StrapOn Knowhow

[WannaBeKinky]

Just got a strap on from my hubby. And I it is still sitting in my drawer. I want to use it on him but dont know what to do.

We have had some anal play before, and we both enjoy it. I hinted to him that I thought a strapon would be fun, and I guess he took me serious. He bought me one. I was shocked!
It is a good one. And I am anxious to try it, but for some reason, I am nervous.
Before when we played with anal, it was kinda like trying a new position. No big deal.
But this thing, is like, well, kinda like, getting a costume on. And so I cant get over the feeling like I need to have a script of something really naughty to say, and do. But Im not an aggresive girl, and Im really kinda not sure what to do here. lol.

I really really really want to knock his socks off. I have been thinking about getting dressed into a leather/lace outfit I have, that he hasnt seen on me yet, and slip into my strapon, and suprise him in that. I also own a cool little black whip. I know it would make him instantly hard to see me in it all... but after that.. then what..
Can you help me out here?
I have some cuffs... should I cuff him?
Should I play dominant with him?
I really want to see him suck my new cock, but dont know what to do.
Anyone know where I can read a story or find some advice on how to 'learn to be dominant" or something to that effect ..lol.
I really want to do this right! And sure could use any help you might have. Thanks!

 

[Bryce Be I]

I knwo that for me it would be a huge turnon to have a girl cuff me and then force me to submit to her, and make me like her bitch(put no pain). Normally i love to please a woman and have no problem being the agressive one whom takes command, but there's something about having a woman be in control that is such a turn on to me.

Just one mans thought.

For you what you could do is what you mentioned above. but when you get to the unkown parts, ask him what he wants at the moment. "You want to suck this?" or you can just tell him "I want you to suck this". Deffinatelly a great way to spice things up. I wouldn't mind finding a girl like you, that wouldn't be opposed to doing that ocassionally.

 

[Zmey]

I knwo that for me it would be a huge turnon to have a girl cuff me and then force me to submit to her, and make me like her bitch(put no pain). Normally i love to please a woman and have no problem being the agressive one whom takes command, but there's something about having a woman be in control that is such a turn on to me.

That's exactly what I just thought. Try the dominating thing and I bet he will love it. Force him to do what you want and then fuck him. I got a hard on thinking about it... cuff him only if he resists

 

[Amfig]

Just got a strap on from my hubby. And I it is still sitting in my drawer. I want to use it on him but dont know what to do.

We have had some anal play before, and we both enjoy it. I hinted to him that I thought a strapon would be fun, and I guess he took me serious. He bought me one. I was shocked!
It is a good one. And I am anxious to try it, but for some reason, I am nervous.
Before when we played with anal, it was kinda like trying a new position. No big deal.
But this thing, is like, well, kinda like, getting a costume on. And so I cant get over the feeling like I need to have a script of something really naughty to say, and do. But Im not an aggresive girl, and Im really kinda not sure what to do here. lol.

I really really really want to knock his socks off. I have been thinking about getting dressed into a leather/lace outfit I have, that he hasnt seen on me yet, and slip into my strapon, and suprise him in that. I also own a cool little black whip. I know it would make him instantly hard to see me in it all... but after that.. then what..
Can you help me out here?
I have some cuffs... should I cuff him?
Should I play dominant with him?
I really want to see him suck my new cock, but dont know what to do.
Anyone know where I can read a story or find some advice on how to 'learn to be dominant" or something to that effect ..lol.
I really want to do this right! And sure could use any help you might have. Thanks!

I have a couple of suggestions:

1. Put it on several times to make sure you have the adjustment right on the straps and that you can put it on and take it off comfortably and without looking like a klutz.

2. Wear it around a bit so that it feels less like a costume. My wife has said several times that she doesn;t know how a guy can walk around with one of those things all the time, but the more often she wears/uses it, the more comfortable it gets. You have to wear it a bit to get used to the idea for yourself. My wife's biggest hesitation about a strapon, at first, was that she was not sure she knew "how to fuck like a man." Took a little getting used to.

3. the new lingerie is a definite yes. Strapon sex is a fun time for playing costume sex games.

4. ask your husband what sort of fantasies he has about being taken by you with the strapon and build from there. Some guys get off on the whole femdom/humiliation/aggression thing, others enjoy much milder scenes.

I happen to be one of those who enjoys the milder scenes, at least most of the time. The scenes that my wife and I have enjoyed with a strapon have changed over time. At first, it was "just another position." Now, from time to time I will dress in a teddy, open crotch bodystocking, hose and garters or skirt and bra. Sometimes on my own, sometimes at her request.

