paulstories
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Sounds like it merits its own thread..i explain a little on my profile...it is very erotic to be auditorily heated up
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Sounds like it merits its own thread..i explain a little on my profile...it is very erotic to be auditorily heated up
Sounds like it merits its own thread..
I have been taken with strapons by several women and to my surprise found that massage therapist are the most open to strapon play. Also to my surprise these women were also open to femdom play because strapon play seemed to make them more aggressive. I have had the opportunity to date several massage therapist that were open to screwing me with a dildo. I feel that woman's lib has a long way to go and that women are still afraid to take their men with strapons. I dated a therapist for several years as her house boy and have had many memorable screwings with strapon sex inside her place. Getting bent over her table sideways on my belly was hot because she could adjust the table so she could stand and fuck at a comfortable level. By pushing her clit against the back of the dildo she could come this was and never stopped fucking me until she had an orgasm not caring if I came or not!
I'm trying to figure out if I should attempt to walk my wife down this road. It is something I fantasize about but am unsure of how to approach it or how she would react. I'm thinking maybe it would be easier to search outside the marriage and hook up with someone with the same desires?
Thoughts
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You will never know if you wife likes it, unless you talk to her. In some cases, people have told me their wife had the exact same fantasy!
The best thing you can do, I feel is talk to her about your desires and fantasies in a nonthreatening way. Tell her why you fantasize about it and what turns you on about it.
If you are not used to sharing and expressing your feelings to your wife, don't start out with strapon play, try just sharing feelings first. Then talk about sex, feelings and thoughts in the bedroom. Bring up the kinky stuff next like in the book "50 Shades of Grey" and eventually talk about strapon play.
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Is there strapon play in "50 Shades" ??
Did you ever use a strap-on?
Yes
Was ever one used on you?
No
How did it feel for you (active or passive part)?
Sense of power and control was great but no real sexual feeling for me
Would you do it again?
yes
OK so now I've answered those questions time to ask for a little bit of advice. First a little background. I've used a strap on on my BF before and he enjoyed it, we've also used a dildo and plug and fingers and he's enjoyed those as well. Whenever we talk about fanasties he frequently mentions the strap on, I've avoided using it again as I found it difficult to use. I'm a larger girl (no comments on this please I don't want the lectures/bitching etc I've heard it all before) anyway because of my size I found it difficult to use the strap on, my belly seemed to get in the way plus there is quite a height difference between me and himself so we struggle to line up on certain positions. The harness I have isn't brillant, we did struggle to find one that fitted me. The few times I've worn the strap on we end up with him riding me but I'd love to take control and have him beneath me whilst I fuck him. At the moment I usually end up not wearing the harness and just using the dildo on him.
Any experienced strap on users got any tips or advice?
From the wife of a man who had to do some serious talking to get her to attempt strap on play, I say have a fantasy exchange night. Start with the mild head for the wild, she may surprise you! I was very reluctant to start, and now it is one of our favorite scenes. I admit it took some getting used to, but it is a huge turn on!
I understand where you are coming from. That said you are on this site, you are likely quite open minded. My wife may surprise me or she could be quite judgemental. We really are on opposite ends of the libido and sexual inhibition spectrum. But I suppose you are right, she could surprise me.
I had a dream last night that my wife walked into the bedroom and told me she had a father's day gift for me. She bent over and I could see the balls from her brand new strap on. Then turned around and I saw a nice big strap on and a big smile on her face.
I've been horny all day thanks to this dream