Strap-on experiences

[Rubnesque]

Please feel free to share your experiences here.

Did you ever use a strap-on?

Was ever one used on you?

How did it feel for you (active or passive part)?

Would you do it again?



Has one of you ladies ever had the pleasure to be fucked thorougly with a strap-on by another woman?

To answer your questions in order:

1. It's actually funny. The only time I've used a strap on was for my friend's guy. They were very adventuresome and wanted to try new experiences, but didn't trust just anyone. I was very honored to be chosen to wear the strap on ... and HOLY HELL. I now have a completely different perspective about anal sex when viewing it from men's pov. I used muscles I never even knew I had ... to go so achingly slow was torture as I just wanted to pound it in, but I knew he would be hurt. Once we got the rhythm going, it was intense for both of us (it was a duel dildo so I was getting my clit rubbed with every thrust).

2. None of my lovers have ever used a strap-on. I've thought about it, but ultimately it just never panned out.

3. Watching him come just because of my *cock* was very empowering and extremely arousing. It was because of that incident I decided to try anal sex for myself.

4. Using a strap on was incredibly fun and I'm glad I tried it. As to ever using it again, I won't rule it out, but it's not on my horizon any time soon. As for someone using it on me, well, again I won't say never.

5. I've been thoroughly fucked by a woman, but it wasn't with a strap on

 

[eroticspank]

To answer your questions in order:

1. It's actually funny. The only time I've used a strap on was for my friend's guy. They were very adventuresome and wanted to try new experiences, but didn't trust just anyone. I was very honored to be chosen to wear the strap on ... and HOLY HELL. I now have a completely different perspective about anal sex when viewing it from men's pov. I used muscles I never even knew I had ... to go so achingly slow was torture as I just wanted to pound it in, but I knew he would be hurt. Once we got the rhythm going, it was intense for both of us (it was a duel dildo so I was getting my clit rubbed with every thrust).

2. None of my lovers have ever used a strap-on. I've thought about it, but ultimately it just never panned out.

3. Watching him come just because of my *cock* was very empowering and extremely arousing. It was because of that incident I decided to try anal sex for myself.

4. Using a strap on was incredibly fun and I'm glad I tried it. As to ever using it again, I won't rule it out, but it's not on my horizon any time soon. As for someone using it on me, well, again I won't say never.

5. I've been thoroughly fucked by a woman, but it wasn't with a strap on

Very nice post Rubnesque! Thanks for sharing your thougts on this!! very arrousing! Only if you feel comfortable about it, please tell us more about 3 above or any other experiences you may have had.

ES

 

[Kierae]

Is that the "Ultimate four strap dildo harness"? I'm not sure I can put a direct link on this post, I think it might be not allowed, but it's product number J239 ? $77.00 ?

Thanks....

That would be the one tiez - its great because the O rings switch out and the strap set up gives more stability to the dildo. It doesn't allow for the use of the nexus/feeldoe or any other double dildo setup but that holds no interest or use for me anyways.

~kierae

 

[interrobang]

Or maybe sooner, not later

Last night I mentioned to my GF that strap-on play is something I'd consider. I figure if I don't mention it, it's really not going to happen. She was noncommittal.

 

[FurryFury]

Last night I mentioned to my GF that strap-on play is something I'd consider. I figure if I don't mention it, it's really not going to happen. She was noncommittal.

I think it's good to put it out there. You never talk about it and it's never going to happen.

Some people need some time to think about new ideas too. Could be she is simply taking that time.

Fury

 

[DngrDave]

Lots of reading, first time posting

Did you ever use a strap-on?
- Nope, toys while licking sure, but what would the point be?

Was ever one used on you?
- Yes, lots of times.

How did it feel for you (active or passive part)?
- Love it, obsessed you might say. I'm not very-sub, and not attracted to men at all, but there's just something about a woman with a huge strap-on looking at me and saying "Relax darlin', the easy way or the hard way, you're going to take this monster."

