Strap-on experiences

[cchheels]

I've definitely been pegged from behind (as well as missionary), and had her working a dildo in and out of my mouth with one hand and stroking my cock with the other... never exactly like the drawing though... I have to admit it's a sexy pic!!

I thought so too....

 

[billc393]

My wife use a strap on once on me I loved it. Getting drilled from behind, to me on top. It was a great experince. I guess I love it to much because now wife won't do me any more. Guess when it was her idea it was ok, but if I ask for it I'm gay.

That's a shame grizz... maybe you should let her *make* you take a good pegging!!

Seriously, her reaction isn't all that uncommon... to go from it's fun, to OMG maybe he's gay... it's really up to you to convince her that you're not looking for a 'cock'... but a dildo attached to *her*

Talk it out, she may just come around! I hope she does.

 

[bks8]

i'm looking forward to getting fucked tonight by my girl. i need it bad.

 

[M.o.d.]

My wife use a strap on once on me I loved it. Getting drilled from behind, to me on top. It was a great experince. I guess I love it to much because now wife won't do me any more. Guess when it was her idea it was ok, but if I ask for it I'm gay.

similar here. My girl bought the SO and treated me to it on my birthday and never again since.
Though she often takes the view of "been there done that" when it comes to anything out of the ordinary where sex is concerned.
It's more than a bit frustrating, especially when she says it's ok for me to go find another girl to play that way with. ... if only it where that easy

 

[billc393]

similar here. My girl bought the SO and treated me to it on my birthday and never again since.
Though she often takes the view of "been there done that" when it comes to anything out of the ordinary where sex is concerned.
It's more than a bit frustrating, especially when she says it's ok for me to go find another girl to play that way with. ... if only it where that easy

I doubt she'd be as calm if you actually *did* find another woman to have SO sex with... she may be looking for you to tell her *she* is the one you want to have SO sex with... not just anyone.

 

[Vacheron58]

Only strap on for me . . . . .

Hi fellows, sorry to hear that you guys have not been more successful with your wifes giving you strap on sex. One of the common excuses is that of the implication of gay sex. (No disrespect intended to gay or Lesbians by the following concept.) Well, allow me to offer an answer to that one. Gay sex is defined by "with whom you are having sex, not by HOW you have your sex". Since you are having sex with your wife and she is of a different sex than you, then that is not gay sex.
As far as any other objection, darn that one you are going to have to talk a lot with her. Buit allow me to offer some suggested arguments that has worked in the past. 1: I want to honor you by having you fuck me instead of me fucking you. I want to have an idea how it feels. I want to try and understand you better.
two : I want you also to feel "the power" behind who does what to whom. This one may be a sword of two edges. Be careful she does not want to take ALL the power away from you.
3: if you select the right strap on equipment, the one with double dildoes, one for you the other for her pussy, she will have as much good sex as you. There are some that are vibrators. By the time you cum she may be experiencing an orgasm of her own. On this situation you will see how much interest she puts in the sex which in turn will be a better sex for you.
Now, 1,2,and 3, you have to "sell those concepts" to your wife. Requires a lot of talk and a clear understanding of how far to "push it". Be careful, you do not want to upset your wife.
I have been having strap on sex with my wife for a long time. And my experience today is a long story of strapon sex. LOOOOOONG Story!!!

 

[paulthewetcd]

I'm long overdue for a good pegging!
Love reading this thread.
Paul

 

[Vacheron58]

Hey Paul,

You and I have traded info in the past. I was not around for a while but I am back. Good to know that you appear to be well. I am OK . . . . . having my wife in my "backdoor"

 

[billc393]

Vacheron - You're 100% spot on with your post. It takes communication, and some experimentation to make sure she enjoys it as much as we do... in my experience, once a woman has the experience, and it's a good experience, she'll want to do it again, and again!!

My wife and I enjoyed many, many, days (and nights) of strapon sex before she became ill, if that hadn't ahppened I have no doubt I'd be getting pegged right now instead of typing here!

 

[Vacheron58]

Question :

Hey kids, I've read about another thread of strap ons.
Where??? within literotica??? OR another site????
Anybody knows of another site similar to literotica???? Because I know there are many sites that carry the strap on pleasures "more vivid". I have seen those. But what about similar to literotica???
Thanks bovs and girls

 

[pgsmith68]

Hey kids, I've read about another thread of strap ons.
Where??? within literotica??? OR another site????
Anybody knows of another site similar to literotica???? Because I know there are many sites that carry the strap on pleasures "more vivid". I have seen those. But what about similar to literotica???
Thanks bovs and girls

Search the boards for "strapon" or search "Strap-on Sex - F to M" in the playground

 

[sterculius]

Hi fellows, sorry to hear that you guys have not been more successful with your wifes giving you strap on sex. One of the common excuses is that of the implication of gay sex. (No disrespect intended to gay or Lesbians by the following concept.) Well, allow me to offer an answer to that one. Gay sex is defined by "with whom you are having sex, not by HOW you have your sex". Since you are having sex with your wife and she is of a different sex than you, then that is not gay sex.
As far as any other objection, darn that one you are going to have to talk a lot with her. Buit allow me to offer some suggested arguments that has worked in the past. 1: I want to honor you by having you fuck me instead of me fucking you. I want to have an idea how it feels. I want to try and understand you better.
two : I want you also to feel "the power" behind who does what to whom. This one may be a sword of two edges. Be careful she does not want to take ALL the power away from you.
3: if you select the right strap on equipment, the one with double dildoes, one for you the other for her pussy, she will have as much good sex as you. There are some that are vibrators. By the time you cum she may be experiencing an orgasm of her own. On this situation you will see how much interest she puts in the sex which in turn will be a better sex for you.
Now, 1,2,and 3, you have to "sell those concepts" to your wife. Requires a lot of talk and a clear understanding of how far to "push it". Be careful, you do not want to upset your wife.
I have been having strap on sex with my wife for a long time. And my experience today is a long story of strapon sex. LOOOOOONG Story!!!

