Strap on Advice

[voyeur73]

Hi,

Long time reader, first time poster here.

My GF and I are looking into buying a strap on for her to use on me. We appear to be spoilt for choice and need some help.

The vac-u-loc harness system looks like a good piece of kit and we would like to hear about experiences from others. We would like to know how well it allows the woman to thrust and control the attached dildo. There are a combination of models, one of which includes a vaginal and anal attachment for the woman to insert into herself while wearing the harness - is this somewhat distracting for the wearer?

We are also considering one of the UR3 dildos and again would welcome any comments from people. We are aiming for the most realistic looking dildo available, are there any other types?

Do people have good experience of any other models of harness/strap on?

We have done plenty of research on the forums here but some of them go back quite a few years so we thought it would be worthwhile seeing what's new in the world of strap ons.

We would like some hints/advice/tips do's/don'ts from the women out there as well.

Wow, our first post!

Many thanks for any advice.

Voyeur73

 

[trb2216]

if your like my wife and i you'll have a hard time getting exactly what you want the first time. no matter how much research you've done. get one that you both like the features of, and if that isn't to your liking you'll have a bit more knowledge in the features that you like.

as for us we quite enjoy a jelly dildo for me (about 8 inches) and a viberating velvet harness for her ( pouch for insertable bullet vibe). try to find a harness that is not a g-string. most of the time the g-string harnesses are not as comfortable for the wearer.

hope i helped good luck.

 

[voyeur73]

Excellent, thanks for the advice, looking forward to my first time.

 

[oldkinky]

Hi,

Long time reader, first time poster here.

My GF and I are looking into buying a strap on for her to use on me. We appear to be spoilt for choice and need some help.

The vac-u-loc harness system looks like a good piece of kit and we would like to hear about experiences from others. We would like to know how well it allows the woman to thrust and control the attached dildo. There are a combination of models, one of which includes a vaginal and anal attachment for the woman to insert into herself while wearing the harness - is this somewhat distracting for the wearer?

We are also considering one of the UR3 dildos and again would welcome any comments from people. We are aiming for the most realistic looking dildo available, are there any other types?

Do people have good experience of any other models of harness/strap on?

We have done plenty of research on the forums here but some of them go back quite a few years so we thought it would be worthwhile seeing what's new in the world of strap ons.

We would like some hints/advice/tips do's/don'ts from the women out there as well.

Wow, our first post!

Many thanks for any advice.

Voyeur73

We have two strap ons that we like.

Vibrating Anal Twister Strap On. This canbe used either as ananal toy for prostate massage or as a strap on. Either feels great.

We also like Bend Over Beginner Kit. It has a harness, two interchangeable Tantus silicone dildos and a vibrator that fits in the harness to stimulate her clitoris. It is so erotic to see her wearing the strap on and she goes wild. She lubes the dildo and my dick. Then she inserts it in me while she talks dirty about fucking me in the ass as she gives me a handjob. We both cum at the same time. My orgasms are so intense.

I read good things about the Feeldoe. That will be our next toy.

 

[infinity706]

I'd say feeldoe is a really good one. One thing to think about, though, it's a lot easier to use if you insert the bulb anally.

 

[AlaskanM4]

My advice

My advice is to keep it simple at first.

Get one of the beginner kits that can accept different dildos. After a few sessions, you will know the things you like and what is missing from the beginner kit.

At that point, you can invest is some good quality stuff that floats your boat...and hers.

My favorite is the feeldoe with a homemade harness that we developed...but that suits me. My parnters had different tastes in strap-ons and you need to see what you really enjoy.

Good luck and happy strapping