Strap-on experiences

AAkasha said:
Male subs who wish and pray for their "vanilla" wives to get kinky need to realize that there is hope....lots of women start to enjoy things like fucking their man up the ass -- it just does not happen over night!!

The best thing a man can do is give lots of gentle encouragement when his wife/gf playfully takes control. Tell her you love it.

Akasha

That's very good advice, Akasha! Of course there are some women who find it dirty and disgusting and they'll never be able to do it. But women, on the whole, are very much into giving pleasure to their partner. If you tell your SO that this is something you really want to try, and she seems interested but worried, you can reassure her you'll be very safe and take it slow. If she sees how sincere you are, most of the time, she'll be inclined to try it out.
 
My friend actually wants me to use one on him over the weekend. I'm real interested to see how he reacts to it. it would probably be new to both of us. So i'll let you know how the experince goes I guess. :p
 
Please do, Temptress. Be sure to be specific, LOLOL! I want to be able to relish in his taking as much as you did!
 
Temptress_lee said:
My friend actually wants me to use one on him over the weekend. I'm real interested to see how he reacts to it. it would probably be new to both of us. So i'll let you know how the experince goes I guess. :p



Am definitly interested in how your experience turns out and what did he think?
 
All of us would relish ANY descriptions of "taking"

Emma_Ray_Garrett said:
Please do, Temptress. Be sure to be specific, LOLOL! I want to be able to relish in his taking as much as you did!

It certainly doens't have to be the first time.... thought that is interesting. Certainly there is still a learning curve for a beginner to learn more from someone who is experienced.
 
uptoplay2 said:
It certainly doens't have to be the first time.... thought that is interesting. Certainly there is still a learning curve for a beginner to learn more from someone who is experienced.

I agree, any conquest (and I don't mean of the bed post notching type) is exhilirating to share. I shared my first time taking a man's ass earlier in the thread and found my excitement and arousal still as fresh as the memory.

There's always knowledge to be gained, even for those most experienced. As a writer, I want to know how bodies moved, what sounds were made, what words were spoken. Did you look in his face as you guided your body or your tool into him. Did he quiver, did sweat break out on his body? Did you taste the pre come seeping from his cock as you penetrated him? Do you bind his cock and balls, watching them darken and swell while his body flowered open to your penetration?

Sorry, my imagination has run amok again.
 
Hehe will see i've never used one, but i've had regular anal sex were I was the one being penetrated before. So I have an idea on how to do it but i'm thinking of buying one that vibrates, or something so i'll atleast get something out of it too. I didn't expect that out of him though. He's a single, dad, and i'm just someone who babysits his kids every now and then so it shocked me that he was really that kinky. I haven't met very many men who were willing.

:p
 
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Has your friend enjoyed anal sex before? If not, I suggest starting out with the smallest vibrator, length and diameter wise, you can. Make sure its big enough, or has a flange, so you can keep good control of it, and don't overlook the opportunity to feel him with your finger first. A rectum, male or female, feels different from a pussy. The flesh is still very soft and hot, but an ass is smaller, IME, than even a virgin woman. The sphincter tightens down on you, it holds your so tight sometimes you think the circulation might stop.

And feeling inside of him, commiting to memory where his protate is exactly and its size, watching his reactions so you know what is beyond pleasure and what is not are crucial, IMO.

Best of luck to you! I can't wait to hear how everything goes.
 
He told me he's just really into anal play. I'm assuming he's masturbated with a dildo because he told me he had one locked in the car. But i'll start slow it's not like i'm going to ram it up there. I know from experince how much it hurts just to have it shoved in there like that and such.
 
LOL, it wasn't that I thought you would just go to him! I had a laugh though, because I've had a few subs who wanted just that! Talk about OWIE! I warned them, and they were very much stimulated by pain, so it that instance I gave them what they wanted.

I was also tickled by his 'one locked in the car'. I can't help it, the writer in me imagined a scenario with a police officer, him pulled over, and finding the registration for the car...