Would you do it again?
- Undoubtedly

Has one of you ladies ever had the pleasure to be fucked thorougly with a strap-on by another woman?
- N/A

 

[uptoplay2]

all the begging.... yes...

but... if you were feeling something from all of it... having to wait for YOUR orgasm.. before being allowed mine (or having yours trigger mine)... bliss..

a while i sauntered to the adult toy store and bought "us" a strap on.....we've been talking about it, godknows i've been fantasizing about it, so toy comes home, i try it on solo a couple times, pop it into the drawer and it stayed there for a bit. it took us a bit to graduate from talking about it to actually DOING it....well one nite i've got him on his back, heels up in the air, eating his ass with a passion that still scares me and he says, almost begging, can we try the strap on?

now i of course had envisioned this whole scene, ya know? i'd picked out the appropriate sexy red lacy nightie, and hoped to have time to "transform" - instead there i am in a well worn oversized t-shirt, hopping on one foot trying to get the blasted harness on, telling the ole man to keep the thought, i can hear him yanking on his cock like crazy, fingering his ass.......well so much for a dramatic entrance!

it never occurred to me what an art form fucking someone is...........one moment here to give props to men with cocks and the talented ways they use them.......took awhile to get the aim right, and for him to relax and open up a bit......but i gotta tell ya, once "my" cock was inserted in his ass, and my hips got the rythym.......watching that cock slide in and out of his ass, watching him wiggling his ass closer, pulling his hole open, hearing him say DEEPER baby DEEPER........what a mind blowing experience!!!!

we did pretty darn well for our first endeavor......when he started to cum, he aimed his cock up at me, i was able to bend down and suck his lovely load, the rest shot all over his chest. without any clit stimulation or dildos, i almost came too!

from the woman's perspective, its a huge mental shift.....to be THE PENETRATOR, to possess THE COCK, to give or withhold, to pleasure or tease, to hear them beg, whimper, watch them quiver with lust, to witness them opening themselves as fully as possible to take you..........

my bf was finally able to admit he does really kinda like being submissive....likes the dirty talk.......likes being the bitch.........sometimes. he's very straight......but seems to be bending a bit, hehehe. well next time that little bitch is gonna be on his knees (buns up kneeling) and i'll make him beg me: please baby, i need your cock. please fuck my ass with your cock.

ooooo, shudder..........

 

[grayoldman]

Thanks For A Great Thread.have No Experance Your Stories Are A Good Lesson In Life AND LOVE AGAIN THANKS

 

[Stiffy Says...]

That's always been part of my fantasy with the strap on. Being forced to give her a blowjob.

I've had a curiousity about that too...but I think if she had it inside her first, it would make me more comfortable actually doing it...the taste of her on it would make it more pleasureable I would think...who knows...plus, I'm not big on forcing...just strong hinting LOL

I would only consider this on one that is new and scrubbed thoroughly too...

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Please feel free to share your experiences here.

Did you ever use a strap-on?

Was ever one used on you?

How did it feel for you (active or passive part)?

Would you do it again?



Has one of you ladies ever had the pleasure to be fucked thorougly with a strap-on by another woman?

1. yes with my wife and it was great she fucked me with it.

2. as mentioned above yet. surprisingly she went 8 inches balls deep the first time we tried it. felt sooooo good
3.amazing. it was very big and not he most comfortable at first but the mental aspect was mind blowing.
4. absolutely.

 

[tiez]

Recent fun

Recently I was away for a weekend with a new friend.

On Saturday evening, after a particularly lengthy day and a previous night of playing, she had me up in the hotel room and ordered me to insert my plug into my bottom. I had some trouble with it and she insisted, shoving the plug into my ass while I was on my hands and knees on the bed. She then had me strap the harness onto myself, had me fuck her with it until she came. I took her missionary and then she had me turn over to ride me. After she came hard all over the dildo, she had me take it off and had me suck it. She beat me with it for a while, then she strapped it on, slid the plug out of my ass and replaced it with the dildo. She took me kneeling, then lying flat on the bed, as I pulled away from her and landed flat. She pinned me down and shoved her strap-on cock into me and fucked me until I was sobbing.

It was quite the experience and it was a very intense part of a very long night.

She recognized that I had reached my limit as far as time to fuck, so she ended up showing some mercy, but later finger fucked me while making me cum, always with the threat of fucking me again with the same big cock buried deep in my ass, regardless of whether I could take anymore.

She's becoming a wonderfully delightful bitch and we're having a great time together.

Hope someone else perhaps enjoys hearing my story on this.

 

[venus_can]

Recently I was away for a weekend with a new friend.

