Suggestions for a sex slave...

SubmissiveB

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I am making this thread at the behest of my master. He is looking for some new ways to use my sex. What are some tasks, challenges, or experiences I can be used for? I am a sexy woman, I enjoy being submissive, and we want to know how you would use my service more fully. :catroar:
 
omgomgomg I know

I got one

Ok

How about he gets

a dildo

and like...

puts it in there for a bit???

And then fuckin... takes it out.
 
There was an amazing thread once that I saw here many years ago where a woman was looking for the community to offer her new challenges and new ideas. It was exactly the opposite of the lack of creativity that people so far seem to sense in this thread. What's the source of this snarkiness? What's wrong with reaching out to the literotica community for new ideas? She's putting herself out here publicly, asking you for your kinky ideas. That seems to me like it would take a lot of courage to do. Instead of blindly belittling this courageous woman and her lover, please feel free to post if you have anything sexy and interesting to suggest that you'd like to hear about the results of :)
 
There was an amazing thread once that I saw here many years ago where a woman was looking for the community to offer her new challenges and new ideas. It was exactly the opposite of the lack of creativity that people so far seem to sense in this thread. What's the source of this snarkiness? What's wrong with reaching out to the literotica community for new ideas? She's putting herself out here publicly, asking you for your kinky ideas. That seems to me like it would take a lot of courage to do. Instead of blindly belittling this courageous woman and her lover, please feel free to post if you have anything sexy and interesting to suggest that you'd like to hear about the results of :)


The problem is the master isn't asking us. He's sent his submissive to do the job. We didn't ask to be put in the middle of their relationship. The problem is this smells like a cloaked attempt to get wank fodder. The problem is that this is their first post with no apparent attempt to learn anything about this forum or its members or to contribute to it.

It's the master asking his submissive to ask us. It puts us in the middle of their relationship. I know I didn't consent. Completely different response if he mans up and comes and asks himself. But then he should provide some more information. I didn't consent to dominate her or humiliate her.
 
There was an amazing thread once that I saw here many years ago where a woman was looking for the community to offer her new challenges and new ideas. It was exactly the opposite of the lack of creativity that people so far seem to sense in this thread. What's the source of this snarkiness? What's wrong with reaching out to the literotica community for new ideas? She's putting herself out here publicly, asking you for your kinky ideas. That seems to me like it would take a lot of courage to do. Instead of blindly belittling this courageous woman and her lover, please feel free to post if you have anything sexy and interesting to suggest that you'd like to hear about the results of :)

A thread like this pops up every now and then. The OP is almost always new to the board with no posts under their belt. Since they haven't contributed to the community, they can't be taken seriously.

Also, this is LAZY!

One thing I never understand, why send the sub to collect ideas? Not only are these "doms" unable to think of their own ideas, they send someone else to collect them.
:rolleyes:
 
There was an amazing thread once that I saw here many years ago where a woman was looking for the community to offer her new challenges and new ideas. It was exactly the opposite of the lack of creativity that people so far seem to sense in this thread. What's the source of this snarkiness? What's wrong with reaching out to the literotica community for new ideas? She's putting herself out here publicly, asking you for your kinky ideas. That seems to me like it would take a lot of courage to do. Instead of blindly belittling this courageous woman and her lover, please feel free to post if you have anything sexy and interesting to suggest that you'd like to hear about the results of :)

Well, where are YOUR suggestions to the OP?

I love the snark! More snark!
 
Maybe we should post links to older threads where brainstorming actually occurred, and conjecture what that op did differently.

Okay.. well Thanks for that Stag of Oberon, it's not a bad idea. I'm the Master in question. SubmissiveB and I have been together for years in various capacities and she's my best friend. I was actually fairly upset by the response at first... but there seems to be consensus that I'm going about it the wrong way. And... I truly wouldn't be deserving of such a lovely, delicious submissive, nor such a wonderful best friend, if I wasn't open to criticism. I'm actually fairly new to being a real-life Dom -- she's the first woman who I've ever had the opportunity to do this with, which is part of the reason why I'd like to hear from folks in the community who are more knowledgable.

The reason why I instructed her to make the post is that I thought that my fellow perverts would appreciate hearing directly from the woman. I'm still rather surprised by the response, but I appreciate people explaining the reasons for it... I don't intend to entangle anyone in our relationship... That sounds like... drama of some kind. Bleh. I just want to expose our relationship to more sexy, erotic ideas.

We've tried quite a few interesting things, but I know from experience on these forums and elsewhere that there's a whole world of possibilities out there that neither of us have thought of yet. :devil:
 
Seems to me there are several ways to think about this;
1) as a dominant, you.. dominate. You (and she) do what YOU want, whatever that might be.

You might require her to do tasks a'la the thread you referenced, or accept sensation and experiences from you, or open her facehole every time you want to stick a dick in it. :cattail:

So if you give us an idea of where you want this to go-- what it is that YOU, the dominant, wants to do, that would be a good start.
 
Dude I kind of feel bad for you guys.

In one sense yes there is a good reason why the "regulars" jump on threads like this and unleash the snarkiness.

On the other hand there's no need to insult. I applaud you guys for doing something new and fun. I doubt I could EVER get my wife/sub/bottom to do anything resembling this so I'm glad for you.

So it would be hard to give any challenge without knowing more information. I'm a bastard sadist so I'd want to know what she doesn't really enjoy doing (not a hard limit though) and challenge her to do that AND make you believe she enjoys it. Extra points if she can find a way to enjoy it. My wife doesn't like the pain but she does it for me. I don't think it would be half as hot if she actually enjoyed it.

That might be more than you want to share though.

J
 
Here we are. This is the thread that inspired me to give her this command:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=242996

That thread is TEN years old; you bumped it, yourself in 2007. AND it was from the BDSM Playground Forum, not BDSM Talk.

Every forum has it's own energy; it's own rhythm. This sort of thread might go over gangbusters in BDSM Playground, but 9 times out of 10, they will fall flat here. Why?

Because people contribute to the BDSM Playground for all the hot sexy playtime, ignoring BDSM Talk/Cafe, and the second they need something "real" they show up here asking it to be handed to them on a silver platter.

So when people show up here going "I need an idea!" (with no information on how they do BDSM, what they've done in the past, what the goal is, etc)... we're left going

"Wha? Who is this person and WTH should I know what will turn on their partner? Christ, can't two people communicate? Find a BDSM checklist online? When things go bad, is this another person who's going to "punish" their submissive by telling them to go on BDSM Talk and ask complete strangers for punishment ideas? WTF? Own your own goddamned relationship already!"

Oh, and chastising forum members for how they respond, before coming clean that you're the Dom in question? Bad form.

If either of you had started a thread saying hey, we're new, both trying to learn a few things, and I have these specific questions... looking forward to giving back to the forum as I discover new things, myself...

You'd have been pretty dammed golden.

So. Fresh start? :)
 
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