It sounds like you're going to have a really good time!
 
Emma_Ray_Garrett said:
To answer your question, ES, yes I have. I've also been physically involved in several first time F-M anal sex experiences. And I assure you, much to my delight, every man has cried out with agonized ecstasy when their orgasm hit them.

Thanks Emma for the answer!

And yes I am one of those guys that cried out with agonized ecstasy on my first time and many times since when taken with a strapon! She even used a cockring with me on my first time like you mention!

However, I am still interested in the woman's cries of surprise and ecstasy on her first time using a strapon on a man. Have you worked with women who it was their first time fucking a man with a strapon?

Tell us in detail, her facial expressions, the dimples on her butt cheeks as she thrusts into him furiously, her rapid breaths, her fingernails clenching hard digging into his ass as she holds him in position, her nipples, etc etc.

Sorry I got carried away :)

ES
 
eroticspank said:
Thanks Emma for the answer!

And yes I am one of those guys that cried out with agonized ecstasy on my first time and many times since when taken with a strapon! She even used a cockring with me on my first time like you mention!

However, I am still interested in the woman's cries of surprise and ecstasy on her first time using a strapon on a man. Have you worked with women who it was their first time fucking a man with a strapon?

Tell us in detail, her facial expressions, the dimples on her butt cheeks as she thrusts into him furiously, her rapid breaths, her fingernails clenching hard digging into his ass as she holds him in position, her nipples, etc etc.

Sorry I got carried away :)

ES
I would like to know the anwser to this also :D
 
LOL, ES! Well, let me put it like this, most women don't really cry out, at least not IME. They do however get glazed eyes, their tongues flick out and wet their dry lips, their breathing becomes ragged. Women tend to make awed sounds: soft gasps, faint hums of appreciation, the sound you make when something stings a bit, and definitely some 'oh, oh is that good?'.

I always suggest using your hand, instead of a strap on the first time. By the time we work up to that, the women know what pace their men enjoy best. But yes, women get into it and their thrusting, IME, is never as frenzied as a man's can get. Each stroke has a purpose, they are measured. Even if they are using a harness that stimulates the woman sexually while she fucks the man's ass, they still seem to focus on steady thrusts, on teasing, and their eyes are (especially the first time) glued to the piece of plastic attached to their body, watching wide eyed as it fills their partner and his pleasure echoes around them.
 
Emma_Ray_Garrett said:
LOL, ES! Well, let me put it like this, most women don't really cry out, at least not IME. They do however get glazed eyes, their tongues flick out and wet their dry lips, their breathing becomes ragged. Women tend to make awed sounds: soft gasps, faint hums of appreciation, the sound you make when something stings a bit, and definitely some 'oh, oh is that good?'.

I always suggest using your hand, instead of a strap on the first time. By the time we work up to that, the women know what pace their men enjoy best. But yes, women get into it and their thrusting, IME, is never as frenzied as a man's can get. Each stroke has a purpose, they are measured. Even if they are using a harness that stimulates the woman sexually while she fucks the man's ass, they still seem to focus on steady thrusts, on teasing, and their eyes are (especially the first time) glued to the piece of plastic attached to their body, watching wide eyed as it fills their partner and his pleasure echoes around them.
Just reading this is very erotic. and it is so well written that I can see it in my mind just like I am there :rose:
 
Have you been there, Michaelinteas? Have you watched her face while she entered you, felt the fullness inside reflected in the awe in her eyes. Did she take your cock in her hand, her grip firm and solid, feeling each pulse of your need as she filled you?

I'm curious, is it the words, the style, the power of my thoughts that is erotic? Would it be more stimulating if I were more graphic? Tell me.
 
Emma_Ray_Garrett said:
Have you been there, Michaelinteas? Have you watched her face while she entered you, felt the fullness inside reflected in the awe in her eyes. Did she take your cock in her hand, her grip firm and solid, feeling each pulse of your need as she filled you?

