Strap-on experiences

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

LOL, I know all about that. A lock box, a very high shelf, and the need for a step stool is how I finally kept my little ones out of my toys.

Grrr, I swear they saw it as a challenge to get at the stuff!

Though I never thought to hide them in the car. If they manage to find them again, and steal my key (which will never happen), I might try it!

Actually, hmm, that's given me a delightfully wicked idea. I'll have to have my favorite toy the next time the DH and I are out alone for an evening. Oh, I'm getting chills just thinking about playing with myself while he drives along.

Best make sure we are on back roads though, ROFL, wouldn't want to cause a traffic accident.

 

[AHHSBITCH]

mistress

I have to say this is one of the greatest threads i have been to on this topic, mistress emma, you are a genius in the field of erotic role reversal.
Having said that, I want to brag on my recent foward stride in the bedrooom with my SO......this weekend she "entered" me for the first time. Now she knows that im into some quite "odd" things in comparison to what she is used to, but she is warming up very nicely, and seeing you say things like its takes time and don rush...etc....gets me excited and make me feel as though im not being a wuss about it.....
My last mistress was very into the role reversal and she turned me into the woman quite frequently. however after we parted ways (though still friends) i havent been able to find anyone since.....thats why ive been lurking on the pages of lit. lol, tryin to find help and outlets for my "secrets"
well sunday evening. My new (and greatly loved) girlfriend, finally took my ass, with her finger....shes been slowly toying with it and showing facination for a couple weeks now (i think its partially becuase ive been playing with hers so much while going down on her and what not) and the more she positions herself around my arse, the more ive made sure to let her know i enjoy it....so finally when she was playing around it and rubbing my prostate (from the outside) she seemed very excited at how excited i was....then moaned, just stick it in...grab the lube and stick it in.........she made no hesitation to do so, i told her how vulnerable i felt and how i loved the feeling of her being in control. she really liked that.
Now of course my ultimate fantasy is to have her take me with a strapon and truly make me her bitch and have me submit. But if anyone has been following my post on here and others, youll know that im happy with everylittle bit i get, and its always getting better!!!
Sorry, this post was so long, but you compelled me to give you an update on my situation, it sounds like many many female could benifit from a day in your shadow.....

 

[AHHSBITCH]

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hehe, and i just found out new members have to have 100 posts or more to get an avatar...looks like i better get to work....bump.

 

[Temptress_lee]

LOL, I know all about that. A lock box, a very high shelf, and the need for a step stool is how I finally kept my little ones out of my toys.

Grrr, I swear they saw it as a challenge to get at the stuff!

Though I never thought to hide them in the car. If they manage to find them again, and steal my key (which will never happen), I might try it!

Actually, hmm, that's given me a delightfully wicked idea. I'll have to have my favorite toy the next time the DH and I are out alone for an evening. Oh, I'm getting chills just thinking about playing with myself while he drives along.

Best make sure we are on back roads though, ROFL, wouldn't want to cause a traffic accident.

Its kindof different when the kids start to get a little older. But them being only three, and four years old. I guess it doesn't become much of a problem until later on. I'm thinking of getting him to buy a paddle too. That way every time he whines about the feeling I can smack him with it and say something cruel like, "Relax or you'll get another one!" If i'm going to be acting out one of my biggest fantasys I want it to be fun. It's not every day that a man will let you take them up the ass with a strap-on.

 

[IHaveControl]

Same Question, Different Thread

I asked on the related Playground thread why there are so few women posting about this. I would think that there would be far more women interested than are speaking up here. Those that do so obviously enjoy themselves, so why aren't there more participating in these threads?

I would have expected that there would be more eager women looking for willing men than the opposite.

Enough people are buying the necessary equipment to make it profitable, so where are they all?

The half-a-dozen or so women discussing it here can't be keeping those manufacturers and shops in operation alone.

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

If i'm going to be acting out one of my biggest fantasys I want it to be fun.

