Strap-on work

[AngelofDeath]

Ok my fiance is willing to et me fuck him up the ass with a strap-on. The thing is he's an anal virgin and i have onlybeen with bi guys or guys who have had their asses fucked previously.

Other than starting small and LOTS of lube does anyone have any other advice?


thanks

 

[Cenobite]

Well I would highly recommend you stimulate him a lot there, tongue, fingers that kind of thing... odds are you can open him up enough through pure pleasure that things will go easier.

I also recommend him to straddle you and ease his descent, it's a lot easier that way, and I know this from past experience.

 

[AngelofDeath]

I also recommend him to straddle you and ease his descent, it's a lot easier that way, and I know this from past experience.

Forgot to mention the other thing he's 300+ and i'm 125 andi'm only good for like maybe 5 mins of him ontop as it is.


thanks

 

[popcorn2721]

This is how my first time went

My first time was with Mrs Popcorn...she didn't know that you had to go slow. It was a good thing that we had been into anal play for a while, but believe me you have no idea how sexy it was to see her with the stapon on. She let me suck her cock (a large blue vibrating an wiggling one) for a while before the tension built so high I just had to be penitraited. Laying back on the bed, I rolled over onto my knees and raised my ass in the air. She rimmed my ass with lube and applied lube to the strapon. I could see my lover getting ready in the mirror through the dim light. She asked me if I was ready, and of course I said "yes". I felt her hand on my hip and the head of her "cock" pressing against my ass. Then without warning and with a quickness that still boggles my mind, she thrust in to me and held it there. I couldn't yelp, couldn't hardly breath till the spasm went down. I asked her to waited a few seconds before she started to thrust. Then without warning I heard the buzz and felt the warm swirling motion from the her strapon. She repeatedly thrust herself into me with much vigour each motion giving off a rewarding slap. I looked at us in the mirror again and was completely addicted. She came really hard from just grinding her hips and when It was my turn to go into her she had the biggest orgasm in her life.
That first time has been stuck in my mind for a long time and I hope it can help yall. Be sure to give him few seconds to relax before continuing inside. I think they say about an 8th of an inch then wait 5-10 seconds. Ive also had to have more lube put on after the initial penetration so it slides easier. Happy strapping

 

[Cenobite]

Slightly important... just a bit lol.
Myself I'm only 54kgs, which isn't all that much really... so I understand that totally.

You could always have him on his side and spoon him.

 

[buttplugged]

If he is an anal virgin you might try starting out with a small plug, maybe let him get used to having something in his ass, plus it will losen him up.

Use lots of lube and go slow, after some practice then he might be ready for a full on action packed anal assualt.

 

[sdevapur]

Anal virgin

In my experience.....take it slow and easy...give your partner time to adjust as you thrust in. Of course starting small, lots of lube and arousal help immensely. Maybe you could try butt plugs until you feel your partner is ready. Hope this helps

 

[throbbin bob]

Ok my fiance is willing to et me fuck him up the ass with a strap-on. The thing is he's an anal virgin and i have onlybeen with bi guys or guys who have had their asses fucked previously.

Other than starting small and LOTS of lube does anyone have any other advice?


thanks

my first anal experience was self induced.... if you can somehow get a finger inside him or better yet, convince him how good it feels & suggest he experiment with himself (lots of lube)... find an article in some girly magazine talking about how awesome men feel when they have their prostate gland stimulated.... that's a great way to open a guys eyes to the awesome sensation of anal! reality is it really does feel great & if a guy can see that by reading it in a magazine you buy, he might buy into it and get over his homo phobia feas and give it a go (either solo or with your help), once it's done with one finger, the rest is just a matter of time & great pleasure!