Often she decides she wants to spank my ass bright pink before fucking it. Never have sucked her strapon. Not one of my fantasies, or hers, apparently as she never has suggested it. If you are going to have him such it, be sure to use a condom as toys don't always get clen.

Other than the, lube and lots of it. Foreplay and stretching and lots of it. Quit if it hurts too much. All the ususal anal sex tips.

Oh, and have fun. Lots of fun.

 

[likaway]

strap-ons

My guy and I get into some anal play but I admit I don't even own a strap-on, much less used one. That said, I'd approach him the way he would if he wanted to fuck your ass with his cock. I 'd slip in a finger, and then two, and then more........until he was streched enough to take the fake cock in his ass. Don't know if you rim, we do it a lot, but that would get it kinda wet and maybe willing. He sure must want you to use it on him if he bought it, huh? You could suck off his cock before you ask him to suck on your strap-on and tell him how much it would excite you. I'm sure you'll do fine. Maybe someday we'll try it?!? Love Lisa

 

[WannaBeKinky]

Cool Posts!

You all have been great! Thanks so much! I'll be checking back in to see if anymore ideas popped up. But you all have been great!
Just what I wanted to hear!
Kinda helped build my confidence more, and I definately like the idea of wearing it around to get used to it! Good tip!
He sometimes comes home for lunch, maybe the day that I plan it, I'll be wearing it when he comes home for lunch, so he can anticipate it the rest of the day. hmmmm.... have to think about that. This is fun! Thanks again!
And maybe, I'll come back and let ya know how it went!

 

[Gods_Favorite]

All I can say is that your husband is a lucky man, I would give my right arm for my wife to be dressed in all leather with a strap on telling me "suck it bitch"oooof.. and then for her to take my ass oh god

 

[pandora_999]

There are lots of ways to have fun with a strapon. Why not try it all.

Just strap it on, have him get on his hands and knees and fuck him. I love the feeling of being the one in control. I can start out teasingly slow until he is wiggling his ass back against me and then grab his hips and fuck him fast until he is moaning.

The new lingerie doesn’t all have to be for you. Dress him up in a wig and lingerie, have him get down on his knees and be your little cocksucking slut.

For a real control fantasy blindfold, gag and tie him up. Spank his ass with that little black whip until it’s a nice rosy red and then fuck his ass. You might want to save this until you know what he likes – feedback will help at first.

 

[Amfig]

You might want

to take a look at this thread:

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=105924

 

[Gods_Favorite]

There are lots of ways to have fun with a strapon. Why not try it all.

Just strap it on, have him get on his hands and knees and fuck him. I love the feeling of being the one in control. I can start out teasingly slow until he is wiggling his ass back against me and then grab his hips and fuck him fast until he is moaning.

The new lingerie doesn’t all have to be for you. Dress him up in a wig and lingerie, have him get down on his knees and be your little cocksucking slut.

For a real control fantasy blindfold, gag and tie him up. Spank his ass with that little black whip until it’s a nice rosy red and then fuck his ass. You might want to save this until you know what he likes – feedback will help at first.

Damn I wish my wife thought like you!!!!

 

[asyouwish2]

asyouwish2

 

[subFLmale]

StrapOn Fun!!

Sex with a StrapOn is great fun for both the man and the women. In most situations a man who want's his lady to use a strapon wants to be dominated too.

Start by making service you orally. Dont let him satisfy or thouch himself yet. Instruct him to suck your "cock" and tell you how beautiful it is and how much he wants it.

Let him get good and worked up, but still don't let him touch himself and focus all the attention on your satisfaction.

Make him lube himself up for you, applying the lube to his waiting hole but not allowing him to touch his own cock or balls. Tell him what position to get into - laying on his belly with his hips propped up on pillows and his legs spread wide to the side. Make him beg you to take his hot ass.

As you slowly work the cock into his waiting ass hole let yourself get all the way in, start pumping him and then make him masturbate his own cock by himself. Tell him to continue telling you how much he wants and needs your "cock" in him and how wonderful it is. Smack his ass cheeks with the palm of your bare hand hard as you continue to fuck him.

If you want to continue the scene after he has cum, which won't be long as you hit his prostrate, make him clean up his mess from the bed and his hands using his mouth.

The lingerie or anything else that adds to the domination role is great too.

Most of all just have fun!!