AMEN and ATTA GIRL! That's is a wonderful thing to say and an ideal mentality to have, Temptress!

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

I asked on the related Playground thread why there are so few women posting about this. I would think that there would be far more women interested than are speaking up here. Those that do so obviously enjoy themselves, so why aren't there more participating in these threads?

Probably because this message board is huge and I haven't made my way through even half of it yet. That would be why I haven't commented there.

And perhaps one of the reasons more women don't speak of it is because they are uncomfortable doing so. Not everyone is quite as blase and open as I am, and there's nothing wrong with that.

 

[IHaveControl]

Huge Boards

Yes, it definitely is huge.

I only asked here because there seem to be some different people on each, although many are posting on both.

I found Literotica a few of months ago, purely from researching this particular subject. I've been reading through stories (on this and other subjects) since then. I signed up to post http://english.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=257194
which many or some posting on these threads may have already read. I started in on the fora a few weeks ago and I've killed off way more time than I can afford.

My main reason for writing the story was to try and explain to Cathy, coherently, how it felt for me. I decided that if I was going to do that, I may as well turn it into a story for her entertainment, and publishing it here was done to give her an extra thrill and to give something back to those authors who had provided us with some inspiration.

Uncomfortable to talk about? It was and is for me, somewhat. It was probably harder to write the story than to actually try the act. It certainly took me long enough. I'm pretty good with writing technical stuff, but not with emotional stuff. I wrote the first bit one or two paragraphs per night, with constant reworking of what I'd already done. The "good bit" was finished off in only one very late night aided by a goodly dose of Jack Daniels, and both that and the story just flowed - I'm wondering what I could do on LSD or something (no, no such experimentation is planned). There were a couple of minor typos to clean up the next day, but I was most surprised to see that it actually made sense - I was expecting to see utter gibberish when I fired up this machine again.

The experience was very intense for both Cathy and I. Writing about it was, too. So is reading it, for both of us, as it re-ignites everything.

It's certainly changed things for us, and all positively, as communication has increased in quantity and quality.

I expect to see her again this weekend, for the first time since writing it - we live several hours apart and our schedules seldom match. She's looking for more conventional activity this time, or so she says.

 

[michaelinteas]

Michael, please read post number 1687 in this thread.

I wonder if you purposefully broke my rule?

Emma. please except my deepest apologies, I did not see the post of rules before

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

I'll forgive the slip this once, Michael. LOL, in all truth that really is a major pet peeve of mine.

As to IHaveControl's comments: I read your Lit tale. It's good. I can easily see why it brings back all of those emotions and sensations.

And I understand how difficult it can be to discuss a topic like this one. If you have questions that you can't seem to get answers to, feel free to PM me and I'll be glad to share my experience and advice. After all, IMO, wisdom isn't found in the aquisition of knowledge but in the sharing of it.

I post my comments here, in the BDSM board, because that's where I fell in, so to speak. I too am very busy so finding time to sift through all the threads available is a task I can't undertake at this time. However, you can always find me here, LOL, or in PM.

I hope you have an enjoyable weekend with your dear Cathy. A little vanilla play is nothing to scoff at, and if you really want to feel Cathy's cock again, then you must tell her so. In this, I am certain, your pleasure will be all the motivation she needs to dabble in this area more.

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

I have to say this is one of the greatest threads i have been to on this topic, mistress emma, you are a genius in the field of erotic role reversal.
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Sorry, this post was so long, but you compelled me to give you an update on my situation, it sounds like many many female could benifit from a day in your shadow.....

I don't mind the run on at all, Ahhsbitch! And I gladly accept your compliment, LOL! I do share my experience and knowledge with those who ask. I think the human body is a wondrous thing, so full of places to be explored and sensations to be had. I'm not a perfect woman, LOL, and I make no claim to be. However, I love my body, the softness of my skin, the joy my secret places give me and my partners. If more people, male and female, could say the same perhaps we, as humans, would spend less time worried about our bodily perfection and spend more time enjoying them, LOL!

