Stripping for your lover

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I've been thinking about this after a thread yesterday asking 'what music would you strip to'. From the replies, some have stripped for a lover already. I've never done it but absolutely love the idea of it.

I'd love to hear any tips, suggestions, or even personal experiences if you'd care to share them.

Was it your idea?
Did you do it as a surprise?
Or was it spontaneous?
What kind of preparations did you got through such as setting and wardrobe?
How did it make you feel?
Would you do it again?
Anything else you feel like sharing would be wonderful.

BTW ........... this is open to both men and women. I'd love to hear from any men that have done this also.
 
Good morning Miss Trish!;) Give me a little time, and I'll be back with details. :)

Hope this day will be a beauty for you. :rose:
 
intrigued said:
Good morning Miss Trish!;) Give me a little time, and I'll be back with details. :)

Hope this day will be a beauty for you. :rose:

Don't you just love it when someone has to "prepare" to give you details on how they stripped?

*anxious* :)
 
intrigued said:
Good morning Miss Trish!;) Give me a little time, and I'll be back with details. :)

Hope this day will be a beauty for you. :rose:

Good morning to you Gorgeous!!
Take all of the time you need.
I'll be here, off and on, anxiously waiting for those details.

I think I'll definitely need to take lots of notes (and probably a cold shower) afterwards.
;)
 
Trail48 said:


Don't you just love it when someone has to "prepare" to give you details on how they stripped?

*anxious* :)

Yes, but I've learned that everything is worth waiting for when it comes to the lovely Mz. Intrigued.
 
I stripped to the soundtrack to footloose once. Well not the entire soundtrack, a couple of songs, I just don't remember which ones exactly, I think it was I need a hero, and lets hear it for the boy. Hmmm, maybe I should do that again some time soon. I need a new garter belt though, its just not as fun without one. These days my exhibitionist behavior is mostly limited to a quick check around the corner for kids, then flashing my guy some portion of my anatomy.


sheesh i'm wordy this morning, someone tell me to be quiet and get dressed for work.
 
ScarlettRose said:
I stripped to the soundtrack to footloose once. Well not the entire soundtrack, a couple of songs, I just don't remember which ones exactly, I think it was I need a hero, and lets hear it for the boy. Hmmm, maybe I should do that again some time soon. I need a new garter belt though, its just not as fun without one. These days my exhibitionist behavior is mostly limited to a quick check around the corner for kids, then flashing my guy some portion of my anatomy.


sheesh i'm wordy this morning, someone tell me to be quiet and get dressed for work.

Thank you for sharing and having kids myself, I had to laugh over the 'check around the corner for kids' part.

Oh, and I'm not going to tell you to hush and get ready for work. Then I'd feel guilty, like I should be doing something productive also and I can't have that.
 
I'd rather let him undress me, taking off each layer as he unwraps the gift he is about to receive. Slowly, to enjoy the anticipation. :)
 
I'm kinda lazy though, aren't there women I can pay to do that for him for me, kinda like how I pay someone else to wash and fold his underpants?
 
peachykeen said:
I'm kinda lazy though, aren't there women I can pay to do that for him for me, kinda like how I pay someone else to wash and fold his underpants?

Ok, I think you can pay someone to strip for him but I'm more interested in the part where someone else does his laundry!
Damn, I wish I had known this sooner.
 
Cheyenne said:
I'd rather let him undress me, taking off each layer as he unwraps the gift he is about to receive. Slowly, to enjoy the anticipation. :)

I think this is wonderful Cheyenne.
Being undressed can be very erotic.
I'm looking for ways to spice things up a bit, that's all.
 
Trish and Trail, you two are so very sweet. :rose: :rose:

OK, Trish, this is pure mood...you cannot dare have inhibitions, out the window they must go. ;)
You may want to start with one of those dreamy baths, and wine, not alot, just enough that you are starting to feel warm and fluid inside, and a little on the "OMG, I need him bad" side. ;)

Get beautiful...devastatingly beautiful, because when you feel beautiful, you are. Wear something that makes YOU wet...all of this will be projected to him, and thats what its all about. It isn't so much your moves and all, its your feelings that you put out there, that will really get to him.

Set the room in a manner that makes you feel sensual and sexy, I opt for "soft". I like candles and flowers and a little soft jazz music for the time up until you begin. And when you begin, start with entering the room as though he isn't even there and go right to the music, clear your head, and start it up. Turn and face him, and allow him to take you in. Give him a moment...and then, let that music wash over you, and take you away....
Never break eye contact, that is everything. Seduce him with your eyes, and you will have a man that is totally captivated and mesmerized.
Go slow, there is no hurry. Remember how you feel when you make love, how you want it to go slowly and just build? Thats how this needs to be too. You need to tease him and build him soooo slowly, and never reveal anything at all in one simple move, make it painstakingly slow. Also, the more you have on, the better. Gloves that go all the way up to your upper arm can be removed an inch at a time and then just tossed in the air with a flourish. Garters and stockings need to go the slowest...use your imagination. Also, feathers are a nice touch, to be used on yourself at first, (much like in my story?) and then during the dance, on him. ;)
Use your hair, allow it to cover your eyes and part of your face at times and then just whirl your head around a bit, and allow it to fall wildly...do alot of dancing away from him, and then turning slowly and dancing right back to him and coming oh so close to him, only to turn away again. ;) Every now and then, dance right up to him and softly trace your lips against some part of his body briefly, and if he tries to touch you, shake your head "no" and return to your dance.
As the music builds, begin the stripping. Start with only one shoulder strap, and bring it down a bit, never missing a beat, and let it just fall. Bend at your waist and then as you come back up, one breast should begin to fall free, and just flip your head all the way back...the sight is stunning! You will begin to detect a very nice change in his demeanor...;) Begin to move your hands slowly across your body, teasingly, as though you are about to...and if you feel like it, do it. Just a bit...if you go too far, you will end up in bed before you completely devastate him, and we wouldn't want to rush that process. ;)
Use long pearls or some other necklace to capture your breasts in as you dance around, that is so very hot. From time to time, trace your hands across your breasts, and then straight down your waist to your inner thighs, back up, and then straight down to your kitty....
Are you still in his eyes? Never forget, do not leave his eyes...
Its time for the other strap to come down, and this is an excellent time to begin dancing a bit closer to him, but staying out of reach. Turn around and as the teddy or whatever you are wearing begins to inch down slowly, wiggle your hips just a bit to help it down. bend forward at the waist as soon as it clears your hips, and begin to dance your way up so slowly, back to a standing position...as it finally hits the floor, turn and face him. This should take several minutes. Give him just a glimpse and dance away again.....now, what you do next is entirely up to you.;)

