]

you need to tell him exactly what you told us. let him know that has absolutly nothing to do with him personally, you like him and everything, but guys just aren't your thing. at first he'll be pissed. that will last exactly one second. then he'll ask, or at least think of asking, if he can be in a threesome with you and another girl. then reality will set in and he'll be cool with it, and understand.

now, beyond that point, i don't know. be friends with him, never see him again, whatever, thats up to you. but don't just keep stringing him along like this.

 

[Devilgrl]

I feel afraid to tell him because If i do my friend will know(know since first grade)
anyone else?!

 

[ShinigamiSama]

I feel afraid to tell him because If i do my friend will know(know since first grade)
anyone else?!

if she can't accept that fact of your life is she really worth being your friend?
friends accept eachother and care about eachother

 

[Tymeless]

just tell him your not ready for that kinda relationship or any kind of commitment right now. Tell him you enjoy his company and wouldn't mind remaining friends and if later on you feel comfortable enough with your friendship then tell him about your sexual orientation. Though i agree that if she can't accept your a lesbian then is she really worth having as a friend?

 

[Etoile]

Whether you tell him you're a lesbian or not, you must stop leading him on now. It's really cruel. You need to let him know that you just want to be friends. Do not say "oh, well, I'm just not ready for sex now" and keep dating him, because this is going to come up again.

 

[privyjo]

Whether you tell him you're a lesbian or not, you must stop leading him on now. It's really cruel. You need to let him know that you just want to be friends. Do not say "oh, well, I'm just not ready for sex now" and keep dating him, because this is going to come up again.

My sentiments exactly.

 

[noonenew]

you're fucking with the poor guy, let him off now.

 

[Etoile]

Oh, also - he wants sex after you've been dating for three weeks? I must be getting old.

 

[Trombonus]

Take it from a guy who's been strung along before. It SUCKS, and is fucked up. I don't care if you tell him you're a lesbian or not, you cannot just string him along like that. Contrary to popular belief, guys have feelings too. I mean have you thought about his feelings at all? It seems like you're more concerned with yourself and your friend than this guy you've basically been lying to for three weeks. I don't claim to know you or any of the other people involved, but come on.

 

[naughtyinsilk]

I think you need to treat the guy and your friend as two seperate issues.

Firstly break it up with the guy, you dont need to tell him yuour a lesbian, just explain as honestly as you can that its not working for you.

Secondly I would write to you friend, believe me its easier than trying to tell them in person, and explain to her that you have been friends for so long you dont want any secrets from her and that you want her to know not only are you a lesbian but that you wont be treating her any differently from before now she knows. She may need a little time to get her head around the idea, but be positive she may have a really cute girlfriend she will want to hook you up with instead.

Your not suddenly going to change sexual orientation, so in th end she is either going to have to accept it, or show she isnt the person you hoped she could be and she will walk away. In the long run its better to find out where you stand now, than spend the rest of your life lying, and in fear of her finding out.

Good luck, let us know how it turns out.

 

[Devilgrl]

Take it from a guy who's been strung along before. It SUCKS, and is fucked up. I don't care if you tell him you're a lesbian or not, you cannot just string him along like that. Contrary to popular belief, guys have feelings too. I mean have you thought about his feelings at all? It seems like you're more concerned with yourself and your friend than this guy you've basically been lying to for three weeks. I don't claim to know you or any of the other people involved, but come on.

I understand that guys have feelings to...and I'm sorry that you got strung along. well the simple solution is I'm just gonna break up with him and keep telling my friend I'm straight or something I odn't know about the friend thing but What I'm doing to this guy i realize isn't right....well thanks...tommorow I guess I'll just tell him I'm no intrested

 

[Trombonus]

I understand that guys have feelings to...and I'm sorry that you got strung along. well the simple solution is I'm just gonna break up with him and keep telling my friend I'm straight or something I odn't know about the friend thing but What I'm doing to this guy i realize isn't right....well thanks...tommorow I guess I'll just tell him I'm no intrested

Sorry if I went a little hard on you there, but that kind of thing really angers me because it just reminds me of what happened to me. I know you're more than likely not as cruel as the girl I went out with, but still. Anyways, I'm glad you're doing the right thing, and I respect you more for that.