Strangle Spots and Nosebleeds?

Something we've done lately as a nod to breathplay without the risk (as I'm more at risk from harm through this than the average kinkster) is that he'll squeeze enough that I can feel it and get that thrill but not enough to physically prevent me from breathing. I will automatically hold my breath until he lets go. If I have trouble managing that, I will allow a tiny amount of air into my lungs through my nose but usually, I can hold my breath for as long as he would have choked me. Sounds a little theatrical I know but we both enjoy this kind of play too much not to try working around it. It's very reassuring to know the worst that's likely to happen is me fainting.

This is what the boyfriend and I do. Its nice because he puts enough pressure for it to be sexy but not enough that I panic and think im never going to breathe again. That and I know its not choking but its along the maybe same lines of the control, he grabs my jaw before and after and makes me look at him; he does it for the control of it all. Very sexy, but again not enough for me to ya know...die from Lol.
 
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