Sub males and anal play

[Alex19803133]

Hi, so I posted this in personals previously and mistakenly, but I am wondering about anal play.

I am a sometime sub guy who adores anal play...I have been playing on my own for some years, from when I was a teenager to now (33). Over the years I have played with girlfriends and some have fingered me but I always wanted more.

Basically I love the feeling of being stretched open by a woman who herself is getting aroused by enjoying doing this to me and stretching my ass open. I have seen a couple of domes and been fisted and also now own a wide collection (literally and figuratively) of dildos, butt plugs etc as well as playing with bottles (always plastic), the odd coke can and vegetables.

I am wondering whether many women do enjoy this kind if play. I am always careful t use lots of lube and go slow to avoid permanent damage.

So ladies, do any of our enjoy this kind of extreme anal play and guys, are any of you with women who do. It is a strong craving/fetish for me. Am I alone.

 

[Netzach]

1. Not alone
2. Not many but some
3. Cleaning out religiously makes an ass man more appealing.
4. Women like things more when we feel like it's our idea and less like we're being pestered to do something - a lot of people with monolithic fetishes get obsessive in a way that's a turn off.

For me, deep ass play isn't a turn on like "oh I wish I had an ass to fist!" but it's something that can be hot and intense in the context of a fuller sexual relationship with someone else.

I knew a guy who was amazing, a true ass-tronaut, but he was transparent about the fact that it was always a kind of contest with himself, a kind of ass-everest - I don't really feel very important when I'm with someone like that, more like I'm just a holder for a very large dildo. NOT hot.

 

[Alex19803133]

Thank you

Thank you Netzach, I really appreciate you replying. I felt quite alone when for all the views only one reply. Thanks!

And I always clean very thoroughly. I want it to be a pleasure for the other person not an icky cleanup operation!

 

[Noira]

Extreme anal play scares me, probably because I bleed if someone so much as LOOKS at my anus. Doesn't matter how much lube is there. I'd do it with someone I trusted, but just knowing how fragile my own anal entrance is I'd be really worried about causing damage. Like, a dildo is one thing. Buttplugs. Fingers. Whatever. But a fist. o_o The mess doesn't even bother me, butts will be butts, but while vaginal fisting is an idea that turns me on, anal fisting scares me. Never mind the 'I feel like I'm just there to hold a very big dildo' mentality mentioned.

But seeing as there are lines of toys that are absolutely massive and flanged, designed for butt play... and people buy them... and love them... I would say you're definitely not alone.

 

[Netzach]

Extreme anal play scares me, probably because I bleed if someone so much as LOOKS at my anus. Doesn't matter how much lube is there. I'd do it with someone I trusted, but just knowing how fragile my own anal entrance is I'd be really worried about causing damage. Like, a dildo is one thing. Buttplugs. Fingers. Whatever. But a fist. o_o The mess doesn't even bother me, butts will be butts, but while vaginal fisting is an idea that turns me on, anal fisting scares me. Never mind the 'I feel like I'm just there to hold a very big dildo' mentality mentioned.

But seeing as there are lines of toys that are absolutely massive and flanged, designed for butt play... and people buy them... and love them... I would say you're definitely not alone.

Oh yeah, if I start thinking about "if this were my ass" that way lies madness.

Some people are just resilient, gifted, and way more into receiving.