 

[IHaveControl]

Thank You

For the offer and comments.

This is only one aspect of the sexual side of our relationship (more creative than average, I think, but certainly tamer than many here) but still the most novel one and therefore needs further exploration. She's definitely interested, and I certainly don't mind. Our motivations may be quite different, however. I find the mental aspect far more fascinating than the physical, because of the switching of roles and her more active participation. We'll definitely be discussing this further. I also find the anticipation greater than the act, not that I'm disappointed.

I'm trying to get her to write her side, too, as I'd like to read it and I've had requests from others for that as well.

I'd really like to watch her fuck somebody else, preferably female, but I'm not too optimistic about that ever happening.

 

[SirFace]

I don't mind the run on at all, Ahhsbitch! And I gladly accept your compliment, LOL! I do share my experience and knowledge with those who ask. I think the human body is a wondrous thing, so full of places to be explored and sensations to be had. I'm not a perfect woman, LOL, and I make no claim to be. However, I love my body, the softness of my skin, the joy my secret places give me and my partners. If more people, male and female, could say the same perhaps we, as humans, would spend less time worried about our bodily perfection and spend more time enjoying them, LOL!

Hmm, well well put, Maybe I was too hasty in refusing your offer. I, and my lover, feel very much the same way and live it too. I am humbled by your wisdom and clarity.

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

The mental part is part of the physical, IMO, but I understand what you mean. And I too have had the build up be more powerful than the act, so I empathize there as well.

As to your fantasy, though common, it's a good one. My DH too has this fantasy, though now it's not just females. He wants to watch my body take a very large cock. It arouses him beyond measure, that fantasy.

The only comment I can make on menage is that, IME, the relationship really has to be open. I know several swinger type couples, with children, that got into it for fun and found out that often, in committed type relationships, when you switch partners or have menage there can be many unexpected fall outs, the least of which ISN'T the dissolution of the relationship. A couple have to really be secure in their house, per se, in order to do something like that.

Which is why I won't agree to it. At least not in such a fashion as my sub/DH would be involved personally. What would start out as normal questions as to the other partner would become jealousies and eventually would sour our relationship. As I am his first lover, and since I know him better than he knows himself, I won't allow him to get into that position: questioning himself and his abilities or questioning me. The former to keep him mentally healthy and the latter because if he questioned me it would be a 'deal breaker' between us.

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

Hmm, well well put, Maybe I was too hasty in refusing your offer. I, and my lover, feel very much the same way and live it too. I am humbled by your wisdom and clarity.

What a lovely thing to say!

 

[SirFace]

From the heart. I can read your stuff all day.

 

[michaelinteas]

From the heart. I can read your stuff all day.

I'll second that

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

Aww, you two *blush*

I'll get a big head if you don't stop, LOLOL!

Though I'd rather see you both bent before me, clean and pure and waiting with baited breath. Shivering with anticipation and a little fear. Startling when my slippery skin slides against your sensitive openings, testing you, readying you for my dominion.

I know the both of you would be so hot, so eager, and just the thought of it makes me wet. My body is hot, my skin on fire, as I imagine slipping my fingers inside, finding the place where the slightest caress, the gentlest pressure draws your balls close and has you crying out my name.

Mmmm, I'm going to have to relieve some tension, gentlemen and ladies. I'm so slippery right now, two fingers slide in with little resistance and my clit is tingling, I want to come so badly.

 

[27malefurladies]

I'll get a big head if you don't stop, LOLOL!

Though I'd rather see you both bent before me, clean and pure and waiting with baited breath. Shivering with anticipation and a little fear. Startling when my slippery skin slides against your sensitive openings, testing you, readying you for my dominion.

I know the both of you would be so hot, so eager, and just the thought of it makes me wet. My body is hot, my skin on fire, as I imagine slipping my fingers inside, finding the place where the slightest caress, the gentlest pressure draws your balls close and has you crying out my name.