I'm curious, is it the words, the style, the power of my thoughts that is erotic? Would it be more stimulating if I were more graphic? Tell me.


I have been there with a vibrator, but not a strapon. There is no other feeling as sexy and erotic as being taken while my cock is in her hand. It is all of these thing that you mention that i find very erotic. and the only way that i think it would be more stimulating is to feel the power that is being givin when I am taken by a strapon for the first time. I can not wait for that to happen. Being more graphic would be a plus, but I do love your style just the way it is :rose:
 
Since you were so good to answer, I will give you a gift. It's not quite as good as actually being there, but perhaps it will help you feel the power she feels when she takes you.

I like you on your knees, your bottom presented to me as a prize. I delight in making you slick, each drop of lubrication glinting in the light, the rosy aperture before me contracting and relaxing as the hunger in your blood ignites your body. I take my time spreading the moisture around, and each gasp and moan you make as I dip first one finger, then two, inside your soft but fiery opening hits me low in my belly. It makes my pussy liquify, it brings my clit to attention.

But I don't touch myself, no, that is for you to do once I've finished. It's your mouth and tongue, your lips and teeth, and ultimately your cock that I'll have buried between my slick folds. It's your physical strength that will impale me and bring me writhing to completion. And I enjoy the wait, for when you finally come, that explosion is what fills me with power, joy, and surcease.

So I keep myself focused on the task at hand. You wiggle your bottom, your ass is well lubed and you want more. I swat you, hard enough to leave a warm mark upon your flesh. You moan again and your ass clenches around my fingers. This is the beginning of the power transfer. This point is when I know you await, nervously, anxiously, intently, for my next move. I swirl my finger over your button, LOL, and oh you cry out beautifully. Then I begin my thrusts. Maybe I give you a vibe, perhaps I simply use my hand, but soon I am stopping, telling you to be still. You try, oh you try so hard, but you can't help the pumping of your hips. You want more, you need more, but you don't understand what or how to get it.

I soothe you. I know how to give you what you want. I turn you to lie on your back and I add another finger. It feels so good when I slide them out of you, and each withdrawl of my body forces pre come to the head of your cock. Each slightly painful entry, the fullness, makes you want to get away, but then I glide back out, and the pleasure is explosive. I take your cock in my hand, holding it so tightly that even if you orgasmed, your seed could not escape.

And I begin the torture in earnest. My lips descend, my hot mouth engulfing your length while my fingers manipulate places inside of you. Places you had no idea could bring such need, such desire, such delight. I will take you far into my mouth, until the head of your cock is almost as deep as you want it to be. The salty flavor of your arousal is manna for my soul. With each lick, each suckle, each stroke, you give me more and I swallow it greedily. For each drop is your power and it makes my blood hot. My nipples harden and I can feel the wetness of my own desire slipping from my pussy.

When your balls throb, the one hard pulse, you scream. I take my hand completely away, the only stimulus my hand choking your cock. You feel that explosion, you know it means you are but a hairsbreadth from release, but I withhold it. You are angry, perhaps, but you love it. You relish my dominion. After a few moments, you settle and I release you. I rise above you.

"Give me your cock. Let me feel your strength. I will ride you until my juices coat us both, until the slippery sounds of penetration ring in our ears. And you will make me come."

You moan, you agree. Once I've come, my head thrown back, my mouth open, I sit up. I look into your eyes.

"Come for me."
 
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Emma_Ray_Garrett said:
Since you were so good to answer, I will give you a gift. It's not quite as good as actually being there, but perhaps it will help you feel the power she feels when she takes you.

I like you on your knees, your bottom presented to me as a prize. I delight in making you slick, each drop of lubrication glinting in the light, the rosy aperture before me contracting and relaxing as the hunger in your blood ignites your body. I take my time spreading the moisture around, and each gasp and moan you make as I dip first one finger, then two, inside your soft but fiery opening hits me low in my belly. It makes my pussy liquify, it brings my clit to attention.