On Saturday evening, after a particularly lengthy day and a previous night of playing, she had me up in the hotel room and ordered me to insert my plug into my bottom. I had some trouble with it and she insisted, shoving the plug into my ass while I was on my hands and knees on the bed. She then had me strap the harness onto myself, had me fuck her with it until she came. I took her missionary and then she had me turn over to ride me. After she came hard all over the dildo, she had me take it off and had me suck it. She beat me with it for a while, then she strapped it on, slid the plug out of my ass and replaced it with the dildo. She took me kneeling, then lying flat on the bed, as I pulled away from her and landed flat. She pinned me down and shoved her strap-on cock into me and fucked me until I was sobbing.

It was quite the experience and it was a very intense part of a very long night.

She recognized that I had reached my limit as far as time to fuck, so she ended up showing some mercy, but later finger fucked me while making me cum, always with the threat of fucking me again with the same big cock buried deep in my ass, regardless of whether I could take anymore.

She's becoming a wonderfully delightful bitch and we're having a great time together.

Hope someone else perhaps enjoys hearing my story on this.

OOoohhh... yum... I am all ears
I would love to hear more of your story on this...

Venus

 

[knkycva]

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[Lydia_Trent]

That would be the one tiez - its great because the O rings switch out and the strap set up gives more stability to the dildo. It doesn't allow for the use of the nexus/feeldoe or any other double dildo setup but that holds no interest or use for me anyways.

~kierae

oooo, thanks I was checking this one out thinking it really looked versatile and stable.

 

[Davor]

I've never done it, but it is a huge fantasy of mine.

I have talked to my wife about it, and she's up for it (so to speak ), but somehow we've never bought one!

Could any of the more experienced guys and gals out there make any suggestions of what a good strap on for beginners is...?

 

[uptoplay2]

dp for her? with guy using a second toy?

I haven't ever used a strap-on - that is, I'm a guy, so I've never strapped on a dildo. However, on our to-do list is to work out a harness that will allow me to strap one on so that I can double-penetrate her. Right now that's somewhat tricky hand-holding the dildo in the hole I'm not in, but she absolutely loves having both holes filled at the same time. She's very uncomfortable about having another guy though, so a harness for me seems in order.
.........
I enjoy it immensely. It took a bit of time for me to adjust to size and to learn to relax, but I absolutely love being penetrated - the feeling is amazing and I cum buckets from getting my prostate poked.
.

Look for the next model of the feeldoe.... should be longer and make the dp possible. You hold the bulb anally.... she gets the long end.. and you. I don't think you'd be able to hold onto the nexus that way. There are those who've made this work with the current models, but it's a bit awkward. Another inch or so.. would be better for her.

 

[jimwil72]

Ex using on me

My exwife use to use a strapon on me. I was reluctant at first but she started with her fingers then a dildo then her strapon. I loved it and really miss it

 

[tiez]

OOoohhh... yum... I am all ears
I would love to hear more of your story on this...

Venus

What more would you want to hear?

 

[venus_can]

What more would you want to hear?

A lot more detail... what were you wearing, what was she wearing...
your feelings, were you scared? did you just submit, or did she force you (perhaps just a role play)
What was the preparation for the whole episode...

Any pics from the episode or do you plan to take any...
Venus

 

[Ronnie_4]

Strapon, Sucking and Fucking

Posted by Selmer, I always see the post about using a strap on on a man, but do any of you make him submit to it by having him suck it also?

Hi,
Mistress and I have not actually used a strapon yet. So far we have been using very realistic soft flexible vibrators. She has hers and I have mine. Normally this is how we use them. I will perform oral sex on her for a while and then I get her vibrator for her. I will lube it with my mouth, making it as wet as possible. Then I will insert it for her, and start fucking her with it. At some point she will take over and continue until she is well satisfied. I am always close to her, watching her and she fucks herself. I am usually licking her clit, kissing her inner thighs etc. When she is satisfied, Mistress will withdraw her vibrator and push it into my waiting open mouth. I close my eyes and eagerly suck her cock. Afterward Mistress will use a different vibrator on me. My very own, used only on my ass. Both of us find this type of lovemaking very exciting. I can tell by her emotions that she really enjoys doing this, almost as much as I do.
Ronnie

PS. If you get a chance try reading my story: A PantieSlave’s Fantasy

 

[uptoplay2]

suck afterward... ummmm... no

there are limits... I would not expect a lady to suck me after anal... so.... there's the line. I would also not be trying move from anal to vaginal... not worth the risks for her!

