hiya, I just turned 18 recently, and my boyfriend and I are experimenting with different things, we both don't want to have premarital intercourse, but we both enjoy fooling around with each other, I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for 2 kids still learning pretty much everything, like what to do what not to, any tips you might have... I know that's pretty broad, but any and all suggestions would be really helpful. thanks all for your time
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flawed_ethics
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Well, what do you define as intercourse? Vaginal penetration? Anal penetration? If he were to penetrate you (or you him) with a dildo, would that count?
Are you adverse to oral? Plenty to do there. In my book it is sex, but my book isn't exactly a best seller.
I imagine that if you both posess the control, there's plenty of teasing you could do to bring each other to a boil.
Are you adverse to oral? Plenty to do there. In my book it is sex, but my book isn't exactly a best seller.
I imagine that if you both posess the control, there's plenty of teasing you could do to bring each other to a boil.
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If you don't want to have sex before marriange, don't
kissing, petting, teasing, and fooling around are great, but you need to define to yourself what you won't do, and will do. If you think oral is great and perfectly acceptable then go for, read stories on here (the fiction section) for ideas, toys are fun and so are hands, but that is to me sex. If you are only saving your virginity for your wedding night but are willing to do almost anything else, I am not sure you are truly saving much. Not that I saved anything, but make sure what you are trying to do for (I assume ) moral reasons stays moral.
Just my two cents (well ok, 1 cent, it wasn't much)
Carnus
kissing, petting, teasing, and fooling around are great, but you need to define to yourself what you won't do, and will do. If you think oral is great and perfectly acceptable then go for, read stories on here (the fiction section) for ideas, toys are fun and so are hands, but that is to me sex. If you are only saving your virginity for your wedding night but are willing to do almost anything else, I am not sure you are truly saving much. Not that I saved anything, but make sure what you are trying to do for (I assume ) moral reasons stays moral.
Just my two cents (well ok, 1 cent, it wasn't much)
Carnus
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there are a whole bunch of things you can use to drive each other crazy. Ice, icy grapes inserted to her, feathers, rubs and creams that either go cold or warm on the skin. Altoids and mints in your mouth that create the same sensations because of the oils in them. Can get books upon books on erotic massage and acupressure, can find the aphrodesiact's cook book and have fun with tastes and smells, toys are always fun, blindfolds and sensual touch, mastering self/partner masturbation or oral sex.
::thinks:: different places, rooms, kitchen, tables, cars just to fool around with. Tickle, pinch, bite, lick, sucking, kissing, different parts of each others bodies light then hard from head to toe.
Light power play with the "i can only touch you" ways. Find out just what gets the breathing to quicken, and goosebumps to form...nipples to harden.
There are pleanty of things you can do shy of sex
Just have fun and laugh, explore each others bodys, be open minded, read stories together, maybe write a few of your own. There are sex dice, and games, and cards that you can play together. Can even find out the concept of the games and make them almost yourselfs w/o getting into the expensive stuff online/in stores.
::thinks:: different places, rooms, kitchen, tables, cars just to fool around with. Tickle, pinch, bite, lick, sucking, kissing, different parts of each others bodies light then hard from head to toe.
Light power play with the "i can only touch you" ways. Find out just what gets the breathing to quicken, and goosebumps to form...nipples to harden.
There are pleanty of things you can do shy of sex
Just have fun and laugh, explore each others bodys, be open minded, read stories together, maybe write a few of your own. There are sex dice, and games, and cards that you can play together. Can even find out the concept of the games and make them almost yourselfs w/o getting into the expensive stuff online/in stores.
dollface007
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Some people have posted some great suggestions so far, but i just wanted to give you a little piece of advice:
Even though you're abstaining from intercourse, you should still have condoms on hand. Growing up in the Bible Belt, i knew way too many couples who wanted to wait until marriage, but enjoyed fooling around...and whaddya know....in a moment of weakness while fooling around, they had sex anyway. Oh yeah, and some of them got pregnant.
So be prepared and have fun!
Even though you're abstaining from intercourse, you should still have condoms on hand. Growing up in the Bible Belt, i knew way too many couples who wanted to wait until marriage, but enjoyed fooling around...and whaddya know....in a moment of weakness while fooling around, they had sex anyway. Oh yeah, and some of them got pregnant.
So be prepared and have fun!