But I don't touch myself, no, that is for you to do once I've finished. It's your mouth and tongue, your lips and teeth, and ultimately your cock that I'll have buried between my slick folds. It's your physical strength that will impale me and bring me writhing to completion. And I enjoy the wait, for when you finally come, that explosion is what fills me with power, joy, and surcease.

So I keep myself focused on the task at hand. You wiggle your bottom, your ass is well lubed and you want more. I swat you, hard enough to leave a warm mark upon your flesh. You moan again and your ass clenches around my fingers. This is the beginning of the power transfer. This point is when I know you await, nervously, anxiously, intently, for my next move. I swirl my finger over your button, LOL, and oh you cry out beautifully. Then I begin my thrusts. Maybe I give you a vibe, perhaps I simply use my hand, but soon I am stopping, telling you to be still. You try, oh you try so hard, but you can't help the pumping of your hips. You want more, you need more, but you don't understand what or how to get it.

I soothe you. I know how to give you what you want. I turn you to lie on your back and I add another finger. It feels so good when I slide them out of you, and each withdrawl of my body forces pre come to the head of your cock. Each slightly painful entry, the fullness, makes you want to get away, but then I glide back out, and the pleasure is explosive. I take your cock in my hand, holding it so tightly that even if you orgasmed, your seed could not escape.

And I begin the torture in earnest. My lips descend, my hot mouth engulfing your length while my fingers manipulate places inside of you. Places you had no idea could bring such need, such desire, such delight. I will take you far into my mouth, until the head of your cock is almost as deep as you want it to be. The salty flavor of your arousal is manna for my soul. With each lick, each suckle, each stroke, you give me more and I swallow it greedily. For each drop is your power and it makes my blood hot. My nipples harden and I can feel the wetness of my own desire slipping from my pussy.

When your balls throb, the one hard pulse, you scream. I take my hand completely away, the only stimulus my hand choking your cock. You feel that explosion, you know it means you are but a hairsbreadth from release, but I withhold it. You are angry, perhaps, but you love it. You relish my dominion. After a few moments, you settle and I release you. I rise above you.

"Give me your cock. Let me feel your strength. I will ride you until my juices coat us both, until the slippery sounds of penetration ring in our ears. And you will make me come."

You moan, you agree. Once I've come, my head thrown back, my mouth open, I sit up. I look into your eyes.

"Come for me."

OHHHHHHHHHHH MYYYYYYYYYYYYYY that was increadable darlin. :heart: :kiss: :rose:

If there is anything else that I can do to get another gift like this one, just let me know.

I could feel all of the pain and the pleasure clear up to the release. :devil:
 
27, I think you might be right. Ah, well, no more tales from me unless he properly apologizes.

So, 27, have you looked into any more things for testing the waters with your SO? Is anything really piquing your interest?
 
actually yeah but have not talked with her yet. not sure of names so forgive me for the description but it is one that is on here quite a bit and has room for both anal and vagina plugs for ladies. not sure but you may have recommended one like that.

Now as for Michael ya know I have been a good boy do I get anything?

I tell ya what you seem like an awesome woman maybe you could take my cherry if she (SO) doesn't get back with me on it. :nana:
 
Emma_Ray_Garrett said:
LOL, it wasn't that I thought you would just go to him! I had a laugh though, because I've had a few subs who wanted just that! Talk about OWIE! I warned them, and they were very much stimulated by pain, so it that instance I gave them what they wanted.

I was also tickled by his 'one locked in the car'. I can't help it, the writer in me imagined a scenario with a police officer, him pulled over, and finding the registration for the car...

It sounds like you're going to have a really good time!

Hehe yeah.... he has to hide stuff from his kids. Can't just leave stuff like that laying around. They'll pull it out and think its a kids toy. :p
 
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