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[Cardinal]

When my wife and I are fooling around and using a lot of lube I can get three fingers in her very easily. I have done four at a time but can't move them much then. Is there a way to get closer to fisting?
This may sound strange but it's not something that we would discuss so is it something that I could do without discussing it with her first?
It turns me on to play with her pussy and have three or four fingers in her and I think it would be cool to do more.
Any advice would be appreciated.

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

When my wife and I are fooling around and using a lot of lube I can get three fingers in her very easily. I have done four at a time but can't move them much then. Is there a way to get closer to fisting?
This may sound strange but it's not something that we would discuss so is it something that I could do without discussing it with her first?
It turns me on to play with her pussy and have three or four fingers in her and I think it would be cool to do more.
Any advice would be appreciated.

Well you really should discuss it with her first, even if you get advice on how to go about this it still could (very likely) cause alot of pain to do fisting if she's not expecting it. Remember it's her body and she should have the choice on weither she would want to try it or not. If she enjoys that kind of thing she shouldn't have a problem and may give you advice that would be more pertinent to the situation, since we don't know either of you so we can just give general advice. And if she doesn't want to then you should respect her wishes. Just my humble opinion.

-Zergplex

 

[Cardinal]

Thanks

Thank you, I do stop everytime she says that she is getting sore, so I guess the questions could be; since she probably knows what I am trying to do is there anyway to continue without the pain? More lube? is there a lube that helps strech better than others?

 

[Bobmi357]

Just a silly question, but if its friction during intercourse that leads to orgasms, why would anyone want to do something which would reduce that friction, ie the stretching that occurs during fisting.

Human flesh is elastic, to a point...

And on a less serious note....

Whats the most elastic material in the world?

Human Skin. Its written in the bible that Joseph tied his ass to a tree then walked 20 miles....

 

[SensualCealy]

I dont know why I set myself up for stuff like this but here it goes.
When she is really really turned on, slip the three fingers in that you can get in and gently massage her walls, not trying to force them in just soften the sides, this will not only relax her but allow more room to slip another in.

I also find that if she drops her knees open as far as they will go this also helps in giving you room to roam.

Once you've managed to get more fingers in, you can start to use thicker toys to help out the situation. This will also give her opportunity to play without you around.

Soon enough she will be able to take bigger things, and yes if you slow up on making love for a few days she will tighten up again. However, if you do this often enough she will stay a bit more stretched then before, egg plants will soon enough be on your grocery list!

Have fun,
Cealy

 

[blaquelady]

not sure

i have always ben told that i was really tight so i was very surprised that my ex was able to fist me--he did this without my knowledge but the next day when i confronted him he denied it. That was until i was able to do some reverse talk which made him tell on himself. i think i was so far gone that i was able to relax easily and that is a big factor. maybe if you go down on your wife and brng her to orgasm first she would be more relaxed but i would caution about going to far the first time out. I had never been fisted before that day but the next day i was so sore that it was unbelieveable. honestly it is not something that i would do because i like being able to offer up a tight and juicy delight

 

[BlueSugar]

PM etoile or poke around in the BDSM library on Lit, their combined knowledge will surely set you on the right path.

 

[Relentless]

I've done it with my wife a few times. The key is to go slow and don't push too hard. When it's time to add another finger, I make sure it's well lubricated and I apply constant pressure. This allows her to control how fast it goes in, or to back off in a hurry if it's too much. Constant attention to her clit is a must! She has the most intense orgasms this way.

Hope that helps.