Mmmm, I'm going to have to relieve some tension, gentlemen and ladies. I'm so slippery right now, two fingers slide in with little resistance and my clit is tingling, I want to come so badly.

Emma my body es su body anytime. Just thinking of you gets me rock hard and I've already came 3 times today

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

MMM, 27, I had a wonderful time! I came so hard I saw stars, imagining taking the both of you and then directing you two to take me. OMG, when I imagined the pain of stretching my body around both of your cocks, that's when I came. I'm still wet with come from it.

You were such a tasty fantasy.

 

[27malefurladies]

MMM, 27, I had a wonderful time! I came so hard I saw stars, imagining taking the both of you and then directing you two to take me. OMG, when I imagined the pain of stretching my body around both of your cocks, that's when I came. I'm still wet with come from it.

You were such a tasty fantasy.

Emma you can make a grown man cry and believe me I am crying my full head of with ecstacy tears. If you ever get close to SW michigan we definitly need to get together if nothing else a drink to talk.

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

27, you're much closer than I thought. I'll have to think about that offer, !

OH- something directly correlating to the thread...

I had a friend ask me about using vegetable oil as a lubricant. Here's the thing, its not going to hurt you but of all the natural oils I prefer EV Olive oil. It maintains the slipperiness without getting tacky, which vegetable oil does after extended periods of time.

I'm all for natural lubes, honestly, but I like man-made ones better. Most of them are relatively inexpensive and wash away easily. Splurge the few extra bucks and buy a good product, like KY or WET. Lube comes in handy for more than just anal sex and it's something I tell all my friends to have on hand.

Honestly, when my daughter got her finger caught in a pop tab, after I'd used soap, and vegetable oil, and olive oil, I got my KY and it slipped right off.

 

[27malefurladies]

27, you're much closer than I thought. I'll have to think about that offer, !

OH- something directly correlating to the thread...

I had a friend ask me about using vegetable oil as a lubricant. Here's the thing, its not going to hurt you but of all the natural oils I prefer EV Olive oil. It maintains the slipperiness without getting tacky, which vegetable oil does after extended periods of time.

I'm all for natural lubes, honestly, but I like man-made ones better. Most of them are relatively inexpensive and wash away easily. Splurge the few extra bucks and buy a good product, like KY or WET. Lube comes in handy for more than just anal sex and it's something I tell all my friends to have on hand.

Honestly, when my daughter got her finger caught in a pop tab, after I'd used soap, and vegetable oil, and olive oil, I got my KY and it slipped right off.

Leave it to the good ole KY.. How close are we Emma? Picture me pounding you from the front and using your dildo for the back. Now that is what I call double penetration.

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

We are in connecting states, LOL. And as far as penetration goes, I'd be up for it if you and the dildo were both in my pussy. Anal sex is something I do for/on others. I don't receive it. I just don't care for it.

More than that though, the pain of having two cocks, or rather more than just a cock, stuffed into my extremely hot, liquid cunt is a pain I'd sell my soul to have every day. The feeling of massive amounts of my own come mixed with the come of my lovers, stinging my flesh where its stretched to the tearing point, makes me come every time.

God, there you go again, getting my imagination going, getting my body aroused.

 

[27malefurladies]

We are in connecting states, LOL. And as far as penetration goes, I'd be up for it if you and the dildo were both in my pussy. Anal sex is something I do for/on others. I don't receive it. I just don't care for it.

More than that though, the pain of having two cocks, or rather more than just a cock, stuffed into my extremely hot, liquid cunt is a pain I'd sell my soul to have every day. The feeling of massive amounts of my own come mixed with the come of my lovers, stinging my flesh where its stretched to the tearing point, makes me come every time.

God, there you go again, getting my imagination going, getting my body aroused.

Well since we are in connecting states maybe we will have to connect sometime especially if we keep getting eachother so damn hot. As for anal you can have your way with me and then we can slam my cock and as many dildos as we can work up in your cunt making you scream with pain/ecstacy