Which dildos have you found to afford your wife the most pleasure? I like to be fucked by a large dildo. are there any thick dildos which also provide stimulation for the wearer? Vibration?

 

[Vacheron58]

Wide variety of dildoes.

Sterculious, the choices of dildoes or vibrators is huge. You really have to let your fingers do the walking and make sure you involve your wife in this search. You have to understand that your choices can be used with a strap on harness. Some places have the kit of harness, dildoes and vibrators. They fit and they work. But again, check with the wife. We bought two. ONe for my Gabby and another for my Nancy. They selected them. I think that we checked like three internet places and one actual porn shop. We ended buying from one internet site. That was about a year ago. We also selected like a couple of manual dildos for my "solo" moments. Eventually our collection has grown to include butt plugs and a butt plug with a horse's tail . . . . . another story.

 

[Vacheron58]

Thanks

PGSmith thanks.

 

[heyrocky]

sit down on it

I have been working on my wife for over 1 year to get her to try a strap on, on me. She has a desire to be tied down and pleasured, while I have a desire to put on a garter belt and fishnets and let her pound me dogstyle. After trying to talk to her for over a year I decided one night while I had her tied up that I would write a story about it. I wrote a story called the wild dominatrix in which I actually became a cross dressing dominatrix. I read it to my wife who didn't seem totally turned off to it. My plan was in action. Then I came up with the idea that wednesday was alway called hump day so I would put my plan into action on hump night. I tied her to the bed, arms to the side and legs to a couple of hooks I have on the ceiling for just this purpose. After I had pleased her for almost an hour by simultaneously eating and then pounding her pussy I asked her if she would allow me to hump her from on top. She agreed and made me the happiest man in fishnets. I untied her legs slipped a clit vibrator on her for her pleasure and then slid the strap on harness on over the clit vibrator. Then I lubed up the strap on slid it into my backside, grabbed the ropes that were hanging from the ceiling and started to ride her strap on like there was no tomarrow. After I had worked up a good sweat and was turned on to the point of loosing control I put some lube on her stomach and untied her hands. She grabbed my cock and pumped me as I pumped up and down on her. It was one of the most fullfilling nights of sex for both of us. Now every wednesday is hump night. We try different positions every week and I still can't beleive how wonderful it feels. She is getting to the point where she likes it almost better than I do. A word of encouragement to others. Don't give up, don't ever give up. And when you finally get on top and start to pump up and down on her big strap on don't stop, don't ever stop. I hope your woman is as understanding as mine and will fulfill this fantasy for you over and over.

 

[paulthewetcd]

Lots of good wisdom from nice folks!
Paul

 

[Vacheron58]

The more the . . . . . .

As I said before I was out for a while. Since me coming back to read I have found that "our" sexual practice is getting more and more "subscribers". That is really encouraging to those still on the fence. Jump in and "let the good times roll". Congratulations to all that are getting fucked by wifes or GF . . . . . .

 

[jerrammed]

My wife started out really shy about it but after a couple of times she really
got into it. Now I have hold her back she is always buying larger ones to
fuck me with. She gets so turned on buy seeing how far I can take it.

 

[darkking]

many times and i loved it more than some men might as I am bisexual but i then sucked it dry as an incredibly rare admission of submissiveness as I am also a primary dominant

 

[Samuelx]

My current girlfriend, a 5'10 Black BBW, isn't into strap-on play, though she doesn't mind me fucking her in the ass. She is okay with having a bisexual black male as boyfriend, but doesn't like other women around me. I like her but the restrictions bug me. It isn't going to last.

 

[pussy_liquor]

Wife just rode me hard just the other night! Oh man was awesome. Last couple of times though right after she gets done my cock has gone soft for a couple minutes. Whats up with that? I'm aroused as hell but lose erection. To say the least she was alittle disappointed.

 

[regularguynsac]

I most certainly have, had one used on me, and I have to say I loved it. I long to have it done to me again. There is just something about it that is hard to explain.

Please feel free to share your experiences here.

Did you ever use a strap-on?

Was ever one used on you?

How did it feel for you (active or passive part)?

Would you do it again?



Has one of you ladies ever had the pleasure to be fucked thorougly with a strap-on by another woman?

 

[Socal22]

Bump it.

 

[Shalrath]

Has to be done really. The lady friend seems rather keen, good girl

 

[johnnymc]

Want to interest wife into trying strap on

I am trying to figure out a way to let my wife know that I am wanting her to bend me over. She works out and has a nice firm body and the thought of her taking me is a real turn on. I just am not sure how to approach her.