Strap-on experiences

[Passion2BFree]

A Need To Express

Not sure this is the precise place to post this but I have seen the thread for awhile and just had to share. Maybe it is some sort of catharsis for me. There's no other outlet for me to express this desire.

I have such a desire for an experienced woman to spread my legs and slide her strap-on inside me. A woman who wants to see me enjoy it and one who will enjoy the riding just as much. I don't want to be dominated in the true sense of the word but pounded by her as both of us wonder who will reach first. And when we do cum, the experience would continue, maybe in different positions and maybe with some well coordinated complimentary techniques. We would both enjoy the fruit of our effort--connecting so much more deeply than "straight"/vaginal sex.

The only thing more pleasurable than this would be to do it again.

 

[venus_can]

Not sure this is the precise place to post this but I have seen the thread for awhile and just had to share. Maybe it is some sort of catharsis for me. There's no other outlet for me to express this desire.

I have such a desire for an experienced woman to spread my legs and slide her strap-on inside me. A woman who wants to see me enjoy it and one who will enjoy the riding just as much. I don't want to be dominated in the true sense of the word but pounded by her as both of us wonder who will reach first. And when we do cum, the experience would continue, maybe in different positions and maybe with some well coordinated complimentary techniques. We would both enjoy the fruit of our effort--connecting so much more deeply than "straight"/vaginal sex.

The only thing more pleasurable than this would be to do it again.

Well said Passion2BFree (like your handle btw)... perhaps you might be able find someone in your area to fulfill your desire from the Lit Personals?

Love a man who craves to be taken by a woman...

Venus

 

[EnglishGuy1982]

Any UK ladies into this??

 

[Passion2BFree]

Thanks Venus--A man can dream! Absolutely love your AV!!

 

[venus_can]

Thanks Venus--A man can dream! Absolutely love your AV!!

You are welcum Passion..
and thanks for your compliments..

Venus

 

[Dreamliner]

I love anal play and when a woman slides her finger into me. I am not too sure if I would take the next step with a strap-on. In saying that I see the pleasure that many women have with anal sex soooo.........

A few years back a partner was very good with prostrate stimulation...now that was mind-blowing! the constant cum from my cock was a sight to see.

 

[venus_can]

I love anal play and when a woman slides her finger into me. I am not too sure if I would take the next step with a strap-on. In saying that I see the pleasure that many women have with anal sex soooo.........

A few years back a partner was very good with prostrate stimulation...now that was mind-blowing! the constant cum from my cock was a sight to see.

Dreamliner, you see the pleasure women derive from anal penetration and you enjoy anal stimulation with fingers...
If done right, with a woman using a strap-on on your anus, both partners will enjoy the experience.

Venus

 

[Dreamliner]

Dreamliner, you see the pleasure women derive from anal penetration and you enjoy anal stimulation with fingers...
If done right, with a woman using a strap-on on your anus, both partners will enjoy the experience.

Venus

I suspect you are correct Venus. To date I have not been with a woman that has asked to take that next step. Most have been at the least slightly submissive. Even strong willed partners have really enjoyed being dominated I have found. Always though the relationships are based on equality and trust.

I did consider working through lit here and looking for a suitable partner...opening-up and talking it through, establishing the confidence in one-another.

As I travel extensively this relationship can be geogrphically a wide area.

Hmmm, now this has me thinking again.

 

[venus_can]

I suspect you are correct Venus. To date I have not been with a woman that has asked to take that next step. Most have been at the least slightly submissive. Even strong willed partners have really enjoyed being dominated I have found. Always though the relationships are based on equality and trust.

I did consider working through lit here and looking for a suitable partner...opening-up and talking it through, establishing the confidence in one-another.

As I travel extensively this relationship can be geogrphically a wide area.

Hmmm, now this has me thinking again.

Sounds like you are willing to take the next step, but haven't found a suitable partner. Perhaps Lit personals may be another forum you may want to try?
Good luck in finding someone you can trust and hope that you are delighted by the experience
Venus

 

[Dreamliner]

Sounds like you are willing to take the next step, but haven't found a suitable partner. Perhaps Lit personals may be another forum you may want to try?
Good luck in finding someone you can trust and hope that you are delighted by the experience
Venus

Something to look forward to.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

This thread is great

 

[rondogg9]

hot

that was a hot story, i would love to do that i wish my better half would go to a strip club with me, i would have loved for that to be me

 

[hands_n_knees]

I think that the best use of the strap-on is as a tool for subverting macho-sex culture. It's a pretty rotten culture, so it needs to be subverted at every opportunity. One just has to watch five minutes of heterosexual porn to see the degrading of a woman. That kind of bias in sex isn't sustainable; there needs to be a leveller, and I think the strap on does it best. All the traces of feeling dominant and predatory are gracefully erased as you feel it slide inside of you. Having one's mind opened to brilliant (and even loving) sex that doesn't involve control is an experience I recommend to every man.

 

[venus_can]

Interesting Point

I think that the best use of the strap-on is as a tool for subverting macho-sex culture. It's a pretty rotten culture, so it needs to be subverted at every opportunity. One just has to watch five minutes of heterosexual porn to see the degrading of a woman. That kind of bias in sex isn't sustainable; there needs to be a leveller, and I think the strap on does it best. All the traces of feeling dominant and predatory are gracefully erased as you feel it slide inside of you. Having one's mind opened to brilliant (and even loving) sex that doesn't involve control is an experience I recommend to every man.