I hope this helps?
 
intrigued said:
Trish and Trail, you two are so very sweet. :rose: :rose:

OK, Trish, this is pure mood...you cannot dare have inhibitions, out the window they must go. ;)
You may want to start with one of those dreamy baths, and wine, not alot, just enough that you are starting to feel warm and fluid inside, and a little on the "OMG, I need him bad" side. ;)

Get beautiful...devastatingly beautiful, because when you feel beautiful, you are. Wear something that makes YOU wet...all of this will be projected to him, and thats what its all about. It isn't so much your moves and all, its your feelings that you put out there, that will really get to him.

Set the room in a manner that makes you feel sensual and sexy, I opt for "soft". I like candles and flowers and a little soft jazz music for the time up until you begin. And when you begin, start with entering the room as though he isn't even there and go right to the music, clear your head, and start it up. Turn and face him, and allow him to take you in. Give him a moment...and then, let that music wash over you, and take you away....
Never break eye contact, that is everything. Seduce him with your eyes, and you will have a man that is totally captivated and mesmerized.
Go slow, there is no hurry. Remember how you feel when you make love, how you want it to go slowly and just build? Thats how this needs to be too. You need to tease him and build him soooo slowly, and never reveal anything at all in one simple move, make it painstakingly slow. Also, the more you have on, the better. Gloves that go all the way up to your upper arm can be removed an inch at a time and then just tossed in the air with a flourish. Garters and stockings need to go the slowest...use your imagination. Also, feathers are a nice touch, to be used on yourself at first, (much like in my story?) and then during the dance, on him. ;)
Use your hair, allow it to cover your eyes and part of your face at times and then just whirl your head around a bit, and allow it to fall wildly...do alot of dancing away from him, and then turning slowly and dancing right back to him and coming oh so close to him, only to turn away again. ;) Every now and then, dance right up to him and softly trace your lips against some part of his body briefly, and if he tries to touch you, shake your head "no" and return to your dance.
As the music builds, begin the stripping. Start with only one shoulder strap, and bring it down a bit, never missing a beat, and let it just fall. Bend at your waist and then as you come back up, one breast should begin to fall free, and just flip your head all the way back...the sight is stunning! You will begin to detect a very nice change in his demeanor...;) Begin to move your hands slowly across your body, teasingly, as though you are about to...and if you feel like it, do it. Just a bit...if you go too far, you will end up in bed before you completely devastate him, and we wouldn't want to rush that process. ;)
Use long pearls or some other necklace to capture your breasts in as you dance around, that is so very hot. From time to time, trace your hands across your breasts, and then straight down your waist to your inner thighs, back up, and then straight down to your kitty....
Are you still in his eyes? Never forget, do not leave his eyes...
Its time for the other strap to come down, and this is an excellent time to begin dancing a bit closer to him, but staying out of reach. Turn around and as the teddy or whatever you are wearing begins to inch down slowly, wiggle your hips just a bit to help it down. bend forward at the waist as soon as it clears your hips, and begin to dance your way up so slowly, back to a standing position...as it finally hits the floor, turn and face him. This should take several minutes. Give him just a glimpse and dance away again.....now, what you do next is entirely up to you.;)

I hope this helps?


Sweet Mother of God

I hope you know this kills me......
 
Intrigued, you're hired. You can come over and strip for my man while I go drop off the laundry. Try to have him ready by the time I get back. Extra starch please.
 
intrigued said:


Oh, my.


Thank you, its always so nice to kill you. ;)

Connie, your words go right to the most delicious places.....
 
Intrigued,

THAT completely took my breath away!!!

Tank you for taking the time to write all of that out and to share it with us.

You are simply amazing.
:kiss:
 
peachykeen said:
Intrigued, you're hired. You can come over and strip for my man while I go drop off the laundry. Try to have him ready by the time I get back. Extra starch please.
:D

Hope you won't mind if I give him a spray of that starch right before I turn him over to you? ;)


Trail...:kiss: :rose:
 
Going to have to hide behind desk till lunch now that you got me going. :eek:
 
intrigued said:
Trish and Trail, you two are so very sweet. :rose: :rose:

OK, Trish, this is pure mood...you cannot dare have inhibitions, out the window they must go. ;)
...

I hope this helps?

Oh My :eek:

It sounds like you know how to turn any room into a steam bath!

I think one of the most important points is your first one. No inhibitions.

I know the few times I have tried stripping for my lover I didn't get very far before thinking, "Damn, I must look dumb and awkward." Ofcourse, I never used long pearls or some other necklace to capture anything. That might be the root of the problem.
 
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