Hi,
Mistress and I have not actually used a strapon yet. So far we have been using very realistic soft flexible vibrators. She has hers and I have mine. Normally this is how we use them. I will perform oral sex on her for a while and then I get her vibrator for her. I will lube it with my mouth, making it as wet as possible. Then I will insert it for her, and start fucking her with it. At some point she will take over and continue until she is well satisfied. I am always close to her, watching her and she fucks herself. I am usually licking her clit, kissing her inner thighs etc. When she is satisfied, Mistress will withdraw her vibrator and push it into my waiting open mouth. I close my eyes and eagerly suck her cock. Afterward Mistress will use a different vibrator on me. My very own, used only on my ass. Both of us find this type of lovemaking very exciting. I can tell by her emotions that she really enjoys doing this, almost as much as I do.
Ronnie

PS. If you get a chance try reading my story: A PantieSlave’s Fantasy

 

[venus_can]

there are limits... I would not expect a lady to suck me after anal... so.... there's the line. I would also not be trying move from anal to vaginal... not worth the risks for her!

Well said uptoplay2...
Its would be lethal to move from anal to vaginal without cleaning the implement.

 

[juicybicpl]

new feeldoe

I haven't ever used a strap-on - that is, I'm a guy, so I've never strapped on a dildo. However, on our to-do list is to work out a harness that will allow me to strap one on so that I can double-penetrate her. Right now that's somewhat tricky hand-holding the dildo in the hole I'm not in, but she absolutely loves having both holes filled at the same time. She's very uncomfortable about having another guy though, so a harness for me seems in order.

We do own a nice harness and Nexus - and she has strapped it on plenty and done me. Although I'm the 'top' for our bondage games, she does enjoy the power trip of switching roles and I like getting it.

I enjoy it immensely. It took a bit of time for me to adjust to size and to learn to relax, but I absolutely love being penetrated - the feeling is amazing and I cum buckets from getting my prostate poked.

I look forward to doing it again - it's not a constant part of our sex play, but at least a few times a month. I also regularly wear a nice sized butt plug - I like the sensation and it helps keep me 'in shape' for taking all 8" of the nexus easily; she can pound away with abandon, in a way that gives her enough stimulation to cum as well. I also find the sensation of the plug in my ass when she's riding on top of my cock is fabulous - it's like being in a sandwich. Really, the whole anal-receptive experience has opened a lot of doors for me. She finds male-male action extremely arousing and we're looking for a guy to play with; I'm looking forward to getting fucked by a 'real penis' although I believe the Nexus is a bit larger than the average guy.

We also enjoy strap on play, with her playing a mild dom and me as her bitch. we have a number of dildos, from "regular" to LARGE. She can be quite aggressive even with the biggest dildo, and I am always begging for more. After reading this thread, I just ordered a feeldoe last night. We're both excited to give it a try. I can't wait to see her guiding it toward my mouth before she has me bend over and accept her new toy.

 

[rbijon]

Hi,
Mistress and I have not actually used a strapon yet. So far we have been using very realistic soft flexible vibrators. She has hers and I have mine. Normally this is how we use them. I will perform oral sex on her for a while and then I get her vibrator for her. I will lube it with my mouth, making it as wet as possible. Then I will insert it for her, and start fucking her with it. At some point she will take over and continue until she is well satisfied. I am always close to her, watching her and she fucks herself. I am usually licking her clit, kissing her inner thighs etc. When she is satisfied, Mistress will withdraw her vibrator and push it into my waiting open mouth. I close my eyes and eagerly suck her cock. Afterward Mistress will use a different vibrator on me. My very own, used only on my ass. Both of us find this type of lovemaking very exciting. I can tell by her emotions that she really enjoys doing this, almost as much as I do.
Ronnie

PS. If you get a chance try reading my story: A PantieSlave’s Fantasy

I just read your story....I am a pantyslave too!

 

[uptoplay2]

Hopefully you read everything about the feeldoe

We also enjoy strap on play, with her playing a mild dom and me as her bitch. we have a number of dildos, from "regular" to LARGE. She can be quite aggressive even with the biggest dildo, and I am always begging for more. After reading this thread, I just ordered a feeldoe last night. We're both excited to give it a try. I can't wait to see her guiding it toward my mouth before she has me bend over and accept her new toy.

She might find she wants a little "help" to keep the feeldoe in... I'm told that with lots of use she'll get the hang of it.

Good Luck. Hope it all goes well.