Very interesting point hnk.
I cant speak from a man's perspective, but in my experience on using a strap-on on my male lovers, I have always noted that it gives me a sense of "empowerment"...

Welcome to the Lit

Venus

 

[wouldloveto]

I do not pretend to comment on gender roles, degradation of porn or any of that. I just know that I have a desire to be taken by a woman with a strap-on. I just know that previous lovers really liked anal sex, and I really enjoy anal play, so I want to 'go all the way' and experience what they do.

 

[venus_can]

I do not pretend to comment on gender roles, degradation of porn or any of that. I just know that I have a desire to be taken by a woman with a strap-on. I just know that previous lovers really liked anal sex, and I really enjoy anal play, so I want to 'go all the way' and experience what they do.

Have you tried any toys? butt plugs and such? as a start?

 

[wouldloveto]

Have you tried any toys? butt plugs and such? as a start?

Oh yes, beads, butt plug, dildo... both alone and with gf. It is not the same, or I assume it is not.

 

[venus_can]

Oh yes, beads, butt plug, dildo... both alone and with gf. It is not the same, or I assume it is not.

Cool.. hope your gf and you have fun together

 

[wouldloveto]

Cool.. hope your gf and you have fun together

um... she left me, am seeking someone that understands this scene like she did.

 

[hands_n_knees]

Very interesting point hnk.
I cant speak from a man's perspective, but in my experience on using a strap-on on my male lovers, I have always noted that it gives me a sense of "empowerment"...

Welcome to the Lit

Venus

Thank you!

Well, I can speak from a man's perspective, and it gives me a sense of relief. It's not about being punished or brutalised (not saying that's not fun it's just not the best use of the strap-on), it's about getting underneath all artificial macho/dominant culture and back to something approaching pure sex. I don't see why a man has to be the one in control during lovemaking (and I do mean lovemaking here); if the shapes of our bodies make it more convenient for men to be dominant, just give a woman the same shape. Men usually talk about what an exciting sight it is to see a woman looking helpless on her knees; the truth is that it's just as exciting to be in that position yourself and to cause all those feelings in your lover. Male dominance has its place in sex, but only alongside equal periods of female dominance; it's not natural psychology that men should be in control any more than women - any man who's had his female lover's cock pushing into his throat knows this, and it seems that there's plenty of women here who discovered that, after strapping it on, they can totally relate to most men's love of doggie-style.

All my humble opinion, of course. I may be the warped one. One never knows.

 

[uptoplay2]

here here! I second this!! Switches unite!

I'm so glad to hear this from a woman. I'd also love to know that just the "power" of taking the man isn't enough, but using him for HER pleasure... and his of course.. is a great change of pace.

Thank you!

Well, I can speak from a man's perspective, and it gives me a sense of relief. It's not about being punished or brutalised (not saying that's not fun it's just not the best use of the strap-on), it's about getting underneath all artificial macho/dominant culture and back to something approaching pure sex. I don't see why a man has to be the one in control during lovemaking (and I do mean lovemaking here); if the shapes of our bodies make it more convenient for men to be dominant, just give a woman the same shape. Men usually talk about what an exciting sight it is to see a woman looking helpless on her knees; the truth is that it's just as exciting to be in that position yourself and to cause all those feelings in your lover. Male dominance has its place in sex, but only alongside equal periods of female dominance; it's not natural psychology that men should be in control any more than women - any man who's had his female lover's cock pushing into his throat knows this, and it seems that there's plenty of women here who discovered that, after strapping it on, they can totally relate to most men's love of doggie-style.

All my humble opinion, of course. I may be the warped one. One never knows.

 

[venus_can]

Thank you!

Well, I can speak from a man's perspective, and it gives me a sense of relief. It's not about being punished or brutalised (not saying that's not fun it's just not the best use of the strap-on), it's about getting underneath all artificial macho/dominant culture and back to something approaching pure sex. I don't see why a man has to be the one in control during lovemaking (and I do mean lovemaking here); if the shapes of our bodies make it more convenient for men to be dominant, just give a woman the same shape. Men usually talk about what an exciting sight it is to see a woman looking helpless on her knees; the truth is that it's just as exciting to be in that position yourself and to cause all those feelings in your lover. Male dominance has its place in sex, but only alongside equal periods of female dominance; it's not natural psychology that men should be in control any more than women - any man who's had his female lover's cock pushing into his throat knows this, and it seems that there's plenty of women here who discovered that, after strapping it on, they can totally relate to most men's love of doggie-style.

All my humble opinion, of course. I may be the warped one. One never knows.

Well said hnk. Hope more men take this to heart. I realise getting fucked by a strapon may not be every male's cup of tea, but at least treating the partner as equal would certainly go a long way towards getting rid of the macho/domination culture.
Venus

 

[venus_can]

I'm so glad to hear this from a woman. I'd also love to know that just the "power" of taking the man isn't enough, but using him for HER pleasure... and his of course.. is a great change of pace.

Mutual pleasure is definitely the goal. With my partner(s) we even use role reversal - e.g., I drive, I pick the restaurant or he prepares the meal, I hold the doors open, and such...

Venus

 

[caprisunhigh]

Sounds like something I would like to try.

 

[venus_can]

Sounds like something I would like to try.

Whats that?